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She has 15 years of experience training corporate professionals and has worked at Amazon, JP Morgan, Nomura and Satyam among others.
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Besides corporate training, she offers personal consultations as well.
Ashwini holds a master’s degree in human resources from the Narsee Monjee Institute of Management Studies, Mumbai, and is a certified NLP trainer from the National Federation of NeuroLinguistic Programming, USA.
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Asked by Anonymous - Aug 05, 2024
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Why does HR doesn't provide feedback to the candidate post completion of interview? There is no harm is saying that the candidate is not being selected with an appropriate feedback that will help them to improve upon. In recent past, I gave many interviews, but not even a single response has come from HR stating why they have not selected me in spite of answering the questions satisfactorily. Whether it is a budget problem or my answers was not matching with what they had expected or any other possible concerns, it is better to notify. Why they don't do it?

Ans: Dear Sir/ Madam,

This is quite common in the industry and can lead to frustration. Possible reasons-

High volume of candidates
Legal risks and liability
Time and Resource Constraints
Too many tasks at one time

Reasons are many due to which they dont revert back.

Hope this helps

Thanks
Ashwini
www.ashwinidasgupta.com
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When HR asks, 'do you have any questions,' what are some of the most thoughtful/intelligent questions to ask HR in a job interview?
Ans: Hi There,

Thank you for asking the question.

It's important to ask questions to the HR / Interviewer during the interview. Asking right questions are important to demonstrate your genuine interest in the company's mission, the role's responsibilities, and how you can contribute to the organization's success.

When interviewing for a job, it's important to ask questions that demonstrate your interest, engagement, and understanding of the role and the company. For example- questions can be around :

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"Can you describe the day-to-day responsibilities of this role?"
"What are the performance expectations for someone in this role in the first three to six months?"
"Can you describe the day-to-day responsibilities of this role?"

Company and Culture:
"What is the company's approach to professional development and career growth?"
"To whom will I report, and what is their leadership style?"
"How does the team typically collaborate and communicate?"

Company Growth and Future Plans:
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"Are there opportunities for career advancement within the organization?"

Next Steps and Timeline:
"What are the next steps in the interview process, and what is the expected timeline for a decision?"
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"When can I expect to hear back regarding the outcome of this interview?"

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Asked by Anonymous - Feb 18, 2026Hindi
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Hi, I am 41 years old working in a software job. I am married and have a kid who is 8 years old. Wife is not working. Due to the situation in the software industry especially for experienced folks and also due to my limitations, I am not confident of continuing long in the job. I feel I can work for a minimum of 2 more years and a max of 5 years. I have around 1.5 crores invested in stocks and mutual funds. Around 1.5 crore more in EPF, PPF, NPS, gratuity etc. Also have around 55 lakhs in FD. I have a self occupied home worth around 55lakhs in bangalore and another house I bought few years back in my home town around 4 years back worth around 90lakhs now. I receive 17k rent per month from that property. I earn around 50lpa in my job. Am I on the right path to retire in another 2-3 years? Can you suggest if I should make any changes to my portfolio? I want to start some small business after leaving the job, but need to think more on the kind of business I should get into.
Ans: You have shown strong financial discipline at a relatively young age. Building assets across market-linked investments, retirement instruments, fixed deposits, and property, while supporting a single-income family, is not easy. This already puts you on a stable path and gives you choices, which is most important at this stage of life.

» Your current life and career situation
– Age 41, working in a software role with valid career risk concerns
– Single income family, spouse not working, one child aged 8
– Realistic work horizon of 2 to 5 more years
– High current income but uncertainty about continuity
– Desire to move into a small business after job exit

This mindset is practical and timely. Planning now is far better than reacting later.

» Snapshot of your current financial strength
– Market-linked investments (stocks and mutual funds) around Rs.1.5 crore
– Retirement-oriented assets (EPF, PPF, NPS, gratuity) around Rs.1.5 crore
– Fixed deposits around Rs.55 lakh
– Self-occupied house in Bengaluru, loan free
– One additional house giving Rs.17,000 monthly rent
– No mention of loans, which is a big positive

Overall, you are asset-rich and reasonably diversified.

» Understanding what “retirement” means in your case
– You are not planning to stop work fully and sit idle
– You want to exit a high-pressure job and move to a lower-risk phase
– Some income from rent and future business is expected
– Main fear is loss of salary, not lack of activity

So this is more of a “career reset” than a traditional retirement.

» Can you afford to retire from the job in 2–3 years
– Financially, you are closer to independence than you may feel
– Your core retirement money is already built to a large extent
– Child’s higher education is still a future responsibility
– Medical inflation and family protection must be kept in focus
– The biggest risk is stopping income too early without a plan

If expenses are controlled and withdrawals are disciplined, job exit in 2–3 years is possible, but only with structure.

» Key risk areas to address before exiting the job
– Large portion of wealth is locked in long-term retirement buckets
– Fixed deposits are safe but may not support long-term inflation
– Rental income is modest compared to living costs
– Business income is uncertain in the early years

This means you must not rely on just one source after job exit.

» How your portfolio needs to evolve now
– Clearly separate money into three buckets

Near-term living and safety money

Medium-term flexibility money

Long-term growth and retirement money
– Do not treat all assets as one combined pool
– Gradually reduce unnecessary concentration in any one area
– Ensure enough liquidity for 3 to 5 years of expenses

This structure gives confidence during job transition.

» Fixed deposits and cash management
– Keep only planned money in fixed deposits
– Avoid excess idle cash losing value silently
– Fixed deposits should act as shock absorbers, not growth engines
– Review tenure and purpose of each deposit

Purpose-based use of FDs is important now.

» Market-linked investments
– Continue equity exposure, even after leaving the job
– Avoid sudden exit from markets due to fear
– Gradual rebalancing is safer than sharp changes
– Long-term money should stay invested for growth

Your time horizon for a part of money is still very long.

» Real estate holdings
– Self-occupied house gives emotional and financial stability
– Rental property provides some income but low yield
– Do not depend on rent alone for regular expenses
– Keep property only if it fits your long-term comfort and liquidity needs

Real estate should remain supportive, not central to retirement income.

» Planning for the small business idea
– Do not invest retirement money into business directly
– Start with a small, capped capital allocation
– Expect low or zero income in the first few years
– Treat business as optional income, not compulsory

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» What the next 2–5 years should focus on
– Save aggressively while salary continues
– Build a clear post-job cash flow plan
– Strengthen emergency and medical buffers
– Prepare mentally for variable income
– Avoid lifestyle inflation during high-income years

These years are your strongest defence against future uncertainty.

» Final Insights
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– Exiting a software job in 2–3 years is possible with discipline
– A 5-year horizon gives much more comfort and flexibility
– Portfolio clarity is more important than chasing returns
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Sometimes people regret separation and divorce and living apart helps them with a different perspective to evaluate their decisions. Obviously there was an issue due to which the marriage ended; the reason may still exist and hence right now there is no question of getting back together until the point the two of you iron out differences and work on what ended your marriage.
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