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Asked by Anonymous - Jan 03, 2024Hindi
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Hello Madam,I am 48 year old ,Widower.My wife died last year after a long fought battle with Cancer. I have 2 daughters ,elder one who is 18 year old and younger 13 year old. Financially I am well placed. My wife had a short lived affair 6 years back with one of our family friends but she stayed with me for her daughters and started loving me once her friend got shifted to another city. I never showed her that I knew anything.What should I do now? I love my daughters very much and cannot leave them alone.Should I remarry. My wife also used to say that I should marry after her death.

Ans: Give them some time to grieve their mother’s loss and don’t jump into another marriage right away. You are certainly entitled to some happiness as well, and getting remarried if you wish to. But your children and their wellbeing should be your first priority, and also the priority of anyone who will step into the role of a stepmother. If you end up with the wrong person, it will only cause a terrible family situation, so tread carefully and be sensible about it.

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Dear Anu Krishna, I'm a 39 year old man, married and having a daughter. It was an arranged marriage. We started off okay, with some good level of romance initially but plateaued later. First the emotional connect dipped, then her trust dipped and eventually physical intimacy dipped. After childbirth, our sex life hit a low and in past 5 years it has been almost a sexless marriage. I had not been a perfect partner but very much willing to fix my mistakes (I haven't cheated on her, ever). But my wife has been aloof with near zero communication. I never interfered in her independence of any form. I always trusted her but I never felt trusted/wanted/loved. She refuses to have meaningful deep conversations. We do have a lot of financial stress. We considered divorce about 5 years ago but didn't because of our daughter. Last year, I met a colleague and I connected emotionally well with her. I do consider her a good friend but my family (I stay with my parents) think I'm in an affair. This new friend also considers me her friend. Now my wife seems a little jealous of my friend, which is a good sign that there is still some hope to salvage this marriage. People have advised me both ways - to divorce and not to. I really want a happy life for myself and my daughter. I am confused - what should I do?
Ans: Dear JK, I can only imagine the stresses of the situation that you and your wife are in. But it takes two people to make a marriage.

And it would be worthwhile for both of you to understand that childbirth is a very transformative experience for entire family especially the new mother and the baby.

It is of utmost relevance here for them to have the support of the father and the family.

The emotional and physical needs of the man maybe ignored here but do know that your wife/ mother doesn’t do this as a well-thought idea but because her hormones dictate her mind and body.

But of course, if this has been something that has been going on for a while now even after a year of childbirth, it would be wise to have an open communication channel where the two of you understand each other’s needs and see how best as a couple you can fulfil them.

It is normal for a human to seek validation and attention from the external when his needs are not fulfilled at home. But the complications that can arise from that are something that you are well aware of.

You are an adult and you know what’s best for you and your family.

Having said this, if the choice is to make the marriage work, please don’t engage in finger pointing and instead think of ways to spice up your relationship.

Find someone to care for your child while you and your wife take a holiday.

If this also doesn’t work, I would suggest couples marital therapy where a professional may guide you to rebuilding your marriage.

Happy rebuilding and it’s worth working at it!

