Hi Love Guru.
I am going through legal separation with my spouse.
I have had a crush for 10 years now and my crush has lost his better half, but I am not sure if he is in any relationship now.
I am madly in love but unable to confess, the reason being he is pretty rich and i come from a middle class family, secondly we work in the same office and he is in a top most position and i am in the middle level.
I have resigned from my job now and in 3 months time will be joining the new company. Please suggest how to know if he has any feelings for me and etc etc.

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Ans: Restarting your life after financial setbacks is possible with a disciplined approach. Settling your debts with banks and NBFCs requires a strategic plan, negotiation, and commitment. Here's a 360-degree approach to help you resolve your situation:

Assess Your Current Financial Position
List All Debts: Create a detailed list of all outstanding loans and debts, including principal, interest, and penalties.

Identify Income Sources: Calculate your monthly income and any other sources of funds.

Evaluate Essential Expenses: Identify non-negotiable expenses such as rent, food, utilities, and transport.

Determine Negotiable Debts: Focus on debts with higher interest rates or legal implications.

Negotiating with Lenders
Possibility of Settling at 70% Waiver
Banks and NBFCs Are Open to Negotiation: They prefer recovering some amount rather than declaring a loan as non-performing.

Settlement Terms Vary: Each lender may have unique policies. Some might agree to 70% waiver, but others may not.

Present Your Case Transparently: Show proof of your financial hardship. Explain your inability to pay in full.

Request a One-Time Settlement (OTS): Offer to pay a lump sum of the waived-off amount to close the debt.

Steps to Negotiate Effectively
Reach Out to the Right Department: Contact the collections or recovery department of your lender.

Seek Professional Help: A certified financial planner or debt resolution expert can negotiate on your behalf.

Prepare a Settlement Plan: Propose a realistic amount you can pay. Mention the sources for this payment.

Ask for Written Confirmation: Ensure the lender provides a formal agreement on the waived-off amount.

Negotiate for Reduced Interest and Penalties: Request removal of penalties and reduction of interest rates.

Managing Your Financial Obligations
Repayment Strategy
Prioritise High-Interest Loans: Focus on clearing loans with higher interest rates first.

Consolidate Debts: Consider consolidating multiple loans into one with a lower interest rate.

Use Liquid Assets Wisely: If you have savings or assets, use them to reduce your debt burden.

Building a Fresh Financial Foundation
Avoid Gambling and High-Risk Activities
Adopt Healthy Habits: Seek professional help if gambling is an addiction. Join support groups like Gamblers Anonymous.

Focus on Financial Literacy: Learn to manage your money effectively through courses or books.

Create a Budget and Emergency Fund
Track Income and Expenses: Use apps or spreadsheets to monitor your financial activity.

Save for Emergencies: Set aside 3–6 months of expenses as a safety net.

Restart Investments Gradually
Start with SIPs: Begin investing small amounts in mutual funds. Avoid direct stock trading initially.

Build a Retirement Corpus: Plan for long-term financial security systematically.

Final Insights
Rebuilding your life after a financial setback takes effort but is achievable. Focus on negotiating your debts transparently and settling them systematically. Learn from past mistakes and adopt disciplined financial habits. Restart your journey with renewed confidence and a commitment to avoid risky behaviours. Seek professional guidance when needed to make informed decisions.

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,

Chief Financial Planner,

www.holisticinvestment.in
https://www.youtube.com/@HolisticInvestment

Ans: Hello;

Yes your last employer can do it in the EPFO records.

Best wishes;

Ans: Hello;

If you will be employed by them you can't avoid EPF cut.

Talk to your employer about possible other options.

EPS is not applicable now since it matures at 58 years of age.

Best wishes;

Ans: Hello;

I believe your name in the bank account is exactly same as that on Aadhar card and UAN.

If it is so try once again and if it fails lodge a complaint thru EPFiGMS portal.

Try their telephonic helpline.

If you don't get resolution, complain to Labour Ministry with cc to PMO through cpgrams portal.

There is no need to visit any EPF office if you have an active UAN and can log in to the EPF website.

Lastly legal recourse is also available to you.

Don't fall for any agents and corrupt personnel.

Best wishes;

Ans: Can do CFA or any other course on wealth management that could help you get into Financial Planning. Can do 1 year full time MBA from ISB (they have course for people with 15+ years work ex) and then take up placements from there.

Ans: IIM Indore is a known college and the course would be a good course. But I dont think they provide placements for certificate course. So if you are doing it to gain knowledge then I believe it is a good option and you would be called IIM Indore Alumni.

Ans: Look out for a job so that you can gain some work ex. Along with that do some online courses that are relevant to the file that you want to pursue your career in.

Ans: XLRI is supposed to be the best for HR followed by TISS and lastly you can think of other colleges including ISB, IIMs, etc. Advantage of XLRI is that it has a great network with almost all HR heads from top companies being from XLRI. That basically helps when you want to leverage alumni network.