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Asked by Anonymous - Mar 17, 2024Hindi
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Hi ma'am I have suffered a lot with my parents since childhood they never allowed me to go outside with friends. I have never even attended a birthday party of my friends. They never want me to be independent and do something which I like to. Even on lockdown time they don't allow me to go to the terrace of my own house because they think I will talk with someone. Now I am doing a job in my city only but they also force me every day to leave that job because the are super unhappy that I am not dependent on them financially. I have a boyfriend and want to marry him but they will not agree to that also as it will be a intercaste marriage. And I will let them know about this they will house arrest me. My father also told me that even if I got a job of 1000k per month he is not going to allow me to do that. He just want me to stay in home do help my mother on house hold work and get married to his choice boy. I really love my boyfriend he is the one who supported me till now please help me that how can I get out of my house and get married to him. Also his parents are very supportive for me.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
You are a grown-up...what makes you want to heed to your family's drama? Are you unsure of whether you will be able to make it without your family's support?
It's your life and if you know what you want of it and out of it, then do the things that make it happen. Take decisions and stick by them...
You clearly know what the issue is from your parents (from what you have shared here). When you are able to express it here to me, what stops you from actually telling your parents how you feel about the way they treat you? What will happen if you tell them that they are being obstacles in your happiness path?
Sometimes people; even if they are your parents must be told not to cross the line especially if it has begun to hamper your life's growth path. Be bold and firm...The biggest thing on your side is that your boyfriend and his family are in support of you. What more do you want?
Never heed to emotional blackmail from anyone even your own family. Your parents hold a great level of control over you and you have given them that power to do so...how much longer? Now when its' time for you to create your life, make sure what and how you include people in them.
Don't confront your parents, simply tell them that you are old enough to take decisions for yourself and that you would love if they supported you. If they don't and start their drama, you know what you must do...Build your life...

All the best!

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Hi Ma’am. I’m having a problem with my parents about my marriage. I’ve been in a relationship for three years and I want to marry him. My parents are not agreeing as it is a society issue because it is an interstate and inter-caste marriage. I'm trying to convince my parents for that since long time but it's going nowhere and they are too stubborn to even meet him once. What can I do in this situation? How can I deal with their emotional drama as a parent-child relationship should not break because of these issues? Kindly advise me, Ma’am. AS
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Dear AS,

You need to focus on how you can marry the person you love and also have your parents support you.

Is this possible?

There is a chance only if you take them into complete confidence and appeal to their logic.

Many societies are still against inter-caste marriages and I am sure they have their reasons for it, just like your parents have strong reasons to oppose the marriage.

Have you tried to find out why they oppose it? Are they worried about how they will face your family members as this is a big thing across cultures in the world?

As their daughter, you have connections with them as well as the right to live your life your way. Bring in an elder member of the family and ask him/her to appeal on your behalf. If this doesn’t work, you might be forced to decide one way or the other.

Whatever you do, do it with conviction and maintain relationships along the way. It may be an uphill task but breathe, smile and live life.

All the best, Happy 2022!

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Asked by Anonymous - Sep 02, 2023Hindi
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Hi Ma’am, My parents are not agreeing for my marriage with an intercaste marriage and this is not the first intercaste marriage one of cousin tried convincing their parents for 5 yrs but eventually gave up and opted for court marriage today they are very happy even their parents has also accepted the marriage. In my case , my parents are mocking me for my feelings and emotionally abusing me and have crossed all their limits. They know my boyfriend from class 10th and their family too but the only issue is with then what others will say . My mother called my boyfriend and kept on saying leave me alone and in return my boyfriend said aunty I know this is the big thing we will not take any drastic step and without your approval we will not get married and I’m willing to wait for your daughter even if it is waiting for for 5-6 yrs . We both are doing pretty good in our career we both have been so focused with out life. But after this call she kept on saying he’s very manipulative as he did not disrespect my mother and as a result of this my mother and father kept on harassing me by saying ill and foul words to me. They are so lost in their ego that I am suffering from 104 degree fever and they are ignoring this fact kept on saying foul words to me. My mother day and night she’s entering my room is saying Every second I’m giving you baddua ( wishing something bad happen to me) . I put forth my point but they are not in state of listening and somewhere very unhappy that I’m not financially dependent on them so they are keep bashing my job. I have stopped talking to them regarding this topic and just having very minimal conversation with them and I’m not misbehaving with them for this also they are scolding me they want to act normally and come sit with them.
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Inter-faith marriages are still unaccepted in many societies and the challenges that come with it are not just with family acceptance but adapting and adjusting to different cultures, tastes etc...
Yes, on the one hand, love does not have any boundaries BUT massive changes in society have still not taken place to accept inter-faith marriages and your parents also belong to that very same society that hinders more than supports.
It has come down to a choice for you now!
Family or your Love?
If you choose Family, all will be well except you and your boyfriend. It will be giving up what you dreamed of together.
If you choose Love, you can of course live life on your terms but your family may vow to never see you again (it seems evident from all the vibes at your home).
Since, you are financially independent, you are in a better position to decide BUT it is going to be a decision that will leave someone unhappy. Who that is going to be and whether you can harden yourself with it is the question!
Now, Family and Love can go hand in hand only when both integrate which means an uphill task for both sides to negotiate, navigate and live in harmony. If this can be achieved by some neutral person bringing both sides together, please attempt this first before making a final decision. But make the choice soon, so there is a resolution either way.