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I'M 40 years old man, i have had troubled childhood. I faced abuse from my elder brother who later on developed mental health issues whiich broughg lot of stress to the family. I worked very hard to achieve reasonable professional success but my personal life has been very difficult. I got married with lot of difficulty despite being well placed professionally and decent looks. It was an arranged marriage but things went bad after a year. I caught my wife having an affair with her ex but i fogave her for the sake of myndaugher who was just 1 year old then. She keept on having flings with gym instructor and later on her colleagues which i dont have any proof of. She would humilate me in front of my maid driver and other people. But i wanted ti save my marriage for the sake of my daughter who was only 4-5 years old then. Finally she started asking me for divorce after every trivial fights. Fed up i finally agreed and we separated in 2021 November. During that time i came in contact with my school friend. She proposed to me during our school days but due to stress at home and other issues i said no but i always liked her. When we started talking around December 2021 and we realized we still love each other after 20 years. But problem was though i was divorced she was still married and she is from a different religion. She is trying hard to get separated from her husband but her family being very conservative is not allowing her to do so. I'm stuck with her emotionally. Now my ex-wife has started approaching me for reconciliation. Im totally confused now what should i do? Should i wait for my friend knowing that chances are very slim that her family would leave her. Or should i patch up with my exwife for the sake of my daughter. I dont feel any emotional connection with my exwife now as she was never nice to me. But my parents are telling me to go for patch up. They are nkt aware about my school friend and i doubt they would approve her due to religious beliefs. Pls guide me I'm totally confused. Thanks A confused Homo Sapiens
Ans: Dear Pratik,
At this point in time, choose neither. You need space to clear your head first.
Too many emotional situations to jump into one more...Give yourself time to figure out what is that you want out of life?
Do you want to get into another commitment in a short gap? It could be an attraction on a rebound as well; so take time to figure these things out well before you decide to patch up or wait for your friend.
You deserve this time off, to make sure that you not only heal from the marriage but also put things in perspective.
So no need to bring on a new confusion for the time being till you get strong enough in the mind to decide the next course of your life. Making a choice right now means you will be bringing in more confusions of either of the two women into your life as well. So, PAUSE and take this time...

Best wishes!

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Asked by Anonymous - Mar 19, 2023Hindi
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Madam, I am 61 years old , retired from Govt service an year ago. I have a problem in my family. Though my wife is a post graduate, she refused to take up any Job and wants all others including her in laws to give her money eternally. Misbehaved with my parents & sent them out of our house for their supposed conservative style and refused to allow my sisters family on a visit and quarreled with me on this ground time & again. She quarrels with me on silly issues loudly infront of kids. She reflects her mother`s attitude in dealing with my parents & relatives. Later She re-started her love affair with her ex lover . Fed up with quarrels at home and keep her away from unwarranted affairs, I decided to go abroad and took her also with me with our 2 daughters. There again, she started another illicit affair with my classmate cum colleague (whom i knew for 2 decades and i treated like a brother and was already married with kids). After 18 months of secret affair , behind me, they finally disclosed and wanted to elope leaving their families behind. Stunned by their ghastly betrayal , I sent my family back to India and also reported the matter to boss, who repatriated that Traitor back. I had to forgive my wife for sake of my Daughters who were aged 12 yrs and 9 yrs then. I am unable to come to terms with their ghastly actions though 2 decades have since passed. We sleep in separate rooms and I have no physical relation with her, ever since as our marriage is over for all purposes. I believe that mutual Trust & respect are the foundations of any marriage. Both are lost in our case. Now my daughters aged 31, 29 are Post graduates but are sitting idle at home wasting time in TV and refuse to do any job as their mother keeps telling them why should women work ?. They refuse to receive any external counselling nor willing to get married nor take up a job nor pursue any studies. They are financially dependent on me. I am now retired and live on Govt Pension. They refuse to understand the reality around them. They have no friend either in Relatives or in their college circles. What to do with their Intransigence? .
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
At 61, you look back and reflect; what choices have you made that has led you to be where you are right now?
Have those choices robbed you of your peace of mind and a better life?
If Yes, it still isn't late to rework and revisit those choices and make better ones.

But for that, this obsession with their ghastly affair must end. The more you are focused on the past, it becomes difficult to create anything beautiful for today and tomorrow. Yes, you felt hurt and were in pain, but to continue to feel the pain is a choice and that is only going to make you more bitter. Consider what is happening with your marriage; you might have to accept that this is the way it will be. If you are not happy with this, then think of what you want to do about it.

It's a good thing that you have begun to focus on your children. They seem to be in need of focus and direction. Since they are adults, it's time you gave them an ultimatum to find a job and move out of home. It sounds cruel, but at times, as a parent you need to do the right thing for your children. So, act NOW and without hesitation.
As for you, as you decide what you want to do with your marriage, involve yourself in social circles and hobbies, travel etc. It will give you a distraction and also a way to calm your mind to take decisions.

All the best!

