How to deal with negative coworkers?

Hello sir my daughter is getting ece in thapar and cse in chitkara University which is better please suggest

Which colleges are best for CSE in south states

Sir, I got 90.68 Percentile in JEE MAINS AIR 138182, Home State: Madhya Pradesh, General (Male), Defence Quota (Priority VI). Can I get any good college with CSE Branch. I also gave VITEEE in which I got 28973. Please suggests some better options

I am a 41 yr old man. Married for the last 17 yrs, my wife is now 37 yrs old. w are Bengalis but now due t my work stay in Bengaluru. we had an arranged marriage but soon after the marriage I found her to be very irresponsible, she had the mentality that her husband has to be responsible for all her whims & fancies without any expectation from her. Though her family was more like ours middle class & financially poorer then us Initially I thought that she will mature with time. Within 1 yr we had our 1st kid who is 16 yrs old & in 11th now. Thinking she will now be responsible as mother but found very little change & I had to force/push her to do maternal duties while I managed the other things despite myself working as an engineer in an mnc & she being a housewife. next year we had our 2nd kid. This pressure was reflected in my office & my performance suffered, anyway I managed to stay afloat. Giving her any family task always resulted in her doing a coverup job & when things went wrong I had to set it right as the family or there will be monetary loss. Obviously I used to tell her about all this, then she will be OK for 1-2 weeks then again back to same. Even taking care of the children there studies soon became my responsibility. One thing was good was our sexual life which what I understand she is good & this gave me somewhat something to bear her Though other factor like middle class mentality that parents should not move out for the kids sake kept me somewhat tied to her & tried to make myself happy.Last year around June she told me that she will like to leave me as she wants to marry one of her telegu friend's brother who works in Dubai now, given my above reason I was not very upset on hearing this but was worried about our kids the eldest then gave his 10th exam & younger was promoted to class 10. After some talks & persuasion she agreed that she will wait for 3 yrs ie the younger kid to complete her schooling & going to college, & also keep the whole things secret with only 4-5 people knowing it, this she has responsibly done. Now its 1 year & I am in a very bad situation & need your support first she is now completely without any responsibility of the kids or family, she just cooks the meals sees that the maids work & even if I tell her to look into what the kids are studying or take the small responsibility like waking them up or minor things like go to the shop etc , she simply declines & always she is busy browsing or chatting, in Feb her to be husband came to Bangalore & she spend 2 nights with him in a resort. I did not want the kids to know about all this as it will mentally disturb them so I had to make stories to them about there mom going to a friend's marriage etc. He is again coming in mid July & they are planning to go out again.. My delima is I can bear the whole thing with a glimmer of hope that our separation maybe avoided which makes a somewhat social negativeness for me my parents & my kids but am I doing the right thing or being desperate is what I should be? The second point is something which I am feeling very uneasy to write, though we have decided to separate & she is having sex with this guy but we are still have sex, I dont want to really worry that she having sex with me is cheating with her to be husband but as I told you before it is really relaxing & gives me the strength to bear all this... Please suggest what I should do, immediately leave her which will end the story though I am not really ready if I & the kids will be able to take the social slur or wait for another 2 years with the hope that maybe things will change

Sir my daughter is getting cs in Jaypee wakhnaghat,chitkara University,manipal jaipur and upes dehradun.which one should I prefer

I was only 23 when my mother left this world. Me & my father were alone after that. My father was asking me for marriage, so that a girl can come in our home & manage household chores. I wanted to focus on my career for at least 6 more years. That's why I denied. We somehow managed for 1 year after my mother left us, but after that my father started pressuring me to marriage. I was still not ready when I became 24. So, my father found a girl for himself. Co-incidence was that the girl was just 1 year elder than me. My father's master plan was that he will make us pretend that it's my wife in front of the world. I liked the idea & the girl was also ready. Don't know how that girl was convinced to marry my father. She is from decent family. Even her parents don't know that my father is her real husband. So, my father made me married to her in front of all. We managed everything excellently from all the rituals to our relatives. We acted well. In front of the world & in papers, she was my wife, but biologically she became my step mother. They got 2 children within 6-8 years, but I got stuck without marriage because according to everyone, I am married. Now, I am 39 now & my father also left this world last year. I am unmarried & she (step mother) is a widow. I & her both are feeling alone in this world without a partner. My step mother suggested if she can become my real wife. We both like each other's company but I don't know if there will be any consequences in the future. Nobody will say anything because nobody knows the truth except both of us. Divorce is not a good option because there are children. What do you suggest ??

What do I do .My husband flirrts with females outside and my maid servants openly

Mai 4 saal.se.ek.relationship mai thi ladka bhi serious tha aur mai bhi but caste laga thi usne Ghar pe bat ki par uski family nhi mani bilkul last mai ladke ne har man li aur kisi aur se sagai (engagement) kar li Kya iske bad h dono dosto k taraf bat kar skate mujhe use bat karke acha lagta hai bat nhi hoti to anxiety hoti hai aur kabhi kabhi bat ho jati hai phr bhi anxiety hoti hai ye soch k ki uski lifeai.ab koi aur hoga kya karna chaiye mujhe use bat karni chaiye ya nhi

Hello Sir, I am working in IT MNC. Details- I have 2 home loans. Outstanding 44.5L (50k EMI)& 12L (10k EMI) 1 loan against FD 4.5L ( 3.5K monthly interest Repay) 1 personal loan 3L (14.5K EMI) Credit Card -70k Monthly income- Salary-95K after deduction ( 18 LPA) House Rent-7k Investment- PF-11L (with active Investment 12K per month) Shares-4.5L( with active investment 10k per month) NPS- 1.5L value till date ( 2.5k monthly investment ) LIC- 25k yearly (since 2018) APY- (Since 2015) Need your valuable advice on how I can reduce the liabilities and create assets.