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Ans: Dear Sir/ Madam,

This is quite a common challenge with HR's. Keep chasing and ask for the feedback. If there is no revert continue with the search.

Multiple reasons why HR's dont revert-

Volume of applications
Lengthy or delayed process
Lack of feedback culture

Important is you focus on what you can control. In the given situation you can not control if there is no revert. What you can control- following up with the HR for sometime/ apply other jobs/ keep networking/ work on yourself.

All the best

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Ashwini
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Ans: Dear Sir/ Madam,

Gratuity is applicable after 5 years. So in your case yes. Just check if your company has the gratuity policy. During the exit, HR will help with the gratuity withdrawal forms which you can fill and submit.

Hope this helps

Thanks
Ashwini

Ans: Dear Sir/ Madam,

Go well prepared for your interview
Know the Job description and company profile to the T
Dress well- Formals completely
Take care of your personal hygiene
Smell good
Listen to the interview before you speak. Do not interrupt
Smile and show case confidence
Just be yourself

All the best

Thanks
Ashwini

Ans: HI Sri/ Madam,

Start taking freelancing work as per your bandwidth. Take up small projects and see if you are able to deliver. You also need to check your company policy if they allow to do side hustle. This is the first step you can initiate.

All the best. Hope this helps

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Ashwini
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Ans: Dear Sir/Madam,

If you feel you are stagnated you can definitely look for internal jobs before going outside the firm. If you are happy with the culture, firm and people then try for internal options. External jobs should be the last premise if nothing has worked at all for you.

I am not sure what SME you are into. But you can definitely look at pursuing certifications in combinations of domain and technology which is very much in demand. Do some research of the industry and skill you are in and work towards it.

All the best
Hope this helps

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Ashwini
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Ans: Dear Sir/ Madam,

It totally depends on the policy of the company. Please go back and check the policy. Speak to HR and understand how does it work and how can they help close this positively. When it comes to polices not much one can do. If they want to go a certain there is no or very possibility of you convincing them. Instead request them to help you to come to a win win situation.
Tip do not burn the bridges with anyone in the existing company.

Hope this helps

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Ashwini
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Ans: Dear Sir/ Madam,

If you dont risk how would you know what you are good at. Before making any switch please do the research and understand what kind of options it may have. Once you understand and you are sure then make the switch. Doubting will not help action will.

Hope this helps

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Ashwini
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Ans: Dear Sir/ Madam,

Learning never stops. Until you get a job you can definitely look at upskilling yourself as per your interest. By not doing anything it will only stress you instead use the time and learn a new skill and in parallel keep the job hunt on. If you want to switch to IT then yes you can definitely think on the similar lines. Studying further will only add value to your career.

Hope this helps

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Ashwini
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Ans: Dear Sir/ Madam,

If you are not interested in Law then try and reflect what kind of career will entice you. Figure out your interest areas by doing Swot analysis. Worrying is not going to help instead act. Hope this helps.

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Ashwini
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Ans: Hi Sir/ Madam,

It's never too late to start anything. You are just 22. If you are convinced with your decision then go for it rather than delaying it even further.

All the best.

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Ashwini
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Ans: Hi Shubham,

Please provide all the documents you have related to the employer. For example- Appointment letters/ Salary slips and Bank Statements. This should help them. For verfication you may help them with any of the contact details of your managers you were reporting to. They can call them and get the verification done. I hoping this should help you resolve the issue on the verification front atleast. Secondly hiding the name of the employer you need to have a solid strong reason. Going forward please avoid hiding the details as every company today does background check. This may end up putting you at risk. For now please speak to them and help them understand the situation.

All the best.

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Ashwini
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Ans: Dear Gayatri,

First understand which industry your interests is in.
Understand any shift you will do it will be from scratch that means you need to have patience until you built it
If you interest lies in the IT industry understand your skills (do SWOT analysis) and see basis your skills what value add can you bring.
Upgrade your skills as per the industry by taking up few courses

Hope this helps

Thanks
Ashwini
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Ans: Dear Sir/ Madam,

Instead of asking why Am I getting rejected. Reframe and reflect. Instead ask yourself what could possibly be going wrong or What can do to improve my chances of selection.