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Asked by Anonymous - Apr 19, 2024Hindi
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Hi Anu, I am 47 year old. I have 2 kids one is in adolescent in age and other is 8 y.o. I and my wife are very much comfort and enjoy sex life since inception of our marriage. But, from last 7 years, i am in relation with a beautiful girl, whom i met as a sex worker, when she was 24. Her only source of income is her work (i.e., sex work). She is astonishingly beautiful. I went mad after since the day i met her. thought i could not do sex at first time, i did it in the next time and till now we mated just 7 times. She is epilepsy patient and she is very serious about her family. She has to look after her mother, a younger sister who is studying Law and two of her sister's kids ( her sister died ). She asks me for help whenever she falls short of money. She went to dubai in 2018, and continued her work there. I asked her to leave her job and assured a good income source and a respectful life. She hesitated to concur on my plan. The whole issue is known to my wife. She married an Indian residing in Dubai recently but for her bad luck, he is untraceable from 2 monhts in a war proned country. Now, she asked my help again after 8 months. we both were not in touch in these days. I lent her my helping hand again and expressed if she would have married me, i would have kept her happy. She loves me a lot, but since i am a married man, she does not want to create problem in my married life. I can convince my wife about her, but she (girlfriend) is not ready for it for the fear of my wife. I just can't imagine my life without her. that much i love her. I don't wish to destroy her married life either. If she gets her husband back, i will be happy, but i will be living in her memory forever, as i just cannot expect my life without her. I need your suggestion. whether to come out of her relation or continue if her hubby misses forever.
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
You do realize the mess that you are creating for yourself, your wife and this lady?
Do you really think it is possible to live in harmony with all these complications and then there's an absconding husband at the other end?
Be sane about the whole thing and focus on what's important to you...Your children need a stable family environment and you do not need to be told how crucial this is for them given their age...And just because your wife isn't complaining that does not mean, you just overlook what all this must be doing to her. Put your life back together and leave some things alone to sort themselves out...

All the best!

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Asked by Anonymous - Apr 30, 2024Hindi
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I am 38 years I am planning to retire at 45 years with 2 Cr on corpus.let me know how much SIp I need to do as I am aggressive investor.
Ans: It's commendable that you're planning for an early retirement at 45 and aiming for a significant corpus of 2 Crores. As an aggressive investor, you're willing to take on higher risk for potentially higher returns.

To achieve your goal, you'll need to calculate the SIP amount based on factors like expected rate of return and investment horizon. Since you're aiming for an early retirement, you'll likely need to invest a substantial amount each month to reach your target.

As a Certified Financial Planner, I advise caution when aiming for aggressive investment goals. While higher risk can lead to higher returns, it also increases the possibility of volatility and potential losses.

Instead of providing a specific SIP amount here, I recommend scheduling a consultation with a CFP who can conduct a detailed analysis of your financial situation, risk tolerance, and investment goals.

During the consultation, your CFP will help determine the most appropriate investment strategy to maximize growth potential while managing risk effectively. They'll consider factors like asset allocation, diversification, and investment time horizon to tailor a plan that aligns with your objectives.

Remember, achieving financial goals requires discipline, patience, and a well-thought-out strategy. By working closely with a CFP, you can create a roadmap to reach your retirement target and secure your financial future.

