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Hello experts..for the cancer treatment of a friend, we had collected around 15-17 lakhs of money and her family had transferred 7 lakhs..so total amount in her account was 23-25 lakhs,of which 10 lakhs has been spent in treatment and rest money was transferred to her- to- be husband(fiancee) account,who kept the money as Fixed deposit for 4 months. She is 24 years old. Will it create trouble for her or her fiance in income tax issues? Pleass suggest ways to avoid trouble.

Hi pooja iam 37 male i have not been with any girl or woman in my life till now.I think i get very tensed qnd nervous whenever i think of dating or even talking to any girl thqts why iqm not even getting married plus i think i will able to satisfy her mentally and physically.Also how do i find a good girlfriend qnd wife.alwo are girla also interested in sex like males

Hi, mine is an arrange marriage, my wife had previous affair before marriage and she did not open up when asked about her past relationship, which I understand as it does not matter after our marriage. We have two children. After almost 7 years I found her cheating with my best friend and caught her red handed. She confessed and felt sorry for betraying me and promised she will not repeat again ever. I forgive her because of my kids. However we our relation was never the same again with lots of fights and arguments. She is very sort tempered and fights with whole family now and then on small matters. We eventually separated, even her parents fought with her and are in no more talking terms with her. Now I found she is having an affaire with my business partners son. What should I do now?

Hi, My GF of last 2 years gets attracted to men and shares her feelings with me as well. She developed feelings for a guy and he kissed her once when they were drunk. Later they had a talk and she informed me that they chose to be friends, they are still talk to each other so are other male friends of her. I always say she has the freedom to move on any given day but she can't cheat. She says, she is free spirited and she is ok even if I visit a prostitute house. After hours of discussion and me scolding her and she trying to justify her mental state, she promised me she will draw a circle which I am in and wont let anybody into that circle. She is in her early 30s. She has a crush another guy on insta and she plans to meet but she promised , he would just be friend. I tried to move on from relationship 2-3 times because of her above trait but she talked me back into relationship. Can I trust her?

Hi I’m married but struggling with thoughts of ethical non monogamy. My physical needs won’t be ever fulfilled in the marriage is what I feel and I really think it’s ok to have an open marriage, with my spouse in agreement of course. How do I bring this topic to discuss with my partner without getting labeled as non faithful or not in love etc?

always thinking about past love

Hi I am Anuj. I did everything for my wife. but she was under the influence of her mother left me and now filed a wrong complain in the court. tell me how can I came out and is this really advisable to stay with her again after the 3 years.

Hiii Me 40 and my distant cousin 39 started to chat after 20 years and out of the blue she asked me that did had feelings for me earlier i said yes and i said lets talk on daily basis now to which she asked do you still have feelings for me know also to which i asked shoud i lie or say the truth and then i said yes i have and will be forever to which she said tu sach mein pagal hai. I am not sure what she is thinking is she having the same feeling ??

Hi LG, I have been married for 35+ years, last Jan my wife walked out on me for no apparent reason, ours has been a troubled marriage and this is not the first time she is walking out on me. She filed a domestic violence complaint against me at the local police station, which after instigation by the police was rejected by them. Its been more than 1.5 years now since she walked out, i tried to get family elders to talk to her so as to come to an amicable settlement, but she refuses to talk. I would like to end this relationship as i do not trust her anymore, kindly let me know what are my legal options and how i can end this relationship with minimum financial and asset damage to self

I am 67 years old with married life of 41 years. my wife aged 58 years old, underwent Hysterectomy 8 years back due to ovarian cyst. I am interested in Sex. my wife doesn't have any interest in sex. we use vaginal lubricants also. how to solve this problem.

Hi there I am a 43 yrs old woman. Having understood the perils of secretly talking(chat), my bldg friend and I decided to discontinue talking. It was very difficlt for me to let go. I lost appetite, willingness and felt anxiety as I tried to move away from him. I cried inconsolably for days and yet to overcome the fact that we are friends no more. He was a genuinely good person and very mature with thoughtful words. And not just to impress. Hes not the kind to follow mob culture and has his own independent thoughts even though these might mean opposing the world or not following the fads. I still find that hes on my mind always and I want him to still make me a small insignificant part of his life. What do I do??