You can look at few areas-
Before interview preparation
knowing more about the job role
Knowing more about the company
Do mock interviews
Prepare your answers better
Gain more experience by enhancing your skills
Ask the HR/ interview the key reasons for your getting rejected and accordingly work on them

Hope this helps

Ashwini
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Ans: Dear Sir/ Madam,

Could you please clearly sight out what your goal?

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Ashwini

Ans: Dear Sir/ Madam,

Most importantly do the course what resonates with your more. What's your inclination. Everyone will come and help you with the information at the end do what will make you happy. Else you may end up doing what others are saying and you may not enjoy it in the long run. If you inclined towards both finance and technical then you can do the finance course as it will serve as the domain expertise and work on the technology front.

Whatever you choose should align with your motivation and not only with financial goals.

Hope this helps

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Ashwini
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Ans: Follow what you feel most passionate about. While AI and other emerging fields will continue to evolve, don’t let that influence or cloud your decision. Focus on what truly excites you and feels right. Pursue certifications or additional learning as needed to support your choice.

Hope this helps!
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Ashwini
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Ans: Dear Sir/ Madam,

Request a meeting and have a clear communication with your manager
Highlight the importance of the situation
Let the manager know how it is impacting your personal and ask him/ her to help you plan better and do load balancing
also talk how it disturbing you mentally

Bottom line - have a clear communication without putting the manager on the spot. Let him/ her know how important it is for you to discuss the issue and you want him/ her to guide you in the situation.

Hope this helps
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Ashwini
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Ans: Dear Sir/ Madam,

Gain relevant education in the similar field.
Look for internships or entry level roles
Get certified
Network with HR professionals

Hope this helps

Thanks
Ashwini
www.ashwinidasgupta.com

Ans: Dear Sir/ Mam,

Here, the only way is communicating honestly with your new employer and letting them know on the current challenge and in parallel trying to convince your current employer to relieve you early.

Hope this helps
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Ashwini
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Ans: Dear Sir/ Madam,

This is quite common in the industry and can lead to frustration. Possible reasons-

High volume of candidates
Legal risks and liability
Time and Resource Constraints
Too many tasks at one time

Reasons are many due to which they dont revert back.

Hope this helps

Thanks
Ashwini
www.ashwinidasgupta.com

Ans: Dear Sir/ Madam,

There are many options you can look at -

British Council - PD and communication course
NIIT- Communication and Professional Skill course
YMCA - PD course
Dale Carnegie Training
or consider online options

Hope this helps

Thanks
Ashwini
www.ashwinidasgupta.com

Ans: Dear Mam,

If starting on your own is the prime focus then BBA, LLB might be a better fit as it combines practical business knowledge and legal compliance which are essential for startup. At the end best choices depends on more where you are inclined. Trust your instincts and choose the path that resonates more to You.

Hope this helps.

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Ashwini
www.ashwinidasgupta.com

Ans: Hi Sir,

You may look at the following options-

Online distance learning and degree
Specialized counselling certifications
Supervised Clinical Training
Continuous learning

Hope this helps


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Ashwini
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Ans: Dear Sir,
Few of the consideration you may look at-

Have an open and honest conversation laying down the facts. Ensure the conversation is calm and composed and not pointing out at each other. Express you concerns, fears and impact that it will have on the relationships and on your mental health.

Explore compromises at both the ends that would work for you. For example- can your wife manage the business remotely for part of the time or could you both agree on a trial period in bangalore? Discuss how can you support each other's goal while maintaining each other's stability.

Consider your career and well being- If relocating to Bangalore is not viable for you professionally, discuss alternative ways to support your wife’s business venture while staying in Gurgaon or finding a middle ground.

Seek professional guidance- You may wish to consider a counselor who can guide you both and help come with a midway

Focus on the bigger picture- Analyses a bit who to see how you both can help each other.

At any given point of time if you feel overwhelmed then dont hesitate to take the professional help. Emotional and metal health is of utmost important.

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Ashwini Dasgupta
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Ans: Dear Sir/ Madam,

Please consider the following steps-

Consider adjusting expectations- It may happen the employers are finding you over qualified. By this I dont mean you go down on your designation and the money ( here, you can take a decision ). It's always good to have an open conversation with the employer on this front.

Tailor your applications as per the job you are applying. Make it more customized. One size will not fit all.

