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Ashwini Dasgupta |87 Answers |Ask -Follow

Personality Development Expert, Career Coach - Answered on Nov 20, 2024

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Asked by Anonymous - Oct 19, 2024Hindi

Career

Why i am getting rejected in my interviews?

Ans: Dear Sir/ Madam,

Instead of asking why Am I getting rejected. Reframe and reflect. Instead ask yourself what could possibly be going wrong or What can do to improve my chances of selection.

You can look at few areas-
Before interview preparation
knowing more about the job role
Knowing more about the company
Do mock interviews
Prepare your answers better
Gain more experience by enhancing your skills
Ask the HR/ interview the key reasons for your getting rejected and accordingly work on them

Hope this helps

Ashwini
www.ashwinidasgupta.com
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Abhishek, my CV has been rejected multiple times. What could be the possible reason? I am a fresher with zero years of experience. Can you please help?

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Asked by Anonymous - Mar 27, 2024Hindi

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I have been rejected for a job interview I was selected after 3 rounds of written test. How do I find out what went wrong? How can I prepare better?

Ans: Hi!! Count you victories- you got selected after 03 rounds- that's your victory!! There is no way you can find out what went wrong.
Do a self analysis, most of the answers you'll know.
" How can I prepare?"- that's the question to ask ,you are looking forward, look at the past only if there is something to learn, else let it go. Now your preparation for the interview -
1.do a SWOT analysis( Google SWOT to know in detail)
2.dress appropriately for the role you are applying for and the goal you want to achieve
3.ask yourself all the probable questions they may ask and write them down
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Sir, in how many years , I can turn 1crore to 20 crore.So that I can retire.Im investing about 1.35lakh as sip every month . Im 44 now . I have about 60 lakh iin different funds now, im hoping to reach a crore 2026.Thanks in advance.

Ans: To achieve a corpus of Rs 20 crore with your current financial inputs, let's break it down step by step:

Your Current Investments and SIP Plan
Current Investment: Rs 60 lakh (expected to grow to Rs 1 crore by 2026).
Monthly SIP Contribution: Rs 1.35 lakh.
Expected Rate of Return: 12% annually.
Timeframe to Reach Rs 20 Crore
With a starting corpus of Rs 1 crore (by 2026) and continuing a SIP of Rs 1.35 lakh monthly at 12%, it will take 23 years to grow to Rs 20 crore.
By the time you turn 67 years old, your desired retirement corpus can be achieved.

Key Assumptions
The 12% return assumption is realistic for equity-heavy portfolios. However, past performance is no guarantee for the future.
The SIP contributions should continue consistently without interruption for the given timeframe.
Inflation and changing lifestyle expenses are not considered here.

Points to Consider
Diversify Your Investments: Ensure your portfolio includes a mix of equity and debt. Adjust allocations as you approach retirement to reduce risk.

Monitor Progress Regularly: Periodically review your investments and returns. Rebalancing may be necessary to stay aligned with your goal.

Increase SIP Contributions Gradually: With rising income, consider increasing your SIPs by 5-10% annually to reduce the timeframe.

Emergency Fund and Insurance: Ensure you have a robust emergency fund and sufficient term insurance to secure your family.

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Hi Sir, I’m a 33yo male seeking your guidance on investments. We're expecting ?16 lakh from the maturity of a ULIP and a chit fund. Could you advise whether it'd be better to invest this amount in a POS monthly scheme, SWP or FD? We intend to use this as income for my parents, who are both 60+ and agriculturists. Looking forward to your suggestions, thank you????

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SCSS would be better due to higher interest rate (8.2%) but flipside is quarterly interest payments.

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Both these schemes are backed by GOI so no fear of capital loss but they have tenure only of 5 years ofcourse you can always reinvest again but the rate of interest may not be the same.

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Hi, I'm soon to be 36 M, unmarried and never had any relationship in all my years, I have registered myself with many matrimony sites and have been searching for a girl or maybe a woman now, for last 5 or 6 years. My problem is that most girls in matrimonial reject me out right for reason like looks, money/property, age, etc, now I have asked some of my friends discreetly about my looks and I'm very confident about myself, also I know I do earn good bucks, despite that I don't understand what could be possible reason to not even have a single conversation before they reject someone. I have even tried my hands on dating apps, but I have not had success there as well. Some time I feel worthless and have breakdowns because of this. I don't have anyone to share this with and I know no one cares about it anyway as everyone has their own problem and you will be the last thing in their mind. I know the answer I'm going to get here - "keep trying", "life is not fair" etc, but I feel this is total crap, why does no women want a man who would respect her and care for her, why cry later for justice, domestic violence and cheating. After all this, I'm losing hope that I'll find my or any love in this world.

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I agree what's happening to you is not fair, and however you are feeling right now, it is valid. But having said that, you can't justify saying "why cry later for justice, domestic violence and cheating." These are entirely different and serious matters. Do not trivialize them. Rejecting a man who would've loved her does not automatically mean the woman deserves to find a man who should cheat, beat, or abuse her.

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But I would like to remind you that not everyone's love story runs at the same pace; some take time to start. I know you think it's cliched but people say it because it has truth to it- keep going; I am sure you will find someone.

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Question by Gayathri - Oct 10, 2024Hindi

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Dear ma'am/sir, I am 30 years old. I am an experienced English teacher. I find my job quite stressful and hectic since I work in a private school with very very low payment. I have plans to quit the job and look for better opportunities, like IT or other sectors communication related. Kindly guide me...

Ans: Dear Gayatri,

First understand which industry your interests is in.
Understand any shift you will do it will be from scratch that means you need to have patience until you built it
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Upgrade your skills as per the industry by taking up few courses

Hope this helps

Thanks
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www.ashwinidasgupta.com
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