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Life Coach - Answered on Feb 20, 2025

Aamish Dhingra is a life coach, educationalist and founder of Cocoweave Coaching International, which provides professional training to empower individuals and organisations.
With over seven years of experience in human resources, he specialises in corporate training, life coaching services and team coaching. His expertise lies in solving complex problems, leading innovative projects and delivering impactful solutions that drive growth and transformation.
Aamish completed his BBA (bachelor of business administration) from Amity University and MBA from Jamia Hamdard University, both in Noida.
He holds a PCC (professional certified coach) certification from the International Coaching Federation, USA, and a credentialed practitioner of coaching certification from the International Coach Guild, Australia.... more
Asked by Anonymous - Feb 14, 2025Hindi
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Hi Aamish, I am facing a bit of conflict at work. My manager doesn't support or value my contribution. I am working at least 1O to 12 hours every day, including 6 hours on weekends. The team head works remotely from Hyderabad and isn't aware of what is happening here. I was denied a promotion because the team head feels the manager is doing all the work. How should I deal with this? Please help

Ans: You’re in a frustrating position where your hard work is going unnoticed, and your manager is taking credit for your efforts. The long hours, lack of recognition, and unfair promotion decision make it clear that something needs to change. Instead of continuing to push yourself without results, it’s time to shift strategies.
First, document your contributions. Keep records of your work, emails, and any instances where you took the lead on tasks. If your team head is unaware of your contributions, find subtle ways to bring them to their attention. This could be through direct updates, taking initiative in meetings, or requesting feedback from other colleagues who can vouch for your efforts.
Next, consider addressing the issue professionally. Request a conversation with your manager and express your concerns about growth opportunities. Avoid sounding confrontational—instead, frame it as a discussion about your career path and how you can contribute more effectively. If that doesn’t work, try reaching out to HR or someone higher up who can provide guidance.
If the environment remains toxic and you feel undervalued despite your efforts, it may be time to explore other opportunities. Your skills and dedication deserve recognition, and if this company isn’t willing to provide that, another one will. The key is to remain proactive rather than stuck in frustration.

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My manager is constantly manipulating his boss about me. Everyone in my team is aware that she is increasingly insecure about my success and feels threatened by me. She often gives incorrect and incomplete feedback due to which my manager feels that my manager is more efficient than I am. In the past, 4 people have quit or been foced to resign due to these politics. Should I also quit and move to another company or should I talk to the manager about this? Pls help
Ans: Hi!!

When I was working in the corporate world, the oft repeated quote was, "people don't leave the company ,they leave bad bosses".
Your manager's boss is your super boss, rt? Can't you go and speak to him directly and put your concerns across?
I am sure the HR must have noticed that people are quitting and might have explored the reasons why they are doing so too, do check with them.
I fail to understand why women should not cooperate with each other. You can also explore the option of talking directly to the manager and telling her if your actions in any way have caused some misunderstanding and if she says yes then you are willing to clear them. Also tell her that you are not eyeing her post and you are just trying to do your job well. I did the same with one of my bosses, it worked for me, we became the best of friends, we are still in touch. You need to think which is your best option and choose one from all the possible solutions I have mentioned. You can always quit, that's the last option I feel..

Hoping you choose wisely..All the very best!!

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