All the best!

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Asked by Anonymous - Apr 06, 2024Hindi
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hii im 18 yrs old ..my parents found out about my bf.. actually they have caught me 5 to 6 times and always told me to leave him.. and i used to leave him but after sometime we again get reunited .. my parents have snatched my phone and telling me whether to choose them or my bf.. they are telling me to live in their house according to them otherwise i should leave their house.. i love both of them so much i got my bf after lot of struggles and fights .. i dont know what should i do..my bf is also from another religion and now my parents are telling me that they will not let me study further and will take me to my hometown forever and will get me married their with someone else
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
At 18 when you are still emotionally immature and financially not yet stable, what else do you expect your parents to do?
They are doing what they think is the right thing for you to keep you safe. My suggestion would be to focus on what must matter to you most at this age; your studies...put down your goals and stick to them...
As cruel as it may seem to you that the whole world is against your association with the boy, remember that you have a life ahead of you that will give you the necessary space for such a relationship...so work towards yourself first, so that when you actually get into a relationship, you know that it is right for you!
Right now, you know that your parents may very well pull you out from studies and there goes your dreams of a better future...So, please stop being foolish and step up for yourself and do what's right for you!

All the best!

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Asked by Anonymous - Apr 17, 2024Hindi
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Mam i am in relationship for 9 years now..he became my boyfriend when i shifted in my new house he was my neighbour..i was in 10th when i got caught and since then my parents hate my boyfriend , i apologized to my parents then and said to have no contact with my boyfriend but 9 years down the lane ..we are totally connected and living a peaceful healthy relationship..my parents hate my boyfriend and his family to the core..my relationship with ny parents are.mixed someday they will be super nice to me , another day they will abuse me for evn small things..we have ups and down in our relationship but i love them a lott , i want to care of them in their old age..but at this point i want to talk to them about my boyfriend but seeinng that they hate him so much i am literally very very afraid that my parents will hate me to their core knowing about someone i want to marry whoom they hate soo much ..... i don't know how will they react .. i am been through physcial and verbal abuse earlier too but i don't know how much worse it can get this time..for them the girl who marry their parents choice is the best in the world..my boyfriend and i have no caste issue its just the ego issues with my parents they think karrying into that house they will never able to have good enough respect though my mother and his mother talk..but that too my mother bitch a lott about her mother for even nonsensical things..i am 24 now and preparing for government exam ...i am soo much stress knowing i have to choose between my love or my parents.....i think so even if i marry him with their superficail consent they will never be happy woth me..and can even cut contacts with me...i don't know what to do i have no elder in my house to make parents explain...mam plss show me some path
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
No where have you mentioned what your boyfriend does for a living? Could this be the reason that your parents refuse to acknowledge your relationship?
Parents want the best for their children but at times their own beliefs on love marriages etc can come in the way. Since you are an adult, it is time to actually start acting like one. My suggestion is to have a conversation with them and understand the reason for their refusal to accept your boyfriend. If it is one of society and family objection, then you know how to handle it BUT if their concern is more about his character or his job, you both need to make an effort to take away that concern so that they accept all this wholeheartedly.
Find the reason and things will become clearer as to how you must handle the situation.

