Sir I am currently in 12th PCM preparing for jee...I BELONGED to a business family...I had think about some field in which I want to work like education sector,IT sector and finance sector..But I don't want to do job for very long period of time..After some years of job I may start something of my own...Due to continuously living in a isolated environment I have become a darpon...Always my heart beats up when new things faces me..I am a overthinker also due to which I am unable to study properly...I have no confidence in myself...I wanted to settled in Gujarat only but I have no problem living outside for few years...

I am 48 years old. Ever since my childhood I was a bright student but was denied education and other facilities like good clothes, footwears etc despite I was being a only son having 2 sisters, where as eldest sister was provided with extra facilities which she did not care for. Our economical background was moderate. We were not poor. After my schooling which was free I completed my diploma and degree in mech. Engg(long distance education) of my own and worked in related companies for 10 years. My performance was appreciated orally but received nominal monitory benefits. After that I learnt Info Tech skills from my savings and worked in IT field for 16 years. Here also my work was highly appreciated but received quite a minimal monitory benefits, May be because of my very simple and state forward nature but not naïve one certainly. Now since last 1 year I learnt trading skills in share market, but here also, even though I am not in loss but is still awaiting a minimum satisfactory success. I am able to cater to all the requirement of my nuclear family but does not have a car and still not able to make long distance tours. Now days I feel like I am a big looser and also feel like my luck will never let me win big. Whereas most of my friends have achieved great success in less than 5% struggle than mine with the help of their parents. I am feeling diminished, lost, wasted and hapless/hopeless. Kindly suggest.

I HAD JUST COMPLETED MY CLASS 12TH WITH SCIENCE STREAM AND I AM ABOUT TO JOIN COLLEGE BUT TODAY I GOT A THOUGHT THAT SHOULD I MOVE OUT , AWAY FROM MY FAMILY ?..I BELONGED TO A GUJARATI FAMILY LIVING IN SURAT..I JUST WANT TO ASK IS IT IS GOOD TO MOVE AWAY FROM FAMILY TO LIVE ALONELY.. SOMETIMES I THOUGHT THAT WHY TO LEAVE HOMETOWN TO LIVE IN METRO CITIES..MY FATHER IS A BUSINESSMAN AND MY ENTIRE RELATIVES LIVES IN SURAT..I THINKS I SHOULD SETTLE IN MY HOMETOWN AS IT WILL BE GOOD FOR ME FINANCIALLY AND MENTALLY..BUT I WANT ADVICE THAT IS I AM THINKING RIGHT OR NOT ? PLEASE HELP ME I AM VERY TENSED ABD WORRIED ABOUT MY FUTURE

I have one problem that is career overthinking...I am always busy in thinking and becoming tensed about my career and I think this is a barrier in my jee preparation..I BELONGED to a Gujarati family, financial condition is good and my parents never force me to do something,My father runs a textile business but he don't want me to come in that business,,, he used to told me that do something of your own if not job but don't come in textile business ..But my behaviour is like just I became tensed after hearing some negative news or views on engineering..I always asked myself whether I am going on right path or not !

I'm at a point in life where nothing seems too clear, i dont know what I'm doing. I was an just above average student, passed +2 long time ago in 2017, after that kept arguing with mother that I don't wanna do the job that was offered to me as "dependent" after my father had passed away , my younger brother joined that later Till than i was doing BSC had no interest, dropped out of it, and just for sake of doing graduation graduated with BA in economics, at that time i got into doing various tech stuff ( making some small apps etc ). I tried harder to get into it but india is cruel and I'm average...... So i decided to enroll in MCA last year in a tier 3 private college with almost non existing placement Mistake after mistake after mistake.... Now you all know the state of job market... They say its getting harder for the freshers. Been applying for internships on intershala and other websites but still here with no internship. After this much setbacks even my interest is now like - okay it's just a chore, i have stopped enjoying any programing or anything, i still like it i wouldn't say i enjoy it... I don't even know what am i doing with life, where will i end up. Sometimes my worry is whether i will be able to even make any money or not. I have no desire to join any government job... Just pushing into up skilling, but setback after setback, is forcing me to accept that nobody is going to give a job that too as a fresher in private sector to an old stupid 25 year old unemployed man.