Anu Krishna |839 Answers |Ask -Follow
Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Sep 20, 2021
We parted our ways on good terms but till date I miss her. Every time I feel like I should text her or call her but I don't I just divert myself.
From past three weeks this thing is increasing I don't know what to do should I contact her or not.
And I can't discuss this thing with anyone I never told my friends about this relationship and I don't want to.
Please help me out ma'am tell me what should I do .
If she does, see how both of you can rebuild it.
If she has moved on, then it’s obvious to move on as well. Easier said than done, I know.
But if you weigh what you lose by being in a zone of misery and anxiety versus what you can do and be when you move on, I guess it’s obvious what you must choose for yourself.
Start with initially distracting yourself from the phone into things that matter.
Do simple things; any repair in the house that you have put off or any course that you have been procrastinating about.
This is the time to start deeply focusing into something that will give you a sense of achievement that will enable you to have a better feeling from within.
Slowly, start to increase the level of difficulty of these tasks and soon, though you might still remember her, it will not be through pain or anguish but more a good memory.
Start now and always make sure you are surrounded by friends who pull you when you feel that ‘down’ moment.
Do remember, there was a reason why the two of you parted.
Honour and respect that reason and move on if that’s what is necessary for your peace of mind.
My best wishes to you!
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