Leverage your network

Explore consulting or contractual roles in the interim. All that you know this option may turn out to be permanent.

Be persistent. Getting a job can take time.

All the best.

Ashwini Dasgupta
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Ans: Dear Madam,

Definitely you can look for other opportunities. Few steps you can consider

Update and tailor your resume and be active on linkedin
Be focussed on job hunt
Prepare for interviews
Consider on alternative roles
Upgrade your skills
Increase and leverage your network

Thanks
Ashwini Dasgupta
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Ans: Dear Sir/ Madam,

Few considerations for your reference
You could look at metro cities depending on what kind of standard of living you may be comfortable with
Choose the city considering the education you may consider
Look for cities which have International schools for example- IB or CIE. International schools often provide a seamless transition for children moving between countries.
Choose cities basis the accessibilities like airports etc and family friendly environment you can have
Consider climate lifestyle
Future career opportunity if you wish to change
Check the pros and cons and unique priorities you and your family may have

Hope this helps

All the best

Thanks and Regards
To your success. Be you. Be confident
Ashwini Dasgupta
Author of Confidence Decoded-Is it a skill or attitude?
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Ans: Dear Sir/ Madam,

Please find the roadmap for your reference-

Do some research related to Quantum Technology Programs
Understand what are the requirements for such programs
Prepare Prepare and Prepare
Build a strong application
Consider Bridge programs
Look for alternative paths
Network

Hope this helps

All the best

Thanks and Regards
To your success. Be you. Be confident
Ashwini Dasgupta
Author of Confidence Decoded-Is it a skill or attitude?
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Ans: Dear Sir/ Madam,

Please find few suggestive steps-

Industries you can look into - Healthcare / Educational/ Corporate settings/ NGO's / Government agencies/ Private Clinics/ Research Institutes

To apply- look at few steps-

Research the opportunities as per your industry interest
Tailor your resume as per the job descriptions
Focus on Networking with the industry professionals
Prepare of interviews
Look for additional certification in your field. This will make you stand out

Hope this helps

Thanks and Regards
Ashwini Dasgupta
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Ans: Dear Ritika,

Please look at few suggestive steps-

Take support- you dnt have to go through this all alone. Find some trust worthy and speak what you feel. Sharing your concerns can help feel better.

Have clear and realistic goals- Start working towards your goals. Break down and see what is achievable and what is not.

Focus on yourself- it's important to focus on yourself while you are achieving your goals. If you are not healthy and how do you think you can achieve. Take a break and relax and start again.

Be more organized and go with a planned approach

Work on your thoughts. If any negative thought comes reframe it with a positive one.

Take professional help-If you are too anxious and depressed you may want to take some professional help who can help you with some coping strategies.

Be positive and focus on present.

Hope this helps

Thanks and Regards
Ashwini Dasgupta
Author of Confidence Decoded- Is it a Skill or Attitude

Ans: Dear Sir/ Madam,

Please look into the following aspects

Clarify Your Goals- take some time to understand what is your interest. Identify your strengths, interests and now consider them aligning it with AML/ KYS / Compliance or any other. Have focus. It's good to hear other's opinions at the end you have to deep dive and see what you want to do.

Look for a mentor or guidance in the area of your interest. For example if you are keen to pursue AML/ KYC and Compliance then look for someone from the same industry who can guide you better and what steps you need to take to prepare yourself to get the success and clear the exams.

Secondly age is something we can not anything about instead focus on the skills you bring on the table.

Increase your networking and connections this should help you land where to aim to.

Mostly important be positive and focussed. People are going to speak out their opinions the only thing you can do is make a choice and stick to that.

Hope this helps

Thanks and Regards
Ashwini Dasgupta
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Ans: Dear Sir/ Madam,

Shifting departments and starting a new career need a careful consideration.
You can consider making a few changes in order to start cracking interviews.
1. Identify your transferrable skills and highlight them
2. Update and tailor your resume according to the job requirements
3. Be active on Linkedin
4. Work on your English Communciation Skills by practicing continuously and consuming English media
5. Prepare for interviews by appearing for mock interviews on multiple sites like InterviewBit
6. Learn to network and look for references around you, usually a good opportunity is always somewhere around, we just need to find it.
7. Look for additional certifications/ qualifications relevant to your profile and interest to boost your resume
8. Look for a mentor who can keep you motivating constantly and stop you from second guessing yourself

Have patience, and be persistent. You are embarking on a new journey and I wish you all the possible luck.
Wishing you all the best!
Regards
Ashwini Dasgupta
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Ans: Dear Sir/ Madam,

Most important thing is to be proactive in what you do. Few aspects to look at-

Focus more on continuous learning
Diversify your skills
Build a strong portfolio
Network and collaborate
Focus on your personal branding across all platforms
Seek for support, mentoring and guidance if needed
Look for freelancing/ consulting options as well

All the best.