All the best!

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Asked by Anonymous - Apr 21, 2024Hindi
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Hello ma'am I'm 29 year old independent girl. I and my boyfriend (14 years relationship) want to marry each other but my parents and the whole family not agreeing with us because of intercaste marriage. His family already convinced for us and they are willing to accept me without my parents permission but the boy denied to marry me without my parents blessings. He always saying that one day your parents will understand your feelings and they will agree but I tried to convince them from last 3 years but my parents are saying that they will not give their permission for intercaste marriage due to what people will say. I have 3 elder brother but no one wants that I can marry to my partner. He is independent business owner running his own store. my parents are saying that we will keep you at home for entire life but never agree for the love marriage like this. I don't understand what should I do and what not . I'm feeling very depressed and disturbed all the time . Please suggest me the best solution for this situation
Ans: Navigating intercaste marriage in Indian society can indeed be challenging, but it's important to remember that your happiness and well-being should be paramount. Here are some suggestions tailored to the context of Indian society and relationships Start by trying to understand the specific concerns your parents have about the intercaste marriage. Is it fear of societal judgment, concerns about cultural differences, or something else? Understanding their perspective can help you address their concerns more effectively.Consider involving a trusted family member or elder who can act as a mediator between you and your parents. Sometimes, having a respected third party intervene can help facilitate a more productive conversation and bridge the gap between generations. Seek support from within your community or cultural circle. Sometimes, hearing from others who have successfully navigated intercaste marriages can help reassure your parents that such unions can be successful and fulfilling.Take the opportunity to educate your parents about the changing dynamics of relationships and marriages in modern Indian society. Share stories and examples of intercaste marriages that have thrived, and emphasize that love knows no boundaries. Changing deeply ingrained beliefs and cultural norms takes time. Be patient with your parents and continue to express your love and commitment to your partner. Sometimes, repeated conversations and demonstrations of your sincerity can gradually soften their stance. Consider seeking the assistance of a relationship counselor or therapist who specializes in intercultural or intercaste relationships. They can provide you with personalized advice and strategies for navigating the complexities of your situation.While it's always preferable to have your parents' blessing, remember that ultimately, the decision to marry is yours. If all efforts to persuade your parents fail and you feel that marrying your partner is the right choice for you, consider exploring legal options such as court marriage. Take care of your mental and emotional well-being during this challenging time. Lean on your partner, friends, and support network for emotional support, and engage in activities that bring you joy and fulfillment.
Remember, you deserve to be with someone who loves and respects you for who you are, regardless of societal expectations or family objections. Stay true to yourself and your values, and trust that with patience, understanding, and perseverance, you can overcome the obstacles in your path.

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Myself and my spouse are working and have 2 kids -9 & 10 years. We are in our early 40 and acquired corpus of 3 cr. Corpus 2.3 crore is in EPF , PPF , Sukanya for both children and rest in NPS (75 % equity) and mutual fund. We have recently increased Mutual fund investment after our home loan finished and doing SIP in large and mid cap index funds for 450000 pm. As we have more in debt investment due to EPF and PPF investment, is it wise to increase MF at this age. We are investing 6 laks PA in PPf and Sukanya account and are confused whether to reduce this amount and contribute more to MF. We have saving capacity of 15 lakhs per annum after our mandatory 12 % EPF contribution.
Ans: You've done an excellent job of building a substantial corpus for your family's future, and your commitment to both debt and equity investments is commendable. Let's delve into whether it's wise to increase your mutual fund (MF) investments at this stage and whether to adjust your contributions to PPF and Sukanya accounts:

