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Personality Development Expert, Career Coach - Answered on May 14, 2024

Ashwini Dasgupta is a personality development coach and a neuro-linguistic programming trainer.
She has 15 years of experience training corporate professionals and has worked at Amazon, JP Morgan, Nomura and Satyam among others.
As a career coach, Ashwini specialises in helping growth-minded IT corporate managers develop their self-worth and create the right mindset so that they can achieve their career goals.
Besides corporate training, she offers personal consultations as well.
Ashwini holds a master’s degree in human resources from the Narsee Monjee Institute of Management Studies, Mumbai, and is a certified NLP trainer from the National Federation of NeuroLinguistic Programming, USA.
She has completed her soft skills training and image consultancy course from the Image Consulting Business Institute, Mumbai
Ashwini is also a PoSH trainer, certified by the Society for Human Resource Management.... more
Asked by Anonymous - Apr 29, 2024Hindi
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Hello madam I am a merchant Navy guy, means six months working on ship in a year, I have just got married, I wanted to live in India, but not able to decide which place is good for living, as I wanted to provide the best education, and opportunities for my future children Thank you

Ans: Dear Sir/ Madam,

Few considerations for your reference
You could look at metro cities depending on what kind of standard of living you may be comfortable with
Choose the city considering the education you may consider
Look for cities which have International schools for example- IB or CIE. International schools often provide a seamless transition for children moving between countries.
Choose cities basis the accessibilities like airports etc and family friendly environment you can have
Consider climate lifestyle
Future career opportunity if you wish to change
Check the pros and cons and unique priorities you and your family may have

Hope this helps

All the best

Thanks and Regards
To your success. Be you. Be confident
Ashwini Dasgupta
Author of Confidence Decoded-Is it a skill or attitude?
www.ashwinidasgupta.com
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You are not overthinking. Wanting privacy about your relationship is a reasonable boundary. His friendship might be older than your marriage, your consent to share sensitive information which involves you still applies. And friendship and marriage are two different things, and each has its own place.

The best solution to this situation is to have a conversation, the right time, right place and right way. Pick a time when both of you are calm and relaxed. Frame the conversation around trust, not control. If it sounds like you are asking him to choose marriage over friendship, he might get defensive. So, highlight your emotional safety instead of sounding accusatory that he is making you feel a certain way. Be specific about your boundaries: bedroom talks are off limits, or personal insecurities should not be shared outside of the marriage. Everyone needs someone to vent to, and talking to friends is okay, but not when it makes your partner uncomfortable. Acknowledge that he needs to talk to someone about things, but remain firm about your boundaries. If he still brushes it off, let him know that joking about your private matters hurt your deeply. If nothing else works, I really suggest marriage counseling. Sometimes people need to hear the hard things from others, instead of their partner, to understand it's validity.

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