Hi Love Guru
We were married very young.
We already have two children.
My husband doesn’t like using contraception, says it feels better without it.
I don’t want to get pregnant again.
Please advise.
Regards,
V

Ans:

I would suggest that you consult a gynaecologist, my dear!

I am not qualified to give you medical advice.

Many women get fitted with IUDs as an alternative to birth control pills, but like I said, you need to discuss these options with your doctor.

 

Ans: The decision to procreate or have a child should be a mutual decision between the couple and I don't think any either of the partners can force their decision on the other. However, the owners on when to plan the family and how to plan the family should obviously be on the female partner as she is going to carry the baby. I think it is just appropriate to tell your husband that you have been on the pill. Stop the pill immediately and start trying naturally, which will obviously result in a pregnancy fall as well.

Ans: Move on

Ans: History noted, you are being 45 years and wife being 41 years, married since 6 years, staying separately since 4 years, now together since 5 months and with all the challenges.
Every woman has a right to plan for family and have a baby.
Considering financial challenges, future expense can be taken care of with mutual discussion Between you both.
Age factor: can be explained to your wife that fertility level might be compromised with age than if needed can undergo ivf treatment and chances if getting blood pressure and diabetes.
Sarcastic behavior can be tackled with couple counselling, family support psychological therapy and eliminating the root cause.
The above said things are manageable
Being a gynaec and obstetrician, i can take away the right of a woman from being mother and motherhood.