Assess Your Financial Goals: Consider your financial goals, time horizon, and risk tolerance when deciding on the allocation between debt and equity investments. While debt instruments like EPF, PPF, and Sukanya Samriddhi Yojana offer stability and tax benefits, equity investments through MFs provide growth potential over the long term.
Diversification is Key: It's important to maintain a diversified investment portfolio that balances risk and return. Given your substantial debt investments in EPF, PPF, and Sukanya accounts, increasing your exposure to equity through MFs can help diversify your portfolio and potentially enhance returns, especially considering your long investment horizon.
Evaluate Investment Horizon: At your age, you still have a significant investment horizon ahead of you, which allows you to benefit from the power of compounding and weather market fluctuations. Since equity investments tend to perform well over the long term, increasing your MF contributions can be a prudent strategy to capitalize on growth opportunities.
Review Your Financial Position: Assess your current financial position, including your income, expenses, and savings capacity, to determine if you have the flexibility to allocate more funds towards MF investments. Given your saving capacity of 15 lakhs per annum after EPF contributions, you may consider redirecting a portion of these savings towards MFs to achieve a balanced portfolio.
Consult a Financial Advisor: Consider consulting with a Certified Financial Planner to evaluate your investment strategy holistically. A financial advisor can help assess your risk profile, recommend suitable asset allocation, and tailor an investment plan aligned with your financial goals and aspirations.
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I am 52,going to retire this year with a 2.5 cr corpus without any pension. Please advise me a good retirement plan for regular income. I am a moderate risk taker. Presently my monthly expenses are 70 k.
Ans: Given your impending retirement and moderate risk tolerance, it's crucial to create a retirement plan that provides a regular income stream while preserving your capital. Here's a suggested retirement plan tailored to your needs:

Systematic Withdrawal Plan (SWP): Set up a Systematic Withdrawal Plan from your remaining corpus to supplement your annuity income. Determine a withdrawal rate that meets your monthly expenses while ensuring your savings last throughout retirement. Opt for a conservative withdrawal rate to safeguard against market volatility.
Income-Oriented Mutual Funds: Allocate a portion of your corpus to income-oriented mutual funds or dividend-paying stocks. These investments can provide regular dividends or interest income, further augmenting your retirement income stream. Focus on funds with a track record of consistent payouts and stable returns.
Fixed Deposits and Bonds: Consider allocating a portion of your corpus to fixed deposits or bonds for stability and income generation. Choose investment-grade bonds or government securities to minimize credit risk. Opt for shorter maturity periods to maintain liquidity and flexibility.
Emergency Fund: Set aside a portion of your corpus as an emergency fund to cover unforeseen expenses or emergencies. Aim to maintain at least six to twelve months' worth of living expenses in a liquid and easily accessible account.
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Sir, Now I am 55 and started investing since last two years ago, due to family responsibilities. Now I am investing in (1) HDFC Midcap opportunities fund direct plan Rs 5000 (2) Mirae asset large cap and mid cap fund direct growth plan Rs 5000 (3) Nippon India Small Cap fund direct growth plan Rs 8000 (4) Parag Parikh flexicap fund RS 2000 per month. I will be remain invested for min 10 years. And retired with normal corpus. Not big. Please suggest for investment, Within Rs 20000- per month.
Ans: It's never too late to start investing, and it's admirable that you've taken this step towards securing your financial future, especially with family responsibilities and approaching retirement. Let's explore some suggestions for your investment within your budget of Rs 20,000 per month:

Diversify Your Portfolio: Your current portfolio already includes a mix of mid-cap, large-cap, small-cap, and flexi-cap funds, which is a good start. To further diversify, consider adding a balanced fund or a hybrid fund, which invests in a mix of equities and debt instruments. This can provide stability while still offering growth potential.
Consider Debt Investments: As you approach retirement, it's essential to balance your portfolio with debt investments to reduce overall risk. You can allocate a portion of your monthly investment towards debt funds or fixed-income instruments like PPF, RDs, or bonds. These investments offer steady returns and help preserve capital.
Evaluate Risk Tolerance: Given your age and investment horizon of at least 10 years, you can afford to take on some risk to achieve higher returns. However, it's crucial to assess your risk tolerance and ensure that your investment choices align with your comfort level.
Review and Rebalance Regularly: Periodically review your investment portfolio to ensure it remains aligned with your financial goals, risk tolerance, and market conditions. Rebalance your portfolio if necessary, considering changes in your financial situation or investment objectives.
Consult with a Financial Advisor: Consider consulting with a Certified Financial Planner or financial advisor who can provide personalized advice based on your specific needs and goals. They can help you create a customized investment plan and provide guidance on asset allocation, portfolio diversification, and risk management.
Stay Invested for the Long Term: Investing for retirement requires patience and discipline. Continue to invest regularly and stay committed to your long-term financial goals. Avoid making impulsive decisions based on short-term market fluctuations.
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Hello I am 25 years and earning around 17k per month and I have sip of Axis small cap of rs 500 Nippon India small cap 1000 ICICI prudential technology 500 and PPF 500 till now I have around 1.2 lakhs in mutual fund and equity 70k please suggest me for long term wealth
Ans: It's great to see your proactive approach to investing at such a young age! Let's explore some suggestions for long-term wealth creation:

