My husband wouldn't listen to me when I told him I didn't want another child so I started secretly taking birth control. Now he's talking about IVF what should I do?

Hi Love Guru We were married very young. We already have two children. My husband doesn’t like using contraception, says it feels better without it. I don’t want to get pregnant again. Please advise. Regards, V

Dear Love Guru, My husband doesn't like to use condoms. He says it doesn't feel good, ie the sex is not as fun. I am not sure if I should go on the pill. Won't it harm my health? Anyway condoms are not fully effective. We already have three children. What do you suggest I do?

Hi. I am 31 years old and my husband is 33 years old. We want to plan a baby but we both feel that we are not mentally and financially ready for a child. I have pcod so I want to have baby soon to avoid future complications but I feel that I am not ready for such a big responsibility. Basically, I want a child but I am not ready for the responsibilities. Its a big life altering decision and I don't know what is the right thing to do.

Hello coach. I am dating a 42 yr old man who is almost perfect for marriage. He is kind, successful, and we have a great chemistry. But there is a problem. He says he never wants kids. The thing is I want to be a mother someday. I feel so bad about this. Everything else is so right. Should I give up on him or continue the relationship hoping that he will change his mind?

Hello I am married for last 11 years and we have a 9 year old son. We have seen many ups and downs during the early year of our marriage, in our relationship and in economically as well. I even left my work after my son was born, spent all my savings fulfilling his and my wishes. My husband only use to provide us with the basics. We live with our in laws. My father in law has all the control our the money we earn in our business and my mother in law wants to control the whole house. So I limited myself to my room to avoid any arguments. My husband promised me monthly allowance before I got pregnant for the first time. Which I never received. Now I started working again and I am earning well, I finally feel happy again. But now he started asking for second child. Which I actually never want. Because nothing changed from his side. He doesn't provide us with much, we need a bigger house if we have another kid as I can't raise Children with so much age gap in one room as our son still sleeps with us. He only say it will happen eventually but that is what he said even before. I do want a second child but I know I will never be happy with it. Because I will have to leave work and he will not provide us that well. Kindly suggest me what to do