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Hello sir , I am 32 year old I am a salaried person around 60k per month and want to start SIP for my children education I have two children one is 6 year old and another one is 3 year old. Please suggest me the best
Ans: It's fantastic that you're thinking ahead and planning for your children's education at such a young age. Starting SIPs (Systematic Investment Plans) is a smart way to build a corpus for their future educational expenses.
Considering your financial situation and your children's ages, here's a suggested approach:
1. Set Clear Goals: Determine the amount you'll need for each child's education, factoring in inflation and the type of education you aspire for them. This will help you set realistic investment targets.
2. Choose Suitable SIPs: Opt for diversified equity mutual funds that have a track record of consistent performance and align with your investment goals and risk tolerance. Look for funds with a long-term horizon and a focus on capital appreciation.
3. Allocate Funds Wisely: Divide your SIP investments among different funds to spread risk and maximize growth potential. Consider a mix of large-cap, mid-cap, and multi-cap funds to achieve diversification and optimize returns.
4. Start Early and Stay Consistent: Time is your biggest ally when it comes to investing. Start your SIPs as soon as possible to benefit from the power of compounding. Even small, regular investments can grow substantially over time with discipline and consistency.
5. Review and Adjust Regularly: Periodically review your SIP investments to ensure they're on track to meet your goals. Make adjustments as needed based on changes in your financial situation, market conditions, and investment objectives.
6. Stay Disciplined: Avoid the temptation to withdraw or stop your SIPs during market fluctuations. Stay focused on your long-term goals and continue investing consistently, regardless of short-term market movements.
7. Consider Tax Implications: Keep tax efficiency in mind while selecting SIPs. Opt for funds with favorable tax treatment like Equity Linked Savings Schemes (ELSS) for potential tax benefits under Section 80C of the Income Tax Act.
Remember, education is one of the most valuable investments you can make for your children's future. By starting SIPs early and staying disciplined, you can build a solid financial foundation to provide them with the best opportunities for education.

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K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,
Chief Financial Planner,
www.holisticinvestment.in

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What are the scholarships available for students who want to pursue masters in USA ,especially who are freshly graduate from btech
Ans: Hello Anya,

To begin with, thank you for contacting us. I am glad to hear that you intend pursuing your Masters in the USA. As an answer to your query, I would like to tell you that there are a number of scholarships viz., the Fulbright-Nehru Fellowships, Tata Scholarship for Students from India, Fulbright Scholarships, Civil Society Leadership Awards (CSLA), Chevening Scholarships, Rotary Foundation Global Grants, Hubert H. Humphrey Fellowship Program, American Association of University Women (AAUW) International Fellowships, University-specific Scholarships, scholarships offered by private foundations and organizations, and Government Scholarships, that are available for students studying a Masters degree in the USA, particularly for the ones who have recently earned a Bachelor of Technology (B.Tech) degree.

Besides the ones mentioned above, there are a number of other scholarships available that you can consider applying to. I would recommend that you conduct an extensive study and apply to the scholarships that best resonate with your qualifications and objectives. Not just that, in order to acquire more precise details about the available scholarships and possibilities for monetary assistance, I would suggest that you get in touch with the admissions offices of the universities you intend applying to.

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Asked by Anonymous - May 09, 2024Hindi
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Hello Sir, I am 46 yrs old guy with a family of 2 children 10yrs and 3yrs. i have a 16 lakhs homeloan outstanding. i have created a small saving fund of about 11.36 lakhs in investments in the following funds quant active direct, hdfc flaxicap, Nippon flexicap, hdfc divident fund, holidng about 5.19 lakhs in stocks. I also invest into pension fund about 5000 per month and sip in the above mutual fund are 45000 per month. please suggest the investment strategy at my age and I would like to retire in 50 yrs.
Ans: It's wonderful to see you taking proactive steps towards securing your family's financial future. At 46, with two young children and a home loan, it's essential to have a solid investment strategy in place.
Considering your age and retirement goal of 50 years, here's a suggested investment strategy:
1. Prioritize Debt Reduction: Since you have a home loan outstanding, prioritize paying it off as soon as possible. Allocate a portion of your savings towards clearing this debt to reduce financial burden and free up cash flow for other investments.
2. Diversify Investments: Your current investment portfolio seems heavily skewed towards equity with a mix of mutual funds and stocks. While equity investments offer growth potential, they also come with higher risk. Consider diversifying into less volatile assets like debt funds, PPF, or FDs to balance risk.
3. Review and Adjust Mutual Fund Portfolio: Evaluate the performance of your mutual funds periodically and consider consolidating or reallocating funds based on their performance and your investment goals. Consider consulting with a Certified Financial Planner (CFP) to ensure your portfolio aligns with your risk tolerance and financial objectives.
4. Continue SIPs and Pension Fund Contributions: Your SIPs and pension fund contributions are commendable. Continue investing regularly, but ensure you're comfortable with the amount allocated to each fund and adjust as necessary over time.
5. Emergency Fund: Ensure you have an emergency fund equivalent to at least 6-12 months of living expenses in a liquid and accessible account to cover unexpected expenses or income disruptions.
6. Plan for Children's Education and Your Retirement: Factor in future expenses like your children's education and your retirement needs while planning your investments. Start separate funds for these goals to ensure you're adequately prepared when the time comes.
7. Regular Reviews: Regularly review your investment portfolio and financial goals to make adjustments as needed. Life circumstances and market conditions change, so staying proactive is key to long-term financial success.
Remember, investing is a journey, and it's essential to stay disciplined and informed. With careful planning and guidance from a CFP, you can navigate towards a secure financial future for you and your family.