Hope this helps and all the best

To Your Success
Thanks and Regards
Ashwini Dasgupta
Author of Confidence Decoded. Is it a Skill or Attitude?

Ans: Dear Sir/Madam,

I understand how frustrating and disappointment it can be. I am hoping the below steps should help you -

Stay clam and focused.
Schedule a meeting with your supervisor and have a detailed discussion and express your desire to understand the perspective and ask for feedbacks where you can work on.
Maintain your professionalism
Negotiate appropriately- if you truly believe that you deserve the increment based on your performance and hard work then present your case appropriately and with supportive evidences.
Consider the next steps basis your discussion and evaluate the options available.

Hope this helps and all the best

To Your Success
Thanks and Regards
Ashwini Dasgupta
Author of Confidence Decoded. Is it a Skill or Attitude?

Ans: Dear Sir,

Please find few ways you can look at-

Practice speaking daily
Use language learning apps
Record yourself speaking and reflect on how you can improve
Read aloud
Take notes on the specific words used when you listen to English speakers
Lastly, practice and only practice

Hope this helps

Thanks
Ashwini Dasgupta
Author of Confidence Decoded. Is it a Skill or Attitude?
Personality Development Expert

Ans: Dear Sir,

You can contact me through the same medium of Rediff Guru.

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Ashwini Dasgupta
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Personality Development Expert

Ans: Dear Anmol,

Few options to consider-
Look for universities or institutes that offer fully funded Ph.D.
Seek out for scholarships grants, fellowships, and other funding opportunities to help cover other expenses.
Look for part-time and online programs- they have lower tuition costs and allow the student to study remotely.
Opt for collaborative research -with government agencies, NGO's etc
Look for distance learning or open universities- they have low tuition costs
Look for a sponsorship- maybe your current employer if you are working. Few organizations support it.

Regarding the use of the title "Doctor" before your name after completing a Ph.D., it's generally accepted practice to use the title "Dr." as a prefix once you have earned a doctoral degree. Well, it differs from country to country.

Hope this helps. All the very best.
To Your Success
Thanks and Regards
Ashwini Dasgupta
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Ans: Dear Dipentu,

Thank you for writing in

Few aspects to look at
Identify your son's strengths and weaknesses and encourage him to explore that aligns with his abilities and interests
Life skill development and prioritizing on life skills like self-care- money management, learning to write his name and signature, organizing his room, etc. This will make him independent as he grows older.
Social skills development can opt for group activities/ therapy, and encourage him to take part in social activities, where he gets an opportunity to interact with others.
Have a personalized education plan -look for professionals who can tailor the education to his unique needs and goals.
Therapeutic Support- Consider enrolling your son in therapy or counseling with the experts to address any emotional, behavioral, or social challenges if any. Such therapy sessions help the individual in building self-confidence, coping skills, and resilience.
Have a fixed, structured, and supportive environment- Provide clear instructions, visual supports, and consistent routines to help your son navigate daily tasks and responsibilities. Plan the discipline around him. Have a schedule and tell him what he needs to follow. For example- Keep a watch in front of him with a timer and alarm and tell him you will do this X activity until the alarm rings. Give direct instructions to him. To say in big or multiple sentences. For example- Come Here, Sit here, Do this, etc.
Exercises- there are certain exercises you can make him do that will help him to do better. You can find these exercises on Youtube or look for professional experts.
Importantly be patient, supportive, persistent, and positive in guiding him and making him a confident individual.

Hope this helps.
To Your Success
Thanks and Regards
Ashwini Dasgupta
Author of Confidence Decoded. Is it a Skill or Attitude?

