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Ashwini Dasgupta is a personality development coach and a neuro-linguistic programming trainer.
She has 15 years of experience training corporate professionals and has worked at Amazon, JP Morgan, Nomura and Satyam among others.
As a career coach, Ashwini specialises in helping growth-minded IT corporate managers develop their self-worth and create the right mindset so that they can achieve their career goals.
Besides corporate training, she offers personal consultations as well.
Ashwini holds a master’s degree in human resources from the Narsee Monjee Institute of Management Studies, Mumbai, and is a certified NLP trainer from the National Federation of NeuroLinguistic Programming, USA.
She has completed her soft skills training and image consultancy course from the Image Consulting Business Institute, Mumbai
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Prakash Question by Prakash on May 16, 2025
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Hi I want to improve personality my weak points is communication. Facing difficulty financial. I am working in logistics

Ans: Dear Prakash,

For communication you can look at the below mentioned options-

Read Books
Speak everyday in English (if you are facing challenge in this language)
Record yourself and hear and accordingly work on the gaps
Seek feedback on your communication from your friends and family and improve

Learning and practicing helps in regular improvements

Thanks
Ashwini
www.ashwinidasgupta.com
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