He always controlling me .If i wear jeans it means it's a cheat for him because he don't like that i wear jeans

Dear LG, My boyfriend is very handsome and nice but he is of a jealous kind. He says it is okay if I talk to other boys but every time I talk to someone we fight. He wants to check my phone and he says I can check his phone too. He does not like my choice of clothes or my wearing dresses. He dresses how I want and always asks if I like what he is wearing. If I don’t, next time he changes. Is this good to go ahead or not good? I am not sure but I like him and my family likes him too. SK

He always fight with me how I handle this situation

My boyfriend is very nice to me but my parents are very strict with me and I don't want to runway

A another question plz answer me When he told me that "i don't like that you wear a jeans" i also agree with that i also said okay i can change myself . But when it comes to my needs and career he blame that " you were cheated with me tumne mera baat nhi mana aur bina batae tum yaha waha chali gyi "I told him that i have also my needs and happiness . But he said you cheated with me tumhare lea jeans pehna jada value kiya mera koi value nhi haii tumhare life me. I am literally devastated does it amount to cheating if i just do one thing for my happiness.Even i did not have any male friends he doubted me

My Boyfriend is not really the Controlling type. But, sometimes, he disapproves of some things which I do. In such cases, he communicates his Disapproval indirectly saying "I don't like you Dressing up like this Boldly. But still, if that's what you want, you may go ahead & Dress up as you'd like to, I have no Right to prevent you from doing so, but I will be Disappointed if you do." or "I don't want you to go out or hang out with these particular people (some of my close Male Friends). You have all the Freedom to interact with whoever you want to, but I will be Hurt, if you are too Close to your other Male Friends." Most of the time, I compromised & avoided Dressing up too Boldly, avoided Partying/Travelling with some of my Close Male Friends & avoided some other things which he wouldn't approve of, just for the sake of maintaining our Relationship. But recently, I tried to Test, how he'd react, if I deliberately do something which he doesn't like. So, on New Year's Day, I dressed up in revealing Clothes that he would never approve of & Partied wildly, all Night & even got Drunk with some of my Close Male Friends, with whom, he wants me to maintain Distance. He stubbornly refused to come for Partying with me, because I Dressed up too Boldly & refused to change them, even after he expected me to do so. He didn't even want me Drinking/Partying with some of my Close Male Friends. But I Respected the Boundaries of our Relationship & throughout the Night, I kept my Boyfriend informed about my Whereabouts, so that he's Reassured that I am not Cheating on him. But ever since then, he's been Treating me rather Coldly. He's being Indifferent to me, without Questioning me much, the way he always used to. He's just maintaining normal Communication without being Flirtatious, as he used to. And the Sex has also become quite Mechanical without much Romance, unlike how Passionate he used to be, earlier. I've tried talking to him, but he just keeps lying that he isn't Upset with me. Now I am Feeling really Guilty for whatever I had done on New Year's Day, even though, I don't think I did anything Wrong. Was it really Wrong on my Part, to do something which I always liked to, but my Boyfriend didn't want me to? Or is my Boyfriend Wrong, here? What do I do now? Please advise me.