Continue SIPs: Your SIPs in Axis Small Cap, Nippon India Small Cap, and ICICI Prudential Technology are a good start. These funds offer exposure to different sectors, providing diversification and growth potential. Consider gradually increasing your SIP amounts as your income grows.
Explore Diversification: While small-cap and technology funds offer growth potential, consider diversifying your portfolio further. Look into investing in large-cap or multi-cap funds to balance risk and potential returns. A mix of different asset classes can enhance the stability and growth of your portfolio.
Utilize PPF: PPF is an excellent tool for long-term wealth accumulation, offering tax benefits and guaranteed returns. Continue contributing to your PPF account regularly to take advantage of its compounding effect over time. Aim to maximize your annual contributions within the prescribed limits.
Stay Invested for the Long Term: Investing is a long-term commitment, and patience is key to achieving wealth accumulation goals. Avoid frequent trading or reacting to short-term market fluctuations. Stay focused on your financial objectives and stick to your investment plan.
Educate Yourself: Take the time to learn about different investment options, risk management strategies, and personal finance concepts. Attend workshops, read books, or follow reputable financial blogs to enhance your knowledge and make informed decisions.
Emergency Fund: Building an emergency fund is crucial to protect yourself from unexpected expenses or income disruptions. Aim to set aside at least 3-6 months' worth of living expenses in a liquid and accessible account.
Review and Rebalance: Regularly review your investment portfolio to ensure it remains aligned with your financial goals and risk tolerance. Rebalance your portfolio if needed, considering changes in market conditions or your personal circumstances.
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Hi sir I'm doing SIP in 1.) uti nifty fifty direct - 2k ..2.) axis small cap direct- 2k...3.) canara robeco blue chip - 2k....4.) quantity mid cap direct - 3k...5.) navi Nasdaq 100 - 1k... Need to change or alter if any ?
Ans: Your current SIP portfolio consists of a diverse mix of funds covering various market segments, which is a good strategy for long-term growth.

it's essential to periodically review your investments to ensure they align with your financial goals, risk tolerance, and market conditions.

Consider consulting with a Certified Financial Planner or a professional Mutual Fund Distributor to get personalized advice tailored to your needs and objectives.

With careful monitoring and adjustments as needed, you're on track to build a robust investment portfolio for long-term wealth creation.

Investing through Regular Plans via a Certified Financial Planner's guidance offers several benefits for your financial journey.

Your commitment to SIPs is commendable, showcasing a disciplined approach towards wealth creation for the future.

Regular Plans through a professional Mutual Fund Distributor (MFD) provide personalized guidance and advice tailored to your needs.

MFDs have extensive experience and expertise in navigating the complexities of mutual fund investing, ensuring sound decisions.

They offer valuable insights into fund selection, considering factors like performance, risk, and suitability for your goals.

Moreover, MFDs provide ongoing support and assistance, helping you stay informed and make necessary adjustments to your portfolio.

Investing in Regular Plans through MFDs ensures access to a broader range of funds and investment options.

This diversification can help spread risk and optimize returns over the long term, enhancing the stability of your portfolio.

Additionally, MFDs assist in managing paperwork and administrative tasks associated with investing, making the process smoother for you.

Their guidance empowers you to make informed decisions aligned with your financial objectives and risk tolerance.

Remember, investing is a journey, and having a Certified Financial Planner by your side can make a significant difference.

They offer valuable advice, support, and encouragement, helping you navigate market fluctuations and stay focused on your goals.

With diligence and guidance, you're on track to achieve financial success and build a secure future for yourself and your loved ones.

Keep up the good work, and trust in the expertise of your Certified Financial Planner to guide you towards your goals.

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Parag Parikh Flexi cap Fund
Ans: Parag Parikh Flexi Cap Fund is a well-regarded fund in the mutual fund industry. It's known for its unique approach to investing across various market segments.