My ex texted me that he bought a gift for me when we were together and wants me to take it . So shall I buy something as I thought to gift him when we were together?

I am 49 years male, married and having two kids aged 16 years and 13 years. My relations with my spouse are not smooth since many years and we don't have physical intimacy and don't have sex with more than five-six years. I am attracted towards a girl aged about 30 plus years working in my office. We used to go around after office hours, had some coffee and chat and then I dropped her at her residence. I have expressed my love to her and she has responded that she will be my friend forever and don't want to disturb and ruin my family. I was okay with this as I was mentally happy to have her as my friend. But from few days, she has started ignoring me and giving late replies to my messages. I asked her to meet after office hours but she refused on one pretext or other. For few days, we don't have any communications. I was very disturbed and depressed about her behaviour. I even asked the reasons why she has changed, but she replied that she has not... Now, we are exchanging only rare few official messages...... I am so much shocked that I am not even finding courage to ask her to meet.... I fear I might lost her......Kindly advise me

I'm 48 unmarried n looking gorward to get married. I once suffered with bladder cancer which is cured. Also takes medicines for epilepsy which is under control. I'm in contact with a 45 yrs old girl who is feeling unsecured of getting married as she thinks that its too late to get married n there will be complications in conceiving a baby. Pls help how i can assure her a good life even if we are not able to hv our baby. Is it really a problem in having a baby at this age?

I m 56 now and my wife is 52 , actually We have nice sex life , We do it once in @15 days . Is it Ok or less. I think my wife is not satisfied. She expects once in a week.

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Hi, I am having an affair with my co-worker. She is married. We enjoyed a lot together, even unprotected. Now, my family has fixed my marriage. How do I break off with my co-worker? Should I take any test? Should I confess all this to my would-be wife?

Hi Love Guru, I am married now for 4 years and having a 15 months little daughter. My wife is very reluctant for physical relationship after birth of our daughter. In fact, we had last sex an year ago. Do you think this is due to parenting issues or has she lost interest in me or interest in sex altogether?

Hello Sir, I am Dhanshri, I am leaving with my BF. We have good relations since last 4 years. But I am not satisfied in sexual relationship. I told him too many times. We tried 2 to 3 rounds in one night but still I am unsatisfied.

Hello M'aam, I am a 43 year old woman happily married and we hv a 15 year old son. Recently I became friends with a man in my building and we r now good chat friends. I hvnt met him ever though. Hes married too and has two kids. By now we hv developed a good friendship and we sometimes chat till late night too. The talks are all about my family, his family, movies, series, work. Initially i felt extremely guilty to talk to him as I felt i was betraying my husband by talking to another married man. but now i hv begun to love these chats. He too dsnt mind talking and we hv becum very good friends. I want to know if this is wrong. I am getting so used to sharing all updates about my family to him. And he shares updates about his family. I hv been so lost in his words that i hv not let my hubby touch me for intimacy and I just sleep with thoughts of this friend. What should i do??

I am a 76 year old young man! And my wife is a just 71 year young girl!! We love each othe very fondly. We remember our marital encounters and enjoy talking about them along with other matters. The sexual drive in me hasn't disappeared till now, but has reduced as per my age(I feel so). We both still have sex once in a week and both of us enjoy the occassion. I am pretty healthy with some high BP which is perfectly under control with a single tablet in a day. No sugar. I do 7-8 km morning and evening walk and can go up five floors by stairs without any strain on my system. I am a pure vegitarian. Now-a-days my wife has started getting a dout whether we should engage in sex at this age. I showed her the medical advices from some doctors that sex at any age is good for health and helps in relaxing the tensions. Before my last session I took one tablet of Sildenafil Citrate tablet 50mg and had a better erection and we both enjoyed a lot. Now my question is whether I can take a tablet of 50 mg before every session (once a week) and if so for how long is safe? Can I try a 100mg tablet? I confess that even though without the tablet we were enjoying, but with the tablet the erection is better and that makes us both happy. Please advise whether I can try with a 100 mg tablet and if so upto what age can I take this medicine without any side effects? Thanks a lot in antecepation of your reply.

