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CAT, XAT, CMAT, CET Expert - Answered on Jul 08, 2024

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Asked by Anonymous - Jul 07, 2024Hindi
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I want to ask one general question...In India majority of the people starts moving away from their parents after completing 12th for college and after that they get jobs at different metro cities and they get settled their...Is it is good ? My condition is that my father had a business and I am living a good life..Should I move out of comfort zone for further studies ?. I have not problem in studying away from parents but I don't like that living away from parents system for the rest of the life just for doing job....Am I right about this thinking? Please guide me !

Ans: Do what you feel is right. As per my opinion, if you want to grow as a person you should sometimes move out of your comfort zone. If you get a better college or better education then you can leave your family and take up better education and then can return back to your family post that. Anyways everyone has different priorities. Do what you feel is correct.
Asked on - Jul 08, 2024 | Answered on Jul 09, 2024
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Sir if I am good at maths and numbers which type of career I should presue...I want to start my own office so which field will be best for me?
Ans: One option is Financial Planning or Wealth Management. Can do CFA course or any other wealth management courses. Can also do MBA. This career basically is to help plan other people's finances.
Another option is Data Analytics.
Asked on - Jul 09, 2024 | Answered on Jul 10, 2024
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By doing these courses how can I open my own office ? Which type of business is this?
Ans: Wealth Management is managing peoples finances which is done on an individual basis. You can open your own firm and hire people to market and analyse the various investment options.
Asked on - Jul 11, 2024 | Answered on Jul 12, 2024
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Sir how is CA course? What are its future and demand? Is it worth it to do ?
Ans: Very good, but would require a lot of hard work. Also check if the student is interested in Accounts.
Asked on - Jul 12, 2024 | Answered on Jul 13, 2024
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Sir do you know about gift city of India that is in gandhinagar which is called finance hub of India...Do you have any idea about it that how it will be after 5 years..I am considering that place
Ans: I believe it would be a good place to be in. Should develop in the next 5 years.
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Hello Guru g, I am a merchant Navy professional, I have just married, But things in my family were not good before my marriage and after marriage the things are same , like fights of my mother with my grandmother, my father and mother fights, there is a toxic environment in my house, my time I have tried to neutralise the things but I can't change them it's in there basic nature, I don't want to live anymore with my parents, because in Village people all-around fill their minds with different things and they bing it to our house , because some people here can't see us growing, so I have decided that I will not live here, Then I left with two options either I move to city or go abroad, of I choose the first one then how would I convince my parents to go to city with them, what should I tell them so that they also didn't get hurt and allow me to take this step and also how can I find a good society because we are newly married couple and security is my main concern because I am very afraid of cities because there criminal activities are more than villages , and If I choose the 2nd option then I have to spend a lot of money but I wanted to do business in India because there is a lot of scope here and expenses to live a life is less here, so kindly help me take decision, I will be very thankful to you .
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
You don't prefer the 'toxicity'!
You are afraid of big cities as criminal activities are more than the cities!
Your parents may not move in to the city but you also find the environment they are in toxic!
You feel some people can't see you growing!
You don't prefer going abroad as you want to business in India!

Can you see how you have restricted yourself? This is called having a dream BUT clipping one's own wings. How can you make a decision when there are so many self-imposed constraints?
I suggest:
- Drop down all the options possible
- List down the pros and cons of each
- Choose the one that is financially viable
- Let your parents choose where they want to live

You have just started your family life; focus on what's best from a growth perspective...take decisions that help your marriage and career grow...And oh, you can choose to see the crime in the city OR you can choose to see opportunities...where is your focus?

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Hi Madam. I am married from last one and half years now, there has been numerous fights in between small and big ones both. In between this time I have become a mother, and, my baby is 7 months old now. My husband does nothing, did nothing in past one and half years. He is only occupied with his work all the time, he goes to office everyday mostly. Right now my baby is 7 months old and from last 7 months me and my parents are taking care of the baby. And, he absolutely shows no understanding when it comes to looking after the baby. Am also a working person. Moreover I pay all the bills when it comes to getting household stuff, paying rent, all the expenses related to baby. He is so shameless that he just doesn’t care too, when I pick these topics or raise concerns about handling the baby he gets abusive. I am not sure what to do now! How insensible can a person get if no one sees my husband would never feel that person like him exist in this world. I feel like filing a divorce petition now. He was the one who wanted to have baby so soon. I was never ready. Now when I have the baby I am the only person along with my parents and sister looking after the baby.
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Your husband wants a family without responsibilities and that's why neither is he interested in the baby nor in paying the bills...This is not just insensitivity but lack of emotional immaturity and the unwillingness to take on responsibilities head on...Approach a senior male member within the family who is someone that has been a role model to others in terms executing family responsibilities and is also caring and affectionate. This person can appeal to your husband and talk some sense into him.

If there's no one that fits the bill, the only option is to go to a professional for Couples Therapy. There's a reason why your husband avoids his duties as a husband and father and that needs to be uncovered and sorted out. It will also help the two of bond and connect better. Make this attempt before jumping into divorce; separating is a whole different world that comes with its own set of challenges and with the baby now in the picture, work at the marriage and putting things together.

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