Dear love guru,
Hope u are doing well. 
This story starts in 2018 when I was in my 12th. I had a huge crush on this junior girl. This girl is very intelligent and she used to get very high marks. So I took that as an inspiration and started working very hard on my academics. I started to read like a maniac and that worked and I got seat in a very prestigious college hoping she would get the seat in the same college but unfortunately she got seat in other state. I was disappointed. I was shy and never talked to her in my 12th and thought I lost my chance of talking to her ever again. But fortunately after a year, I found her insta and mustered my courage to chat with her. 
Although it was awkward initially, we became good friends (I guess so) and used to chat almost daily. She is really a charmer and she chats so nicely. She is a great friend but I never had courage to say about my feelings. She used to talk about her friends, her new college and her cats and so many things about herself and as I am her senior, I used to guide her and talk about my daily experiences. We had great time talking to each other on insta, WhatsApp and even snapchat. Heck we have a Spotify playlist Collab and she even included me in her private Instagram account as a close friend (u know that girls do have spam accounts for close friends) and I was wondering whether I'm just another friend or close friend or anything more. 
This continued like for many months and we chatted very well in the lockdown. I never met her or called her, we just chatted( I'm a shy guy and not so good at talking to girls). Feelings aside, she became a really good friend to me and I don't have many friends. I never said her about my feelings, fearing it would destroy this great friendship I was having.
But recently she was not responding properly to my chats( I never misbehaved in the chat ). I do believe she is seeing a guy whom she met recently but I don't know whether that is a relationship or just friendship. 
I was disappointed but hey it's her life and I was u know just continuing my life feeling sad sometimes or just trying to forget about her. And recently she completely avoided my messages and I was so hurt(I do have some self-respect right). U could say this as a one side love story. But this is so hard. After all she is my first love and this started affecting my academics. Should I move on or should I just continue trying to talk to her so that hopefully she will talk to me like she used to before. I don't have any problem continuing but sometimes I feel what's the purpose since it is going nowhere. 
Please give me any valuable suggestion. Sorry for the long story
Thank you  

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Here is the pointwise reply to your query: (1) No, it is not compulsory for your son to appear for the MHT-CET Examination. (2) Your son is eligible for admission through the All India Quota only and not through the state quota. (3) Please register for the CAP counselling conducted by the Maharashtra State CET Cell. Select the All India Quota option while applying, and submit his JEE Main score during the application process. Participate in the centralized admission rounds like everyone else, and keep a close eye on the cetcell.mahacet.org website. (4) However, it would be better for him to appear for the MHT-CET as well if he has applied to it. You will have more flexibility and stronger chances of getting into a top-tier college based on the MHT-CET score if he excels in it.
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Ans: You’ve invested Rs. 50,000 in a PSU-focused equity mutual fund (direct growth) in August 2024. You are currently facing a notional loss of around Rs. 7,000.

Let’s evaluate your concern with a 360-degree analysis. We’ll consider fund nature, risk, tenure, emotional behaviour, tax impact, and expert support.

We truly appreciate your initiative in seeking proper guidance. It shows a responsible investment mindset.

Let’s assess this decision from all angles.

 

Nature of Investment Chosen
You invested in a sector-specific equity fund.

 

Sector funds are very high-risk and concentrated.

 

PSU theme is based on government-owned businesses.

 

These funds follow a very narrow investment style.

 

When sector underperforms, your entire fund gets affected.

 

Even good companies may fall if the sector is weak.

 

Sector and Volatility
PSU stocks are affected by government policy decisions.

 

Market may react to budget, reforms, or geopolitical news.

 

In short term, PSU funds can show deep falls.

 

This is part of the risk-reward structure in such funds.

 

Volatility is not a mistake; it is expected.

 

If you knew this before investing, you need not worry now.

 

Investment Duration
You invested just 8 months ago.

 

Equity mutual funds need more time.

 

Especially sector funds may take 3 to 5 years minimum.

 

Judging performance in 8 months is not meaningful.

 

Markets have up and down cycles.

 

Short-term dips are not real losses unless you redeem.

 

Long holding gives your investment time to recover.

 

Notional Loss vs. Actual Loss
Rs. 7,000 loss is not permanent unless you withdraw.

 

Current value is only a temporary figure.

 

If you sell now, you book this loss forever.

 

If you hold, there’s chance to recover and grow.

 

Investors often panic and redeem at wrong time.

 

That’s a behavioural mistake, not a market mistake.

 

Direct Funds and Investor Decisions
You chose a direct plan.