Hi Luv Guru, I am 45 yrs old and married. My wife is a lovey companion and we have good relationship with our usual fights and disagreement. We also enjoy each other during our physical relationship. My wife has a friend who unfortunately lost her husband a year ago. She is my wife's friend in her morning and evening walks, common kittys etc. She has hardly come to our house. I was not knowing his husband also never met even. But in a freak accident he lost his life. My wife being a emotional person was very upset and cried a lot. She often talks about her friend and her life that how she is doing and becoming normal. One night during our close moment, I told my wife that you care a lot for your friend, why donot you care for her physical needs also. She is young and may be in need of physical relationship with some one. Why do not you help her by introducing me to her? She asked how come this thing came to my mind? I told just casually, she told me that I am dreaming. After that we have not discussed on this subject. Our relationship is normal. Please guide me whether I suggested some thing wrong?

Meri biwi ne mujh par 4 saal pehle dahej pratha , maintinance , aur domestic voilence ka case kiya tha aur ab wo aana chahti hai but hum dono me viswaas bilkul khatam ho chuka hai to kya aise me mujhe us se divorce lena chahiye ya usko saath rakhna chahiye ?

my girlfriend not respect me any time but she remember me sometime

सभी को अपनी wife से ही प्रॉब्लम है ? किसी को अपने Husband से प्रॉब्लम नहीं है ? क्या महिलाये इतनी Problem Create करती है ? हम यह क्यों भूल जाते है कि जब आपकी शादी हुयी थी तब आप दोनों ने अपने औकात से ज्यादा बढ़कर दिखावा किया था, आप सभी अपनी अपने को करोडपती शो कर रहे थे। करोडपती हो तो अब काम भी उनके जैसा ही कीजिये। जो हो वही दिखाओ। फिर किसी को कोई प्रॉब्लम नहीं होगी , ना Wife ना Husband. और एक बात - बिना प्रॉब्लम का आपको कोई नहीं मिलेगा, चाहे कितनी ही शादी करलो l जो पहला रिश्ता बनता है, उसके जैसा कोई नहीं होता l

I got married (arranged marriage) two months back. But my husband has not proceeded for any intimate physical contact. He just hugs me occasionally but never proceeds further. When I asked him whether he likes me or not …he says he loves me…but tells need to develop more compatibility before proceeding. He is a gentleman and takes care of me. But not willing to proceed for physical intimacy. I am confused and don’t know how to address this issue. Both of us are IT professionals with MNCs and work from home.

Exams and all are over ... My bf didn't texted me .. I asked him do you want to talk or not the he sounded non interested while talking and then i asked him what happened to you as he said he didn't wanted to talk to anyone he needs time ... So I gave him its been a month... I asked him again .. he was visiting places with his friends( girl) but didn't want to talk .. he said he didn't want talk just want to travel and need some time . I asked him how much time u need its been past one month . I said him to talk to me on call and clear it and then he said that If you cant spend days without talking to me , if u can't understand my situation and can't wait then u can leave ... What should I do ?? Is it easy for boys to just end up things??

i am a 31 year old male workaholic who is recently married. The thing is i don't like to have sex. I don't understand why. I try my best to arouse myself only to be let down by my thoughts. Due to this my wife thinks something is wrong with her & clearly nothing is. I do get tired coming home from since i have a job and a business. Sometimes to relieve my stress i masturbate daily which i hate, knowing that i am married now. Also, while i do have sex with my wife but not that frequently, i don't come. But when i masturbate, i do. What should i do to this problem???

Hello mam ia. 48 yrs i am divorce person i love some one but she called brother but i want to spend my life with her

My daughter 30 is in a unhealthy relationship. Her lover dont want to marry her. He is an irresponsible guy who traumatizes my daughter. But my daughter is not leaving him also. How can i change her mind. Stages of advice is over.