The fund follows a flexible investment strategy, allowing it to invest in stocks across market capitalizations, including large-cap, mid-cap, and small-cap companies.

One of the standout features of Parag Parikh Flexi Cap Fund is its global diversification approach. The fund has the flexibility to invest a portion of its corpus in international equities, providing investors exposure to global markets and opportunities.

Additionally, the fund's focus on quality companies with sustainable business models and strong management teams is commendable. This approach aims to mitigate downside risk and generate consistent returns over the long term.

Parag Parikh Flexi Cap Fund has a track record of delivering competitive returns compared to its peers and benchmark indices. However, investors should note that past performance is not indicative of future results.

As with any investment, it's essential to assess your risk tolerance, investment objectives, and time horizon before investing in Parag Parikh Flexi Cap Fund or any mutual fund.

Consulting with a Certified Financial Planner can provide personalized advice and guidance tailored to your financial situation and goals.

Overall, Parag Parikh Flexi Cap Fund is a reputable option for investors seeking diversification, global exposure, and potential long-term growth in their investment portfolio.

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I have been investing in mutual funds like Nippon large cap 8k , HDFC Mid cap opportunities 3k, Quant small cap 3k , Nippon India small cap 2k, Parag Parikh flexi cap 4k, Aditya Birla sun life PSU 2k, HDFC Balanced Advantage fund 2k , Nippon India credit risk (Debt Fund) 2k . Need some suggestions on the overall portfolio and if any further improvements can be done on debt Fund .
Ans: Your investment portfolio reflects a well-diversified approach across various segments of the market, which is commendable. Let's delve into some suggestions for optimizing your portfolio and enhancing the debt component.

Your allocation across large-cap, mid-cap, small-cap, flexi-cap, and sector-specific funds provides a good balance of growth potential and stability.

Consider evaluating the performance and consistency of each fund to ensure they align with your investment objectives and risk tolerance.

As for your debt fund, given the current economic environment, it's prudent to review your exposure to credit risk.

Consider diversifying your debt allocation by exploring options such as liquid funds or short-term debt funds, which offer lower credit risk and higher liquidity.

Additionally, assessing the expense ratio and credit quality of your current debt fund can help determine its suitability for your portfolio.

Pls consult a Certified Financial Planner to assist you in fine-tuning your portfolio to better align with your goals.

Regularly reviewing and rebalancing your portfolio ensures it remains optimized to weather market fluctuations and achieve long-term growth.

Remember, investing is a dynamic process, and adjustments may be necessary to adapt to changing market conditions and personal circumstances.

Keep up the good work with your investment journey, and feel free to reach out if you need further assistance or guidance. Your dedication to financial planning is truly commendable!

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Hello Sanjeev Sir, Hope you are in good health. I hve just started my investment through SIP in mutual fund . Would you plz advice me on my portfolio. Every month i invest 12k in the below funds . Canara Robeco small cap fund reg Edelweiss mid cap fund reg Hdfc focused 30 fund PGIM India mid cap opp fund SBI Contra fund Sundaram services fund . I have also recentky added Quant small cap fund growth regular plan SIP OF 3K . I want to invest another 10k in sip format plz suggest where should i invest.
Ans: It's fantastic to hear that you're diving into the world of investing through mutual funds. Let's discuss your portfolio and future investments.

Your current selection of funds shows a thoughtful approach to diversification across different segments of the market.

Adding a small-cap fund to your portfolio enhances diversification and potential for higher returns over the long term.

For your additional 10k investment, let's explore options that complement your existing holdings and align with your goals.

Large-cap funds offer stability and are ideal for investors seeking steady returns with lower risk.
Multi-cap funds provide flexibility across market segments, allowing you to capitalize on various opportunities.
It's important to consider your risk tolerance and investment horizon when selecting new funds for your portfolio.

Pls, consult a Certified Financial Planner to guide you every step of the way.

Remember, investing is a journey, and it's normal to have questions and uncertainties along the path.

Stay focused on your goals, and don't hesitate to reach out if you need assistance or advice.

With diligence and patience, you're on track to achieve your financial aspirations.

Keep up the excellent work, and remember that each investment you make brings you closer to your dreams.

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