He always controlling me .If i wear jeans it means it's a cheat for him because he don't like that i wear jeans

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Run for the hills! This man will ruin your life if you decide to spend the rest of it with him.

Telling you what to wear, checking your phone and being unreasonably jealous of other men are all huge red flags and I am categorically telling you to break this relationship off.

His wearing what you like is just a cover-up for his controlling behaviour. Don’t fall for it at all!

Ans: Fighting with your partner can be a difficult and stressful experience. If you're finding that you and your partner are constantly fighting, it may be helpful to take a step back and reflect on what may be causing the conflict.

First, try to identify the triggers that lead to arguments between you and your partner. Are there certain topics or situations that tend to set off disagreements? Understanding what causes conflicts can help you and your partner avoid these situations or approach them in a more productive way.

It's also important to work on communication skills. When you and your partner are in the midst of an argument, try to remain calm and listen actively to what they have to say. Avoid interrupting or talking over them, and take the time to reflect on your own feelings before responding. If the conversation becomes too heated, take a break and come back to it when both of you have had a chance to cool down.

If you find that you're unable to resolve conflicts on your own, it may be helpful to seek the guidance of a professional relationship counselor. A trained counselor can provide you and your partner with tools and strategies for improving communication, managing conflicts, and strengthening your relationship.

Remember, building a strong and healthy relationship takes effort and commitment from both partners. By working together and focusing on effective communication, you and your partner can overcome conflicts and build a stronger, more fulfilling relationship.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,

I strongly suggest you not even remotely consider running away. While it may seem romantic initially, the harsh reality sets in, and the aftermath can be less than ideal. I acknowledge that you have a loving partner and envision a future together, and I also understand that convincing your parents might pose challenges, but I believe you will find a way to persuade them in due time. But eloping isn't the best way to start a life. It comes with its own set of difficulties.

Best Wishes!

Ans: Trust and Respect are fundamentals of a non toxic relationship is all I have to say. All the best.