My mother-in-law loves me intensively.I also the same.This is not known my Wife.How to manage the both. But,my mother in law love me truely, is 64 old.I'm 55 old.She have Husband.Is this relationship will long last?Please,guide me well feature.Thank you Mam.

Mam, my boyfriend doesn't reply me, what should I do, we had a fight from last 2 days

I lost trust on my husband , as he lies too much, he is not at financially stable from many years, he keeps losing money in business and is been in debts, hidden those things, still i tried to continue in the marriage because of my 4 years old kid. But now its like nothing left in our marriage I don't even feel like talking to him, shall i continue to stay with him for baby

Hi, I've gotten into relationship an year ago, for the first eight months it was long distance, couple months ago she had the need to do intership and needed to move to the place im working at, it was hard to find pg so we disided to be in live in together, i have two more guy friends who live next door, we all cook and eat together and all, the problem arose when we started to live together and we are constantly fighting, about tiny things , some of it are my mistakes and some are hers, we are finding hard to go along, i really want this relationship to work ,y friends are also telling me we are not going in right direction, sometimes i feel it too, yesterday after fight she said she regrets being in relationship and she is going back(she didn't) , need some solution to get the things under control, i love her with all my might and want her in my life.

Hi.. I'm pallavi bilagi I got married 4 months ago.. Now I'm not interested to continue with this relationship please help me out

My bf says he doesn't want to talk to anyone but at the same time he is active on social media .. posting stuff ... Is it a sign that he has lost interest in me ?

My boyfriend barely texts me now .. when i asked he said he is tired of everything and he doesn't know what to talk about with me . He is busy with books as both of our exams are approaching. I didn't texted him whole so he also didn't but he is active on other social media . Idk what is going on . Please help

My husband doesn't like me and loves me

I'm Pallavi.. I got married just 4 months ago but I'm not interested to continue with this relationship.. So what should i do?

Hello Mam ! Mam I don’t know if I have right to ask you this cause Iam still 17 ! Mam Iam Seetha ..I have completed my inter 2nd year and I am preparing for Neet 2023 and Yes I am least confident about my first attempt so I’ll be preparing for Neet 2024 to ! There is a boy whom I know him since 5th class but we were close to each other from 9th class ….. but like a good friend and 4 months ago he proposed me and I slowly fell in love with him !!! He is a good guy he respects me a lot and he respects everyone …from past one month we were very close and we met several times and mam Highlighting this point —-mam we had passionate romance twice but not that intensely and now I feel regret of doing so if he leaves me ….. He is a guy who respects my time and his time he don’t have obsession like I have for him ….I always force him to stay or talk bit longer and he felt like I won’t respect his time and Said Iam a person who won’t understand his efforts he puts for us and he said 10 days ago that we should be away for a year so that concentrate on ourself and he said to that I should change to a mature person …and he blocked me everywhere but I refused but I done it I mean neither we talked or chatted with each other for 5 days but after few days I called him from other number and he know that and unblocked me so we spoke to each other ! He said that we should be apart for our self but then again he said we should have been friends only but whatever happened is happened now we can’t do anything he said ! I asked him that be true and if you want to ask for a break up you can buy he said no I want you and I don’t want to leave you … and yeah mam he never tried to be physical with me …only I was and for this he sayid that I never understand him and etc etc and said that I just loved him physically not truely and that broke my heart ! But I don’t know what I should do now ? He said this is test for us that will our love be the same for one year ? But then again few days ago We talked to each other and that to I started first …yesterday as a friend we were talking and he said he wrote a poem and I asked for whom u wrote this he said For my ex …he said that if she comes again then he will accept and I was really confused 😐…And we had a huge fight he felt bad and I too but lastly I said sorry and today he asked for a break up and I said I won’t repeat my behaviour gain and I asked for last chance so that I could change from childish behaviour to a mature girl as he likes … Now you please say me mam that what should be done ? Should I have to stay away from him temporarily until I get changed to a better person as he wants or should I break up with him since he said we should have been frnds only ! What should I do mam ? Kindly please reply me as fast as you could mam !!! 😕