Ans: Dear Bharat,

Few aspects to look at-

Subject line- mention the subject line that will grab the attention of the client and speaks what the email is all about. This is the deal breaker. For eg- "Introduction and Partnership Opportunity"
Greeting- start the email with a greeting. This will set the tone of the email. For eg- Dear Sir (or the name), or Hello (client name)
Introduction- in brief introduce yourself and provide a brief about who you are. This will help building a rapport and your credibility.
Value Proposition- Explain how your products and services will add value to the company
Personalize the email- if you know the challenge of the client then tailor the message so the client feels and believes you are there to solve the problem with a solution
Call to action- Explain the process step by step so the client knows what action will you be taking
Closing- End your mail with warm regards and your official signature. for eg- warm regards, yours sincerely, etc
Proofread- this is an important aspect. Proofread the email to avoid any mistakes, or errors in the email.
Lastly, follow up if you don't get the response in a considerable time then send a follow-up email and express your interest.

Hope this helps. All the best.
To Your Success
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Ashwini Dasgupta
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Ans: Dear Irfan,

Suggesting few ideas which you may want to consider

Opt for freelancing work as per your skill
Look for remote work
Start on your own as the skill you are good at. Network and get work
Apply on job portals, connect with people on the professional platforms like linkedin etc
Do some research and understand your industry and accordingly join professional groups as well.
Enhance your skill and work on your professional development.
Importantly have patience and work towards getting the job.

Hope this helps. All the best.
To Your Success
Thanks and Regards
Ashwini Dasgupta
Author of Confidence Decoded. Is it a Skill or Attitude?

Ans: Dear Sir/ Madam,

Few aspects to look at-

Acknowledge the facts and emotions
Keep it professional
Put your head down and focus on your performance
Focus on networking
Look for a mentor and seek guidance
Understand and navigate the culture of the organization.

Focus on the aspects that can be controlled. Put your energy around the same. You can not control all the aspects at work. The choice is with you. The more you focus on the aspect (in this case favoritism) it will only drain you emotionally. I am sure you must be experiencing the current situation. Hence focus on what you can control which is your work, your performance, and your growth.

Hope this helps. All the best
To Your Success
Thanks and Regards
Ashwini Dasgupta
Author of Confidence Decoded. Is it a Skill or Attitude?

Ans: Dear Sir/ Madam,

Few tips for your reference-

Update your cv - call out the key skills as per the industry and tailor your resume as per the job you are interested in.
Networking- For example reach out to ex colleagues, Alumni meets, be active on platforms like linkedin and other professional and relevant industry groups.
Skill development- while you are looking for job work on developing your skills relating to data management, financial analysis etc
Research the organizations you are keen to join.
You can also look at contractual/ freelancing roles until you get the job you want. This will add to your experience.

All the best. Hope this helps

To Your Success
Thanks and Regards
Ashwini Dasgupta
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Ans: Dear Mam,

This is commendable to know you are planning to restart your career. This calls for the celebration :)

Few things you can consider-

Update your skills as per the industry you are looking at so that you are better prepared for the interviews.
Networking is very helpful. Start connecting with the individuals in the industry through professional platforms like linkedin or any other.
Address the career gap in your resume with a brief and positive explanation. Highlight any/all the skills you have developed during your time away, for example multitasking, time management, or organizational skills gained through managing a household or any other appropriate.
While you are looking for a permanent job also try other options like consulting or freelancing kind of work. This will help you gain practical experience to showcase.
Build your online presence by updating your linkedin profile and join relevant online groups per your industry.
While you are hunting for a job invest your time in learning new skills or completing the certifications which will also build your profile stronger.
Look for organizations who are hiring women specifically after a long bag. There are multiple organizations who run such programmes.
Importantly have patience and keep working towards meetings your dreams.

Hope this helps

To Your Success
Thanks and Regards
Ashwini Dasgupta
Author of Confidence Decoded. Is it a Skill or Attitude?

Ans: Hi Mam,

It's disheartening to see that you are facing gender and age biases at workplace and I feel happy you have realized this is a biased behavior. Few aspects you can look at -

Engage in mentorship programs and professional networking. Connecting with both younger and more experienced professionals can help break down stereotypes and foster a more supportive work environment.

Educate and speak to your higher up’s / Hr to organize workshops, or training sessions that promote diversity and inclusion. Encourage open conversations about age and gender biases and their impact on the workplace.

