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27-Year-Old Windows Administrator Looking to Transition to Cybersecurity Engineer: How Can I Achieve My Goal?

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Asked by Anonymous - Oct 28, 2024Hindi
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I'm 27 year old, I have almost 6 years experience in windows administrator field and still working in my second MNC company as same position. I'm planned upskill myself to cyber security Engineer, so started learning networking, comptia security+ and cloud computing with azure, please advise to achieve my goal?

Ans: Dear Sir/ Madam,

Could you please clearly sight out what your goal?

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