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Asked by Anonymous - Jul 07, 2024Hindi
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I want to ask one general question...In India majority of the people starts moving away from their parents after completing 12th for college and after that they get jobs at different metro cities and they get settled their...Is it is good ? My condition is that my father had a business and I am living a good life..Should I move out of comfort zone for further studies ?. I have not problem in studying away from parents but I don't like that living away from parents system for the rest of the life just for doing job....Am I right about this thinking? Please guide me !

Ans: Do what you feel is right. As per my opinion, if you want to grow as a person you should sometimes move out of your comfort zone. If you get a better college or better education then you can leave your family and take up better education and then can return back to your family post that. Anyways everyone has different priorities. Do what you feel is correct.
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Sir if I am good at maths and numbers which type of career I should presue...I want to start my own office so which field will be best for me?
Ans: One option is Financial Planning or Wealth Management. Can do CFA course or any other wealth management courses. Can also do MBA. This career basically is to help plan other people's finances.
Another option is Data Analytics.
Asked on - Jul 09, 2024 | Answered on Jul 10, 2024
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By doing these courses how can I open my own office ? Which type of business is this?
Ans: Wealth Management is managing peoples finances which is done on an individual basis. You can open your own firm and hire people to market and analyse the various investment options.
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Sir how is CA course? What are its future and demand? Is it worth it to do ?
Ans: Very good, but would require a lot of hard work. Also check if the student is interested in Accounts.
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Sir do you know about gift city of India that is in gandhinagar which is called finance hub of India...Do you have any idea about it that how it will be after 5 years..I am considering that place
Ans: I believe it would be a good place to be in. Should develop in the next 5 years.
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Hello Guru g, I am a merchant Navy professional, I have just married, But things in my family were not good before my marriage and after marriage the things are same , like fights of my mother with my grandmother, my father and mother fights, there is a toxic environment in my house, my time I have tried to neutralise the things but I can't change them it's in there basic nature, I don't want to live anymore with my parents, because in Village people all-around fill their minds with different things and they bing it to our house , because some people here can't see us growing, so I have decided that I will not live here, Then I left with two options either I move to city or go abroad, of I choose the first one then how would I convince my parents to go to city with them, what should I tell them so that they also didn't get hurt and allow me to take this step and also how can I find a good society because we are newly married couple and security is my main concern because I am very afraid of cities because there criminal activities are more than villages , and If I choose the 2nd option then I have to spend a lot of money but I wanted to do business in India because there is a lot of scope here and expenses to live a life is less here, so kindly help me take decision, I will be very thankful to you .
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
You don't prefer the 'toxicity'!
You are afraid of big cities as criminal activities are more than the cities!
Your parents may not move in to the city but you also find the environment they are in toxic!
You feel some people can't see you growing!
You don't prefer going abroad as you want to business in India!

Can you see how you have restricted yourself? This is called having a dream BUT clipping one's own wings. How can you make a decision when there are so many self-imposed constraints?
I suggest:
- Drop down all the options possible
- List down the pros and cons of each
- Choose the one that is financially viable
- Let your parents choose where they want to live

You have just started your family life; focus on what's best from a growth perspective...take decisions that help your marriage and career grow...And oh, you can choose to see the crime in the city OR you can choose to see opportunities...where is your focus?

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Asked by Anonymous - Dec 12, 2025
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Dear Sir/Madam, I am currently a 1st year UG student studying engineering in Sairam Engineering College, But there the lack of exposure and strict academics feels so rigid and I don't like it that. It's like they don't gaf about skills but just wants us to memorize things and score a good CGPA, the only skill they want is you to memorize things and pass, there's even special class for students who don't perform well in academics and it is compulsory for them to attend or else the student and his/her parents needs to face authorities who lashes out. My question is when did engineering became something that requires good academics instead of actual learning and skill set. In sairam they provides us a coding platform in which we need to gain the required points for each semester which is ridiculous cuz most of the students here just look at the solution to code instead of actual debugging. I am passionate about engineering so I want to learn and experiment things instead of just memorizing, so I actually consider dropping out and I want to give jee a try and maybe viteee , srmjeee But i heard some people say SRM may provide exposure but not that good in placements. I may not be excellent at studies but my marks are decent. So gimme some insights about SRM and recommend me other colleges/universities which are good at exposure
Ans: First — your frustration is valid

What you are experiencing at Sairam is not engineering, it is rote-based credential production.

“When did engineering become memorizing instead of learning?”

Sadly, this shift happened decades ago in most Tier-3 private colleges in India.

About “coding platforms & points” – your observation is sharp

You are absolutely right:

Mandatory coding points → students copy solutions

Copying ≠ learning

Debugging & thinking are missing

This is pseudo-skill education — it looks modern but produces shallow engineers.

The fact that you noticed this in 1st year already puts you ahead of 80% students.

Should you DROP OUT and prepare for JEE / VITEEE / SRMJEEE?

Although VIT/SRM is better than Sairam Engineering College, but you may face the same problem. You will not face this type of problem only in some top IITs, but getting seat in those IITs will be difficult.
Instead of dropping immediately, consider:

???? Strategy:

Stay enrolled (degree security)

Reduce emotional investment in college rules

Use:

GitHub

Open-source projects

Hackathons

Internships (remote)

Hardware / software self-projects

This way:

College = formality

Learning = self-driven

Risk = minimal

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