 

Direct plans lack expert guidance.

 

You are making decisions alone.

 

Without a Certified Financial Planner, mistakes can happen.

 

Many direct investors redeem early due to fear.

 

Regular plans offer support from CFP-certified professionals.

 

A CFP helps in review, correction, and long-term strategy.

 

That small extra cost brings big long-term value.

 

Emotional Bias in Investing
Losses create fear in most investors.

 

Fear may lead to bad decisions.

 

With equity, this emotional control is critical.

 

Long-term wealth is only possible with patience.

 

You must separate emotions from money choices.

 

Take help of a CFP who brings calmness and objectivity.

 

Tax Implication (As Per New Rules)
You invested in August 2024.

 

If you redeem before August 2025, gains (or losses) are short-term.

 

Short-term capital gains tax is 20%.

 

If there’s a loss, it can be carried forward for future tax benefit.

 

But we don’t advise redeeming now just to record this loss.

 

Let the investment complete its full cycle.

 

Investment Goal and Purpose
Was there a clear goal for this investment?

 

If yes, when is the goal coming up?

 

PSU funds are not suitable for short-term needs.

 

If you need money within 1 year, it’s not ideal.

 

If it’s a long-term goal, then hold tight.

 

Invest according to your time horizon, not just fund return.

 

Diversification Matters
PSU equity funds are too narrow.

 

You should avoid putting large sums in one sector.

 

Diversify across multiple sectors and styles.

 

Multi-cap, flexi-cap or large-cap funds give better balance.

 

Keep PSU exposure limited, not core holding.

 

A well-diversified portfolio reduces mental stress too.

 

Review and Restructure
Sit with a Certified Financial Planner.

 

Review your full portfolio, not just one fund.

 

Restructure based on goals and risk tolerance.

 

Build a mix of funds with different styles and caps.

 

Avoid repeating mistakes like overexposure to sectors.

 

Common Investor Mistakes to Avoid
Don’t react to short-term loss.

 

Don’t check NAVs every day or week.

 

Don’t follow social media fund tips.

 

Don’t chase highest return or lowest NAV.

 

Don’t switch between funds too often.

 

Stay steady and follow your plan.

 

What Should You Do Now?
Do not redeem now.

 

Let the investment complete minimum 3–5 years.

 

Meanwhile, avoid adding more in this one sector.

 

Start investing gradually in diversified equity funds.

 

Take help from a CFP to guide and monitor.

 

Do a portfolio review every year.

 

Continue investing with patience and discipline.

 

Key Takeaways from Your Situation
Loss in 8 months is not unusual.

 

Sector funds are volatile by nature.

 

Your decision should be based on goals, not returns.

 

Avoid emotional reactions like panic redemption.

 

You must work with a qualified CFP for guidance.

 

Shift from direct funds to regular plan with MFD-CFP support.

 

Always diversify and follow asset allocation.

 

Stick to your long-term strategy for real wealth creation.

 

Finally
Your concern is valid and understandable.

 

But early redemption will lock the loss permanently.

 

Sector fund performance takes time to show up.

 

Stay invested and consult a CFP for next steps.

 

Your journey to wealth is not a sprint, it’s a marathon.

 

Continue with patience, proper planning, and expert guidance.

 

Right investment decisions are not based on past returns.

 

They are based on goals, risk capacity, and time.

 

You have already taken the first right step—asking the right questions.

 

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,

Chief Financial Planner,

www.holisticinvestment.in
https://www.youtube.com/@HolisticInvestment

Ans: You are planning to invest Rs. 1 lakh annually for 5 years in a pure equity mutual fund from a reputed AMC.

Let us assess your decision with a 360-degree view.

We will evaluate the benefits, risks, and alignment with your goals.

We will also check if this is a wise and suitable decision for you.

We appreciate your discipline in thinking long-term.

Let’s now explore this in detail.

 

Investment Approach
You are choosing an actively managed mutual fund.

 

This is better than passive index investing.

 

Actively managed funds aim to beat the market returns.

 

Professional fund managers analyse and pick quality stocks.

 

This is better than index funds, which just copy the market.

 

Index funds cannot avoid poor performing stocks.

 

Active funds adjust to changing market trends faster.

 

You also get risk management strategies in active funds.

 

Investment Tenure
You plan to invest for 5 years.

 

This is a decent time frame for equity mutual funds.

 

Equity funds can be volatile in the short term.

 

But over 5 years, chances of earning better returns improve.

 

Staying invested during ups and downs is key.

