I am 38 yrs old and spouse is 43 yrs. We are living at company quarter with our 8 yrs daughter and she is not bad at study. In last september, I had a miscarrage after 7 months of pregency due to urine infection. My dilema is that can I go for an another pregency considering 1) late pregnancy at 38 or 39. 2) Remaining service life of husband is 17 yrs 3) Nuclear family i.e. no extra family member who can stay here in company quarter and old age to help us . 4) It is difficult to get a loyal housemaid. 5) fear of hampring daughter's education. 6) extra budget

Ans: "It is fairly common to have a miscarriage in the first pregnancy, so that shouldn't be a cause for concern. It's not necessary to assume that if you've had one miscarriage, you will have problems in the second pregnancy as well. However, considering your wife's age, it is always a good idea to seek the supervision and advice of a good gynecologist who can monitor the current pregnancy and ensure that it progresses smoothly. Additionally, it is appropriate to start folic acid supplementation and aspirin prior to conception to reduce the incidence of miscarriage. If you haven't had a chance to evaluate possible reasons for the miscarriage, it might be a good idea to see your gynecologist who can determine if there are any underlying issues and correct them before you plan your next pregnancy."

Ans: Hello. It is true that with increased maternal age chances of birth defects in the child are higher, however, we now have very good methods of checking for these defects early on and taking preventive action one way or another. If both of you are desirous of another child, I would say it is quite safe to try in the next 2-3 years also. All the best!

Ans: The child to be born is coming from the different dimension
That spirit is deciding factor in drawing the time and space.When the time arrives
You will be ready mentally and physically
Sometimes taking these decisions too much into our mind is not healthy. Listening to the heart bring in peace

Ans: History noted
You are being 36 years with one delivered child and 1 miscarriage one at 12 weeks and another at early pregnancy:
It is advisable to Diagnostic evaluation should include maternal and paternal karyotypes, assessment of the uterine anatomy, and evaluation for thyroid dysfunction and immunological causes, APS, and selected thrombophilia's. In some women, evaluation for insulin resistance, ovarian reserve, antithyroid antibodies, and prolactin disorders may be indicated.
To do semen analysis also
To check for DNA FRAGMENTATION
TO DO hysteroscopy to evaluate the uterine cavity and rule out chronic endometritis.