my wife not understand my feelings
Ans: Dear Suresh,
I have very little information from you on why you feel that your wife does not understand your feelings.
Let us assume: that is takes two hands to clap...
So,
1. If and when, there is a difference of opinion, instead of feeling lost that she does not understand your feelings, can you instead tell her: I feel unheard instead of you don't understand me at all.
2. Do spend time hearing her as well as she could just be complaining in her way through pushing you back and not wanting to hear you
Try this and like I always say: It takes love, commitment, trust and a lot of understanding to grow a relationship. And it takes only one assumption to break a relationship.
All the best!