 

Compounding also works better when you stay longer.

 

Please try to extend beyond 5 years if possible.

 

Longer holding brings more tax efficiency and better growth.

 

Investment Amount
You are planning Rs. 1 lakh per year.

 

That’s Rs. 5 lakhs in 5 years.

 

Investing in lump sum or SIP both are fine.

 

SIP helps reduce the average cost per unit.

 

It also builds investment habit and removes timing worries.

 

If investing lump sum, divide into 4–5 tranches over months.

 

Risk Factors
Pure equity funds are linked to stock market performance.

 

They are affected by domestic and global events.

 

Short term can have negative or low returns.

 

But long term investors usually benefit more.

 

You should be mentally prepared for short-term losses.

 

Never panic or redeem early due to volatility.

 

Equity is not for those needing fixed or assured returns.

 

Patience is the most important quality here.

 

Taxation of Mutual Funds (As per New Rules)
If you sell before 1 year, gains are called short-term capital gains.

 

These are taxed at 20% as per new rule.

 

If you sell after 1 year, and gain above Rs. 1.25 lakh, tax is 12.5%.

 

Gains below Rs. 1.25 lakh are tax-free.

 

You can use the Rs. 1.25 lakh limit each financial year.

 

This makes mutual funds more efficient than many other options.

 

Insurance-cum-Investment Policies
If you also hold ULIP or LIC investment-linked plans, do review them.

 

Such policies often give low returns and high costs.

 

They mix insurance and investment in one product.

 

This is not suitable for long-term wealth creation.

 

You may consider surrendering those and switch to pure mutual funds.

 

Invest separately for protection (term plan) and wealth (mutual fund).

 

Role of a Mutual Fund Distributor with CFP
You mentioned a fund from a reputed AMC.

 

You may choose a Regular plan through a CFP-certified MFD.

 

A Certified Financial Planner gives goal-based planning.

 

They help you choose right asset allocation for your goals.

 

They guide during market cycles and emotional investing errors.

 

Regular funds include cost for their services.

 

Direct plans lack this support and guidance.

 

Many investors in direct plans take wrong decisions alone.

 

Regular plan with CFP gives personalised advice and reviews.

 

Asset Allocation & Diversification
Do not invest 100% in a single equity fund.

 

Diversify across 2–3 equity funds with different styles.

 

You can include large cap, flexi cap, or mid cap category.

 

This reduces risk from underperformance of any one fund.

 

Also keep part of your portfolio in short-term debt funds.

 

Debt funds help in emergencies or short-term needs.

 

They also reduce overall portfolio volatility.

 

Goal Alignment
What is the purpose of this investment?

 

Is it for retirement, child education, house down payment?

 

If you define the goal, planning becomes stronger.

 

You can choose fund types based on goal duration.

 

You will also know how much to invest each year.

 

This creates clarity and motivates regular investing.

 

Benefits of Your Decision
You are investing regularly for 5 years.

 

This is better than keeping money in savings or FD.

 

Mutual funds give higher growth potential than bank products.

 

Your money gets managed by professionals.

 

It helps you beat inflation in long term.

 

You don’t need to track stock market daily.

 

Low minimum investment and high liquidity are extra benefits.

 

You can withdraw anytime if needed.

 

Few Points to Remember
Review your investment once a year with a CFP.

 

Rebalance the portfolio based on goal changes.

 

Avoid timing the market or chasing top funds.

 

Stay away from hot tips or media hype.

 

Focus on consistent investing and patience.

 

Track fund performance with right benchmarks, not just NAV growth.

 

Final Insights
Your plan shows good financial discipline.

 

You have chosen a strong long-term wealth creation path.

 

Mutual funds can offer superior growth compared to many traditional tools.

 

Choosing actively managed funds is wise for better returns.

 

Take support of a CFP to make your journey smoother.

 

Diversify well and invest with clear purpose.

 

Stay consistent and avoid emotional decisions.

 

Wealth creation is a slow and steady process.

 

With right strategy, your goal will be achieved peacefully.