Dear love guru mai ek talakshuda mahila se social media par mila Mai bhi talakshuda hu thode din ki chatting ke bad humne aapas me apne number bhi exchange kar liye hume chat karte hue almost one month ho Gaya hai or Humne aapas me kai photos bhi share kiye hai (not intimate) ek din bato bato me unhone mujhse kaha ki i got a crush on you mai bi unko pasand karne laga hu or unhone ye bhi kaha ki wo ab relationship me aan chahti hai par unhe ab Tak koi Mila nai unhone mujhe apne bare me kafi kuch bataya nai unke sath relationship me aana chahta hu par mujhe samajh nai aata ke kaise kahu dar hai ki kahin wo bura na Maan Jaye so please help me mai unko apne Dil ki baat kaise bataun kaha se shuruwat Karu pls help me. thanks and regards

Hi mam .I'm a mother of three grown up kids and i got divorced with their father .after one year i met this young man and I'm in love with him .now it's almost five years I'm with him .but nowadays he seems different .

Why I feel like my friends don't consider me as a friend as same as I consider them

Hi sir, i am 42 divorced male with no child from previous marriage. Now i m getting a girl with three types 1) divorced girl which my parents dont wants (as thy want unmarried girl) 2) unmarried girl but quite aged 3) unmarried girl with decent age but poor family background n very less educated. I m quite confused with whom i should marry as i m quite scare after my breakoff from 1st marriage which was love marriage and not able to take decision on this. I m well educated smart and earning quite decent. My parents wants girl should be unmarried n can manage house n also take care of them n they dont want working girl too but she should be beautiful educated n good family background. Because of this my marriage is getting delayed n also not getting any match. Kindly suggest what should i do how much which type of girl i should i prefer..i m clueless in this n not able to take decision.

During my conversation with my bf , I texted him that I will be waiting for that day when we will meet and he said let's see🙂 Idk why but something feels off ... Plus the emoji he sent makes me to doubt even more .. is it me overthinking or there is something.. even if i want to ask abt him wht should i ask him ??

If someone cut contact with male person in toxcis relationship then male person black mailing to female how to do on that case kindly help me out

I fart pretty often, but that has become a huge issue with my girlfriend who doesn't want me to fart in her presence or else! How can I stop this bodily function?! And can she threaten me like this? She is a good bird as Bertie would say, but is it time for me to fly the coop?

I am 45 and my wife 40. We are married since 10 years and have a child. We are middle class. I really care my wife and love her. I believe in women empowerment and want my wife to be good in computer knowledge, spoken english and be a smart lady . Smart not in terms of look but from mind. I am an event manager. I want my wife to take take care of house hold responsibilities and help me at work to certain extent in balanced manner. But she is unable to take care of any of my wishes, desires, ambitions. I have tried to talk several several time but every time it becomes one sided. If i speak 100 then she doesn't speak even 1. I want to keep her happy. I want to give her an identity. But i fail in all because she doesn't understand me. This nature of her is just crushing all my ambitions, desires and wishes. By nature she seems to be very simple but as we know too much of anything is bad. Several times i have told her to talk and let me know her point of view, but she doesn't. She is not mature enough to handle those responsibilities that come in our life at different times. FEEL JUST HELPLESS HOW TO TUNE MY HOUSE AND HOUSE HOLD AFFAIRS WITHOUT THE SUPPORT OF WIFE. PLEASE GUIDE.

I am 47 years old and fallen in love with a lady of 29 years of age. That lady also love me or not I am not sure but she was very good colleague. Suddenly she left job and went to other city and blocked me in WhatsApp. I really need her in my life. We never fought rather always had good relationship in workplace.....I never expressed my love either to her.....I was very soft on her. I want to get her back. What to do pls guide.

Hi Love Guru. My husband is very close to his cousin sister. Whenever they meet they hug, embrace and crack jokes. They also chat and talk at length whenever available. At times I feel very in secured and did confront my husband. But he takes it very lightly. Her husband stays in UAE and only visits India once in a year (for one month). They have one son and one daughter. Do you think this is normal?