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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Aug 03, 2023

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Question by ANIL on Aug 02, 2023Hindi

Relationship

HI HOW I CAN HAPPY MY WIFE

Ans: Dear Anil,
You cannot make someone happy unless they choose to be happy.
Nevertheless a few things within marriage can help:
1. Be a very active listener when your wife is speaking with you
2. Do not carry-over arguments to the next day
3. Spend time doing activities together
4. If you have children, connect together as a family
5. Have conversations where you ask about her dreams/goals
6. Laugh a lot together
7. Take regular vacations
8. Practice non-sexual intimacy
9. Offer to help with chores around the house
10. Compliment her often
and lastly,
11. Be a friend than a mere partner/spouse

All the best!

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Hi Anu, My husband doesn't do house chores. We both work full-time, but I still end up cooking, cleaning, and doing laundry. When I ask for help, my partner will say, ‘Just tell me what to do,’ but then he conveniently forgets. Maybe he doesn't like it or he is genuinely forgetful. I have tried many ways to make him explain. Once I only did my share of laundry to make him realise but he simply ignored. Every week this pattern repeats. Is this normal? How can married couples divide responsibilities fairly to avoid fights?

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