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Question by Garima on Jul 11, 2024Hindi

Career

My son is in grade 10,he is above average good in studies,can excel to the best of scores ,want to pursue admission in CSE in best IIT center with good JEE score, But maybe because of performance and expectations pressure he wastes the starting time of preparation in avoiding the dedication he needs to put in studies ,gets attracted to online games , animated series etc Trying my best to withdraw him from all the distractions but not successful,pls guide

Ans: I see as per your own admission, you state your son's above average in studies... That's really good!

It's not called time waste it's recuperation when you relax and entertain yourself.
Absolutely the human needs a break from the mundane!?

Time invested to reciprocate gives better performance and reduced breakdowns..what do you want!?
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