I am a second year student (male), till now in my life i never been i any relationships actually to say i never attracted to anyone, but during the college i met a girl, we started talking, one day while texting she told me that "I heard something I want to ask u.. Something like u likee me?" after that with some fear or i don't know what to say that feeling but I had told her that yes. but then she told we can be only normal friends not to expect more than that. i dont know what to say but i told ok. then even after that we had talk but now a days it reached a point with no replies on chat. i have tried to move on, then suddenly i miss her. as she was my first girl (not even into relationship) that i had some feelings.

Dear Anu It's been 3 years since I had my break up with my girlfriend. We parted our ways on good terms but till date I miss her. Every time I feel like I should text her or call her but I don't I just divert myself. From past three weeks this thing is increasing I don't know what to do should I contact her or not. And I can't discuss this thing with anyone I never told my friends about this relationship and I don't want to. Please help me out ma'am tell me what should I do .

Dear love guru, Hope u are doing well.  This story starts in 2018 when I was in my 12th. I had a huge crush on this junior girl. This girl is very intelligent and she used to get very high marks. So I took that as an inspiration and started working very hard on my academics. I started to read like a maniac and that worked and I got seat in a very prestigious college hoping she would get the seat in the same college but unfortunately she got seat in other state. I was disappointed. I was shy and never talked to her in my 12th and thought I lost my chance of talking to her ever again. But fortunately after a year, I found her insta and mustered my courage to chat with her.  Although it was awkward initially, we became good friends (I guess so) and used to chat almost daily. She is really a charmer and she chats so nicely. She is a great friend but I never had courage to say about my feelings. She used to talk about her friends, her new college and her cats and so many things about herself and as I am her senior, I used to guide her and talk about my daily experiences. We had great time talking to each other on insta, WhatsApp and even snapchat. Heck we have a Spotify playlist Collab and she even included me in her private Instagram account as a close friend (u know that girls do have spam accounts for close friends) and I was wondering whether I'm just another friend or close friend or anything more.  This continued like for many months and we chatted very well in the lockdown. I never met her or called her, we just chatted( I'm a shy guy and not so good at talking to girls). Feelings aside, she became a really good friend to me and I don't have many friends. I never said her about my feelings, fearing it would destroy this great friendship I was having. But recently she was not responding properly to my chats( I never misbehaved in the chat ). I do believe she is seeing a guy whom she met recently but I don't know whether that is a relationship or just friendship.  I was disappointed but hey it's her life and I was u know just continuing my life feeling sad sometimes or just trying to forget about her. And recently she completely avoided my messages and I was so hurt(I do have some self-respect right). U could say this as a one side love story. But this is so hard. After all she is my first love and this started affecting my academics. Should I move on or should I just continue trying to talk to her so that hopefully she will talk to me like she used to before. I don't have any problem continuing but sometimes I feel what's the purpose since it is going nowhere.  Please give me any valuable suggestion. Sorry for the long story Thank you  

Ma'am I m totally obsessed with her. Almost couple of years gone in my college btw she is my colleague in college despite that I never talked to her even for single minute till now what should I do my image in front of her is so arrogant and sincere although we have eye contacts several times in college she is in my batch St Stephen's College University of Delhi But unfortunately I never dare to ask her for an hangout I got stuck here for too long.at the same time I'm totally afraid of her what should I do actually I tried a lot erase her picture in my mind bcz she is bit different she is not a long term partner she just needs fun as it seems through her past experience in college witnessed through my eyes can you please help how to move on from this situation

Hi mam, I liked onw girl whose iet in my office 3 years back . We didn't talk much as she is speaking different language. We used to talk oly work related thinav.i texted her many time personally and she is not responsible properly.but she will reply anyways.one day we all oru team went to mall and played a bowling game including her..that day that cherish moment everyone is happy..that day I fell for her. Use to text her random days regularly.one day I asked her that do you have bf.. she said no and asked me like this" did you saw anay post i put with a guy ". So we used to talk 3 to 4 days a week.the main thing is she and me not at the same location. She left the city afterwe all went to the mall and enjoying one day evening at there. She resigned job because she wanted to do mba..so she came to office where I was at to submit the laptop. I met her..went canteen had some snacks she is in hurry anyways she submitted laptops and she left..after that she called me to take the photos..but we didn't meet. She left the city saying that she will meet next time. One day while chatting I opened up about I liked her. She is laughing