Hi Love Guru
We were married very young.
We already have two children.
My husband doesn’t like using contraception, says it feels better without it.
I don’t want to get pregnant again.
Please advise.
Regards,
V

Ans:

I would suggest that you consult a gynaecologist, my dear!

I am not qualified to give you medical advice.

Many women get fitted with IUDs as an alternative to birth control pills, but like I said, you need to discuss these options with your doctor.

 

Ans: The decision to procreate or have a child should be a mutual decision between the couple and I don't think any either of the partners can force their decision on the other. However, the owners on when to plan the family and how to plan the family should obviously be on the female partner as she is going to carry the baby. I think it is just appropriate to tell your husband that you have been on the pill. Stop the pill immediately and start trying naturally, which will obviously result in a pregnancy fall as well.

Ans: "I think the compelling reason to have a second child should be to complete your family and provide a sibling for your existing child. At age 38, it is important to be under supervision and undergo appropriate genetic investigations to determine the possibility of abnormalities in the baby. Once these investigations are complete and everything is normal, you can proceed with the pregnancy.

Your reasons for having a baby, such as not being able to find a good maid, fear of tampering, or your daughter's education, don't seem very logical. Instead, it is important to economize your funds and channel them appropriately to be able to generate resources for both your children."

Ans: Move on