 

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,

Chief Financial Planner,

www.holisticinvestment.in
https://www.youtube.com/@HolisticInvestment

Ans: Hello mam.
I understand that it feels strange when someone changes suddenly so much like you said the boy's mother's attitude changed and now she is ready to accept you. Marriage is a big decision and it does not work only with love. It needs many other practical things to work. Like many compromises from both side, finances, acceptance, trust and respect. Think as much as you want before marriage a d take a good decision but after marriage you cannot change the things so easily.
Take some more time and get information on their business, thier family reputation, their relatives and neighbours. Only then take a decision. And leave the things upto your parents. They are much more experienced and have a much more willingness to see you happy.
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No. It is Not Considered a Full Appearance. But for better and official advice, please contact the CBSE school administration. If you didn’t give the theory papers, you technically haven’t passed Class 12 that year, and it’s not considered an attempt.
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Ans: You’re already doing very well. Rs. 1.5 crore saved is a great milestone. Also, planning investments till 55 is a very thoughtful step. Let us now see how you can create a future-proof financial plan.

I will look at it from all angles—your current investments, liabilities, risk, and future needs.

Let’s begin.

 

Current Financial Position: A Quick View

You have Rs. 1.5 crore in fixed assets and gold. That’s excellent.

 

You have liabilities of Rs. 45 lakh. It needs attention.

 

Your age is 40. You have 15 years to work more. Good time to plan.

 

You can invest Rs. 30,000 every month. That gives you strength.

 

You have a 10-year-old daughter. Education and marriage will need planning.

 

Where You Stand Today

Your savings are not diversified. All in fixed assets and gold.

 

Fixed assets don’t give monthly income. They are not liquid.

 

Gold does not beat inflation over long term. Return is moderate.

 

You do not seem to have any investment in equity mutual funds.

 

Your liability of Rs. 45 lakh is big. We need to handle it smartly.

 

Why Future Investments Must Be Balanced

Equity gives good long-term returns. It helps beat inflation.

 

Debt investments give stability. They are lower on risk.

 

Gold and fixed assets are slow to grow. Not great for wealth creation.

 

Mixing equity and debt works better. It balances growth and safety.

 

Mutual funds are ideal for this mix. Easy to manage. Fully regulated.

 

Your Monthly Investment Strategy – Rs. 30,000 SIP

Allocate Rs. 18,000 in diversified equity mutual funds.

 

Allocate Rs. 6,000 in hybrid mutual funds (mix of equity + debt).

 

Allocate Rs. 6,000 in short-term debt mutual funds.

 

This will give you growth, safety, and liquidity in the right balance.

 

Avoid direct stock picking. It needs time and skills.

 

Always invest through a Certified Financial Planner.

 

Why Actively Managed Funds Are Better Than Index Funds

Index funds blindly copy the market. No professional decision-making.

 

They don’t protect during market falls. No human judgment.

 

Active funds are managed by experts. They take smart calls.

 

Active funds have outperformed index funds over longer periods.

 

A Certified Financial Planner chooses right active funds based on your goals.

 

Why Regular Plans Are Better Than Direct Plans

Direct plans don’t give expert help. You are on your own.

 

One wrong choice can cost you years of returns.

 

Regular plans come with a qualified MFD backed by a Certified Financial Planner.

 

You get portfolio review, rebalancing, and tax planning support.

 

The guidance is worth much more than the small difference in cost.

 

Handling Your Liabilities – Rs. 45 Lakh

Check if this is home loan, personal loan or other type.

 

Home loans have tax benefit. No rush to close if interest rate is low.

 

Personal or business loans are expensive. Try to pre-pay slowly.

 

Use any lump sum inflow (bonus or maturity) to reduce such loans.

 

Do not stop SIPs to pre-pay loan. Balance both wisely.

 

Plan for Your Daughter’s Education and Marriage

She is 10 now. College after 7–8 years.

 

Education will need Rs. 20–30 lakh minimum. Start a goal-based SIP.

 

Invest Rs. 10,000 out of your monthly SIP for this goal.

 

Use equity mutual funds with long-term vision for this.

 

Marriage is a longer goal. Can be planned after education goal is on track.

 

Retirement at 55 – Let’s Plan Today

You will stop earning at 55. Your savings must last till 85–90.

 

You have 15 years to build retirement corpus.

 

Set aside Rs. 15,000 from your SIP for retirement.

 

Use equity and hybrid mutual funds for this.

 

From age 50 onwards, slowly reduce equity and move to safer assets.

 

Emergency Fund and Insurance Cover

Emergency fund must cover 6 months of expenses.

 

Keep this in liquid mutual funds. Avoid using FDs for this.

 

You must have a term life cover of 10–15 times your annual income.

 

Health insurance should be minimum Rs. 20–30 lakh for the full family.

 

Don’t depend only on company insurance.

 

Review Your Fixed Assets and Gold Holdings

Fixed assets have poor liquidity. Hard to sell in emergencies.

 

Try to reduce overexposure to gold and land.