Best Regards,
K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,
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I am 48 yrs old i will be retiring on attaining 60 .I hav an fd of 25lak n few stocks n a monthly of 19 k in MF. I thought of starting to build a rental house for generating income for my retirement but m in a confusion as I will hav to break my fd as I don't want to take a loan.pls kindly help me with ur advice
Ans: It's impressive that you're planning ahead for your retirement at 48. You've accumulated a decent amount in fixed deposits (FD), stocks, and are investing regularly in mutual funds (MF), which is a great start.
Building a rental property can indeed be a strategy to generate passive income during retirement. However, breaking your FD to fund the construction raises a few considerations. FDs offer stability and guaranteed returns, and breaking them prematurely may result in loss of interest and penalties.
Before making any decisions, consider the following:
1. Evaluate Returns: Compare the potential rental income from the property with the interest you're earning on your FD. Ensure that the rental income justifies breaking the FD.
2. Risk Management: Real estate investments come with risks like property maintenance, vacancies, and market fluctuations. Assess your risk tolerance and ensure you have a contingency plan.
3. Diversification: Don't put all your eggs in one basket. Consider diversifying your investments to spread risk. You already have stocks and MFs; adding real estate can further diversify your portfolio.
4. Consult a Professional: Seek advice from a Certified Financial Planner (CFP) who can help you analyze your financial situation, assess the viability of the rental property, and create a comprehensive retirement plan.
5. Alternative Financing: Explore alternative financing options like taking a loan against your FD instead of breaking it entirely. This way, you can maintain the FD and still fund the construction.
Ultimately, the decision should align with your financial goals, risk tolerance, and retirement aspirations. A well-thought-out plan, backed by professional advice, can help you navigate this important decision effectively.
Best Regards,
K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,
Chief Financial Planner,
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Asked by Anonymous - May 09, 2024Hindi
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Hi sir i am investing in sip for 7000,ppf 5000,nps 2500,pf 3000 per month i am 32 yrs planning to retire in 65 years .how much i will get after 65
Ans: It's excellent that you're taking proactive steps towards securing your financial future at such a young age. By investing regularly in SIP, PPF, NPS, and PF, you're building a strong foundation for your retirement.

Regularly investing in SIPs allows you to benefit from the power of compounding over time, potentially leading to significant growth in your investments. PPF provides a secure and tax-efficient way to save, and NPS and PF contributions help you build a retirement corpus while also enjoying tax benefits.

However, the exact amount you'll receive at retirement depends on various factors like the rate of return on your investments, inflation, and any changes in government policies. It's essential to review your investment strategy regularly and make adjustments as needed to stay on track towards your retirement goals.

Consider consulting with a Certified Financial Planner (CFP) to develop a comprehensive retirement plan tailored to your needs and aspirations. A CFP can help you estimate your future retirement corpus based on your current investments and make recommendations to optimize your portfolio for long-term growth.

Remember, starting early and staying disciplined with your investments are key to achieving your retirement goals. Keep up the good work, and continue investing regularly to build a secure financial future for yourself.

Best Regards,
K.Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,
Chief Financial Planner,
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I am aged 72 years and totally retired since 2019. Despite limited income, I am investing Rs12,000 per month in mutual fund mostly in equity segment of reputed AMCs initially for a period of 3 years and may extend later. Kindly suggest whether this is a right decision or needs a review.
Ans: Investing in mutual funds, especially in equity segments, can be a smart move for building wealth over time. Given your retired status and limited income, it's commendable that you're still prioritizing investments. However, at 72, it's crucial to balance potential returns with risk.

