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Can I Marry Someone From a Different Caste But the Same Gotra?

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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Jan 09, 2025

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Is it okay to marry someone from different caste but same gotra?

Ans: the decision to marry someone from a different caste but the same gotra should be based on mutual understanding, respect, and a shared vision for your future together. Open communication with both families and possibly seeking guidance from elders or counselors can help navigate any challenges and ensure that the decision aligns with both your personal values and cultural expectations.

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Mam my parents main concern is he is from lower caste that is the main question for them hoe could i choose someone from lower caste and we will not agree, i will talk to my parents day by day i hope they will agree. if you can gave me any ideas it will be really helpful . thank you mam

Ans: Dear anonymous,
I will say this again: Address whatever concerns they have whether it is about caste, religion, money...If it is about caste obviously it is a deep-rooted belief that cannot be changed easily. Don't fight it, but rather address it.
Maybe if over some time spend time with the boy and get to know him, they may change their opinion. But that may not happen, so be prepared for that as well.
It's only about making an attempt without really expecting the best outcome. Who knows it might turn out for the best...

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Hi, i am dating someone and got to know that he is same caste and same gotra as mine. It keeps me worried. How much should I be concerned about this regarding marrying him and having kids in future. Also my concern comes from the fact my own real brother passed away from eye cancer at the age of five. kindly help.

Ans: I don’t understand the problem here. He’s not related to you, is he? If you’re so concerned about passing genetic defects down to your children you should consult a medical expert. That said, I don’t really see the problem here, or then you’re not explaining yourself adequately — as long as there’s no inherited conditions in your family and the guy you’re dating is not from your family, what is the issue at hand?

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inter caste love : i belong to jatt family but my boyfriend belong to brahman family how i convince my parents for marrying in brahman family ?

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Sadly you can't convince anyone of anything that they have decided not to be convinced of. As I suggest in cases like inter-faith marriages, the only thing you can do is to literally display your reasons for loving your boyfriend. Let your parents see the person that you see in him. Also, if it is feasible, try and get them together to talk, spend time so that they get to know him. Keep your fingers crossed on it.

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Hello ma'am, I just want to know that someone is marrying in same gotra but different cast like I am a maharatrian and he is Gujarati but we have same gotra and if we will get married. will it cause any problem to our baby?? As I have seen so many reels on it so I just want to know what do you think.

Ans: While traditionally marriages within the same gotra (clan) are discouraged, the primary concern for potential offspring is related to the increased risk of genetic disorders due to the similarity in genes. If two people from the same gotra marry, their children may have a higher chance of inheriting genetic conditions. However, the strength of this concern is a topic of ongoing debate.
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Some believe that marrying within the same gotra may increase the risk of genetic disorders due to shared genes.

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