 

Use part of these assets to repay loans or invest in mutual funds.

 

This way you unlock dead money for better returns.

 

Taxation Angle – Be Smart and Prepared

Long-term equity mutual fund gains above Rs. 1.25 lakh are taxed at 12.5%.

 

Short-term equity gains are taxed at 20%.

 

Debt mutual funds are taxed as per your income tax slab.

 

Don’t worry. With a Certified Financial Planner, taxes can be optimised.

 

Always plan redemptions. Don’t redeem blindly.

 

Rebalancing Your Portfolio Annually

Asset allocation will change with time. Rebalancing keeps it on track.

 

Review once a year. Not more.

 

Avoid switching funds too often. Let them grow.

 

Stay invested with discipline. That’s the only way wealth grows.

 

Behavioural Discipline is the Key

Don’t panic in market falls. Stay invested.

 

Avoid checking returns too often. It creates stress.

 

Let your Certified Financial Planner handle strategy.

 

You focus on earning and living well.

 

Final Insights

Your savings so far are impressive. But too tilted towards fixed assets.

 

Equity mutual funds will give your portfolio much-needed growth.

 

A Rs. 30,000 monthly SIP will change your financial future.

 

Don't wait. Start this SIP immediately.

 

Invest through a Certified Financial Planner. Review yearly.

 

Focus on goals: daughter’s education, marriage, and your retirement.

 

Don’t chase returns. Follow a process.

 

Protect your family with insurance. Keep emergency fund intact.

 

Wealth creation is not about luck. It is about discipline and planning.

 

Best Regards,
 
K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,
 
Chief Financial Planner,
 
www.holisticinvestment.in
https://www.youtube.com/@HolisticInvestment

Ans: You're absolutely right in expecting fairness when the repo rate goes down. Let me guide you step-by-step on what’s happening and what you can do next.

 

Understanding the Floating Rate Loan from LIC HFL

Your loan is linked to LIC HFL’s internal benchmark, not directly to RBI’s repo rate.

 

When RBI increases the repo rate, lenders are quick to increase your rate.

 

But when RBI reduces it, lenders often delay passing on the benefit.

 

This delay happens because LIC HFL’s Cost of Funds Based Lending Rate (COFBR) is not automatically updated.

 

COFBR is not as transparent or responsive as the external benchmark linked rates used by banks (like RLLR/EBLR).

 

Why LIC HFL May Not Reduce Your Rate Immediately

LIC HFL is an HFC (Housing Finance Company), not a bank.

 

They don’t follow the repo-linked lending rate (RLLR) system.

 

Their interest rates are based on internal policies and board decisions.

 

They may wait for quarterly reviews before passing on repo rate cuts.

 

Why the Communication Seems Delayed or Vague

You are told “waiting for CO update” – this is standard response.

 

In truth, they are buying time and not acting promptly.

 

Customers feel helpless because HFCs are not as strictly regulated as banks in this area.

 

What You Can Do Now: Action Steps

Write a formal email to the customer care, branch, and grievance officer. Request a clear explanation.

 

Ask them to share the latest COFBR and how your ROI is being calculated.

 

Use this format: “As a floating rate loan borrower, I am entitled to revised rate benefit. Kindly update my ROI in line with latest changes and share the effective date.”

 

If no proper response in 15 days, escalate it to NHB (National Housing Bank).

 

NHB is the regulator for HFCs like LIC HFL. You can file a complaint online.

 

Link: https://grids.nhbonline.org.in

 

Consider Switching the Loan to a Bank

If LIC HFL does not reduce rate, think of a loan balance transfer.

 

Switch to a repo-linked loan from a public or private sector bank.

 

These are directly linked to RBI’s repo rate. Very transparent.

 

You may have to pay small processing charges. But savings can be big.

 

Let a Certified Financial Planner help you calculate real benefit.

 

Check These Before Transferring

What’s the remaining tenure of your loan?

 

Is there any prepayment penalty? Usually none for floating loans.

 

Will new bank offer lower rate? Ask for a sanction letter before deciding.

 

Finally

LIC HFL may delay, but they cannot avoid revising your rate forever.

 

You are a responsible borrower. You deserve fair rate benefits too.

 

Keep your communication professional and written.

 

If they still delay, go ahead and move to a better lender.

 

Always have a Certified Financial Planner guide your debt and investments.

 

Best Regards,
 
K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,
 
Chief Financial Planner,
 
www.holisticinvestment.in
https://www.youtube.com/@HolisticInvestment