I am 19 and my parents force to marriage but didn't get married now so what to do now

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
You are young...please think of yourself, your career (if you are career oriented) and do find ways to make yourself financially independent first. That will give you focus on what you want in a life partner and then you will not nod your head to just anybody and everybody.
Use the next couple of years to build an identity for yourself will be my suggestion. But if you really think that you want to get married and what your parents think is right for you, then stop using so much of your mind into it. State a few things that you wish to see and have in the groom and if that is satisfied, what more is the problem?

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Ans: Dear Srisamhita,
Here is your answer in this link below:
https://gurus.rediff.com/question/qdtl/relationship/sam-20-yr-when-17-parents-talked-alliance-said-don/5181895

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Ans: The first thing you need to acknowledge is that your feelings are valid. It’s your life, and while your parents may have had good intentions in arranging this engagement, it’s crucial that you stand up for what’s right for you. Marriage is a lifelong commitment, and entering into it when you’re not ready or when it conflicts with your goals can lead to long-term unhappiness, not only for you but also for the other person involved.

It’s important to have an open and honest conversation with your parents. I understand this can be intimidating, especially when they are the ones pressuring you, but they need to understand where you’re coming from. Explain that you deeply respect their wishes but that your heart and mind are focused on continuing your education. Share with them your aspirations and how marriage right now would prevent you from fulfilling those dreams.

When you approach this conversation, try to be calm and clear about your intentions. Sometimes parents need to hear more about why something is important to you in order to better understand your perspective. They may be acting out of concern or societal pressure, but once they see how determined and committed you are to your studies and your future, they may begin to see things differently.

If the conversation doesn’t go well the first time, don’t give up. You might need to have multiple discussions, and if you feel comfortable, involving a trusted family member who supports your goals could help make your case more compelling.

At the end of the day, it’s important to remember that your life’s direction should be in your hands. You deserve to pursue your education and dreams without being rushed into something you’re not ready for. If your parents truly want the best for you, they will eventually understand that supporting your education and your happiness is the most important thing.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Do your parents think that by getting you married, you will become responsible and then get a job?
My suggestion is that you figure out where your life is going, take control of it. No point getting into a marriage and expecting your wife to struggle with what you have not figured out for yourself as yet.

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Anu Krishna
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