Should I Move Away from My Family After Class 12th?

I am 39ys old and working as software engg in Bangalore.I live with my wife and 2kids.. I am normally very minimalist.. my office working hybrid model and i stay in rental house... Still I not bought any flat..son studying 2nd younger one is pre school ,my wife is home maker ..I have confused.. regarding plan to move home town near city..which south part of tamilndau..leaving banglore or staying here .. due to I am always feeling job insecure . And kids will learn mother tongue but afraid about is it good decision any one suggest me pls.

Hello Guru g, I am a merchant Navy professional, I have just married, But things in my family were not good before my marriage and after marriage the things are same , like fights of my mother with my grandmother, my father and mother fights, there is a toxic environment in my house, my time I have tried to neutralise the things but I can't change them it's in there basic nature, I don't want to live anymore with my parents, because in Village people all-around fill their minds with different things and they bing it to our house , because some people here can't see us growing, so I have decided that I will not live here, Then I left with two options either I move to city or go abroad, of I choose the first one then how would I convince my parents to go to city with them, what should I tell them so that they also didn't get hurt and allow me to take this step and also how can I find a good society because we are newly married couple and security is my main concern because I am very afraid of cities because there criminal activities are more than villages , and If I choose the 2nd option then I have to spend a lot of money but I wanted to do business in India because there is a lot of scope here and expenses to live a life is less here, so kindly help me take decision, I will be very thankful to you .

I want to ask one general question...In India majority of the people starts moving away from their parents after completing 12th for college and after that they get jobs at different metro cities and they get settled their...Is it is good ? My condition is that my father had a business and I am living a good life..Should I move out of comfort zone for further studies ?. I have not problem in studying away from parents but I don't like that living away from parents system for the rest of the life just for doing job....Am I right about this thinking? Please guide me !

Sir I am currently in 12th PCM preparing for jee...I BELONGED to a business family...I had think about some field in which I want to work like education sector,IT sector and finance sector..But I don't want to do job for very long period of time..After some years of job I may start something of my own...Due to continuously living in a isolated environment I have become a darpon...Always my heart beats up when new things faces me..I am a overthinker also due to which I am unable to study properly...I have no confidence in myself...I wanted to settled in Gujarat only but I have no problem living outside for few years...