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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Apr 27, 2022
Dear RT,
He’s playing the cool guy who wants it all and when doesn’t get it wants to act all hurt and instead of taking responsibility of his emotions finds it convenient to blame you and make you feel guilty for not fulfilling his emotional and physical needs.
How do you solve something like this? Kindly ask him to speak to someone who can make him see sense else all you will do is clean up the mess caused by his baseless emotions.
This will be the constant pattern until he realises that his self-esteem and self-worth are not something that others can create for him.
If he refuses external help, do ask a person close to him to drive some sense into his thoughts where he sees an alternate perspective.
To keep your sanity intact, dissociate from his emotions and start behaving like they don’t impact you; over time you will realise that he is just trying to be a child asking for your attention in an inappropriate way.
Take time our for yourself to indulge in a lot of self-care and self-love that will go a long way in managing your emotions and self-worth as well.
Depending on him for your sanity at this point in time is like hitting your head against the wall.
So, be right to yourself from this moment on and make sure that you spend a lot of time nurturing the children as much as you nurture yourself.
All the best!
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