I am 38 yrs old and spouse is 43 yrs. We are living at company quarter with our 8 yrs daughter and she is not bad at study. In last september, I had a miscarrage after 7 months of pregency due to urine infection. My dilema is that can I go for an another pregency considering 1) late pregnancy at 38 or 39. 2) Remaining service life of husband is 17 yrs 3) Nuclear family i.e. no extra family member who can stay here in company quarter and old age to help us . 4) It is difficult to get a loyal housemaid. 5) fear of hampring daughter's education. 6) extra budget

Hello sir , I got married just before COVID in 2020. Because of COVID I didn't planned baby. In 2021 I started to plan a baby and after few months ( 8 months) in 2022 August my wife get's pregnant. We were very happy but after 8 weeks miscarriage happened and we both were totally disturbed for few months. Now we again started to plan a baby, My mind is always in stress that for first time it took 8 months and now it's already 3 months. Shall I go to doc for semen Analysis or shall I wait. I am 38 and my wife is 33. We both are fit and don't have any disease or any other medical issues. Please help me.

Hi i m 41 yers old and my wife is 40 .we have one child. We planned next kid one year back but after 7 month my wife got some complications and after doctors advise we abort that ..now i want another chance but my wife not ready ..she is always wory about age. Can we plan or not or it will any difficulty in delivery. Please guide us. Thanks.

I have second marriage and staying 9 years. Now my age is 50 years, and my wife age is 40. I have one child years of years 6. I am in a managerial Position in a company. My wife is a Housewife and her behavior's, misconduct, lack of ownership towards me as well as home is always upset and irritate me. My child was born by IFV method due to her irregular period. She has got many opportunities to recover this problem and treatment also got an early-stage life. Due to lack of her understanding and knowledge, lack of own effort, irresponsible and liar nature, did not overcome her problem and therefore, we cannot go for second baby. Now me and my son also suffer from 2nd baby, though I have sufficient resource to look two children. I need to monitor all the things of my son’s health, extracurricular activity, education etc. She also neglects my mother. I feel she is very quality less and very dirty woman and talking valueless, not concern with health of own as well as other family member. Therefore, I and my wife staying in same home, but from last 4 years I have been separated from my wife and living in separate room. Sometimes I think to separate from my wife, but it may affect relation with my son as well as his mental condition. I am trying to adopt a second child also. I found she is not concern with quality, health, and economy. Therefore, I need to do home marketing, finance, monitoring home, health etc. which has already affected at my career also. Please advise me what to do? I feel my future is very dark with my wife. No emotions, no love and intimacy in the relation. I do regular walking & jogging and gardening is also my hobby.

Hi. I am 31 years old and my husband is 33 years old. We want to plan a baby but we both feel that we are not mentally and financially ready for a child. I have pcod so I want to have baby soon to avoid future complications but I feel that I am not ready for such a big responsibility. Basically, I want a child but I am not ready for the responsibilities. Its a big life altering decision and I don't know what is the right thing to do.