If you feel comfortable, consider having a private and professional conversation with the colleagues making such remarks. Share your perspective, experiences, and the impact of their comments on a collaborative work environment.

Identify allies within your workplace who share your views on diversity and inclusion. Collaborate with them to address bias collectively and create a more inclusive workplace culture.

Your skills, experience, and contributions are valuable at any age. By actively addressing bias and promoting a more inclusive workplace culture, you contribute not only to your own professional growth but also to the positive transformation of the workplace for others. In my opinion speak about it.

Hope this helps

To Your Success
Thanks and Regards
Ashwini Dasgupta
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Ans: Hi Sir/ Madam,

Always changing a job may not be the solution.
Firstly have a conversation with your manager and voice out your aspiration and what will keep you motivate.
List out the kind of courses or trainings you may want to pursue to enhance your professional experience. And see if these trainings are done internally or if yes take up those trainings and if it externally you can decide accordingly. This will help you learn a new skills and drift your thought of been dis motivated. Mostly importantly learning a new will only do good for your career opportunity.
If incase there are no roles within the team then you may look for within organizational roles to meet your ask.
Do some research how the industry is trending this will help you more equipped when you those conversations with your manager.

Hope this helps. All the best

Thanks
Ashwini Dasgupta
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Ans: Hi Shrutika,

Yes indeed you should showcase the internship work.

Hope this helps.

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Ashwini Dasgupta
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Ans: Dear Sir/ Madam,

Please consider few aspects-
Research the company. Know their products and services
Go through the job description in detail
Know exactly what you have written in the resume.
Check google/ you tube and prepare on common questions
Practice with a friend or a family member or self practice looking at the mirror
Use simple language
Most important - during the conversation- maintain eye contact, sit up straight (back straight), show your confidence and have a pleasant smile on your face.
Have a list of questions you may want to ask the interviewer
Most importantly just be yourself and honest. It's ok if you don't know English. The interviewer has called you knowing this fact. Just show your expertise and give your best.

Hope this helps All the best

To Your Success. Be You. Be Confident
Ashwini Dasgupta
Author of Confidence Decoded. Is it a skill or attitude?

Ans: Hi Sir/ Madam,

Few aspects to consider-

Do consultation on the areas of expertise
Provide advisory services
Create your own modules for online and offline and sell them. Consider platforms like udemy, teachable or possibly create your own website
Start blogging
Do mentoring and coaching
Podcast
associate with institutes/ corporates and render your services

Hope this helps All the best

To Your Success. Be You. Be Confident
Ashwini Dasgupta
Author of Confidence Decoded. Is it a skill or attitude?

Ans: Hi Sir/ Madam,


You may consider the following aspects- For giving the feedback
Be specific and clear in objective
Use SBI model- meaning
Situation- describe the specific situation or behaviour)
Behaviour (describe the observed behaviour or action)
Impact(Explain the impact of the behaviour on the individuals or the team)

Provide feedback promptly
Conduct regular feedback sessions
Focus on the improvement, dont blame (avoid personal attacks)
Give feedback where action can be taken

You may consider the following aspects- For receiving the feedback
Dont be defensive. Just be a good listener. Don't try to justify your actions
Feedback is been given due to the experience the team/ individual has had with you. Hence listening is important than countering it.
Identify the actionable steps
Thank them for giving the feedback.
Reflect back on the discussion and the instances been shared.

Hope this helps. All the best

To Your Success. Be You. Be Confident
Ashwini Dasgupta
Author of Confidence Decoded. Is it a skill or attitude?

Ans: Hi Prakash,

It's great that you are looking to enhance your professional and personal development.

Few aspects you can consider-
To enhance your communication skills you can at joining Toast Masters or some similar platforms. These forums will give you opportunity to work on your public speaking skills
You can do self practice by doing recordings of your own. This will help you identify the gaps to work upon.
Take help of friends and family who can regularly help you in articulating your thoughts.
Take relevant courses which will help you get the right job
Network with the people from the industry as this will open doors of opportunities. Attend industry related events this way you expand your connections
Seek professional guidance like career counselling or coaching
Importantly believe in your self and have patience. Keep practicing.

All the best

To your success. Be you. Be confident
Ashwini Dasgupta
Author of Confidence Decoded. Is it a skill or Attitude?