My manager is manipulating my boss against me, help!

Ans: Hello!!
Most of us have had managers at some point in our careers, while some are helpful, compassionate, and capable, others may not meet these standards, clearly yours is not meeting the standards!! Dealing with challenging managers can be, well, a challenge. Be courageous and face the challenge, you are not a newbie you are a strong 30 yr old man.
When I worked in the corporate world, what I heard most of the times was that people don't leave a company, they leave bad bosses. Throughout your question you have always mentioned a "we", that means this bad boss is affecting many more people.
You have these options-
1. you all can send a signed petition about this boss, post this to the HR
2. nobody has to suffer at work, there will always be a way out, look for it
3. you be sincere in your work and deliver, develop a thick skin and don't allow this boss to affect you
3.if nothing works then quit, do whatever it takes to be peaceful at work

I am sure a smart 30 yr old software engineer like you "can" and "will" find a solution to this problem by choosing your options wisely and looking into what is important for you!

All the best!!

Ans: Hello Mr.Naveen

I am sorry to hear your situation.

There is not much you can do accept talk to your manager in an amicable way and resolve it.

All the Best

Warm Regards
KK

Ans: Dear Sir/ Madam,
If you have tried everything to prove your efforts with facts then you should look at opportunities elsewhere. It's true that we can not change what's not in our control. Instead focus your energy where you will some changes. Take your time to assess the situation and accordingly take the step forward.

Hope this helps
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