It's wonderful to see your proactive approach towards securing your financial future even during retirement. Mutual funds offer diversification, which can help manage risk, and investing systematically, like you're doing, can potentially yield better returns over the long term.

Nevertheless, it's essential to consider your risk tolerance and investment horizon. Equity mutual funds can be volatile in the short term, so ensure you're comfortable with fluctuations in the value of your investments.

Regular reviews with a Certified Financial Planner (CFP) can provide valuable insights into whether your investment strategy aligns with your goals and risk profile. A CFP can help adjust your portfolio as needed and provide peace of mind knowing that your investments are on track.

Remember, investing is a journey, and it's normal to reassess and make changes along the way. Keep monitoring your investments regularly and stay informed about market trends and economic developments.

In summary, while investing in mutual funds can be a good decision, especially for long-term wealth creation, consider consulting with a CFP to ensure it's the right approach for you given your age and financial situation.

Best Regards,
K.Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,
Chief Financial Planner,
www.holisticinvestment.in

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Dear Sir,Myself and my wife investing in mutual fund for long term for about Rs 38000 pm comprise Mire asset emerging bluechip 5000;Bhandan Flexi cap 5000; BSL Tax advantage fund 5000:ICICI discovery fund 5000: Nippon India small cap 10000; Nippon India growth 8000 Everything on growth option. Pls suggest for making 2crore for another 10year.Also Any chnages required in the above investment also pls suggest
Ans: It's commendable that you and your wife are investing diligently for the long term to achieve your financial goals. Let's create a plan to help you reach your target of ?2 crores in another 10 years while also evaluating your existing investments:
Goal of ?2 Crores in 10 Years:
1. Monthly Contribution: To achieve ?2 crores in 10 years, you'll need to increase your monthly SIP contributions. Given your current investments and timeframe, consider gradually increasing your SIP amount over time.
2. Asset Allocation: Maintain a diversified portfolio across different asset classes to balance risk and return potential. Allocate investments across large-cap, mid-cap, and small-cap funds to optimize growth opportunities.
3. Review and Rebalance: Regularly review your investment portfolio and rebalance as needed to ensure it remains aligned with your financial goals and risk tolerance.
Evaluating Existing Investments:
1. Mirae Asset Emerging Bluechip: This fund has a solid track record and focuses on mid-cap and large-cap stocks. Consider continuing your SIP in this fund as it aligns with your long-term goals.
2. Bandhan Flexi Cap: Evaluate the performance and risk profile of this fund compared to other flexi-cap options available in the market. Consider diversifying into other flexi-cap funds for added exposure.
3. BSL Tax Advantage Fund: With a focus on tax-saving and growth, this fund offers benefits under Section 80C of the Income Tax Act. Ensure it aligns with your tax planning goals and consider continuing your SIP if suitable.
4. ICICI Discovery Fund: Assess the performance and risk profile of this fund compared to other options in the discovery category. Consider reallocating to funds with stronger growth potential and alignment with your investment strategy.
5. Nippon India Small Cap and Growth Funds: These funds offer exposure to small-cap and growth-oriented stocks. Given the higher risk associated with small-cap funds, ensure they align with your risk tolerance and investment horizon.
Suggestions for Improvement:
1. Increased SIP Contributions: Gradually increase your monthly SIP contributions to accelerate wealth accumulation and achieve your target of ?2 crores in 10 years.
2. Diversification: Consider diversifying your portfolio by adding funds from different fund houses and categories to spread risk and optimize returns.
3. Regular Review: Periodically review your investment portfolio and make adjustments as needed to stay on track towards your financial goals.
Conclusion:
By increasing your SIP contributions, maintaining a diversified portfolio, and periodically reviewing your investments, you can work towards achieving your target of ?2 crores in 10 years. Seek guidance from a Certified Financial Planner to optimize your investment strategy and ensure it aligns with your financial objectives.
Best Regards,
K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,
Chief Financial Planner,
www.holisticinvestment.in

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