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Asked by Anonymous - Mar 17, 2024Hindi
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I am 39ys old and working as software engg in Bangalore.I live with my wife and 2kids.. I am normally very minimalist.. my office working hybrid model and i stay in rental house... Still I not bought any flat..son studying 2nd younger one is pre school ,my wife is home maker ..I have confused.. regarding plan to move home town near city..which south part of tamilndau..leaving banglore or staying here .. due to I am always feeling job insecure . And kids will learn mother tongue but afraid about is it good decision any one suggest me pls.

Ans: It's important to think practically not panic and preempt,something out of nothing ... insecurity in your job creeps in out of various situations, understand what's triggering that, address the problem, don't jump from frying pan to fire.

The current Hybrid model means you need to report to the office atleast 2 days a week, what's your travel & stay plan,from home town to Bangalore, will you really save...or spend more?

Learning mother tongue is from mother n no need to relocate..!?
Be grateful for the equal opportunity Bangalore gives people from all over India, pick up your performance, don't look for shortcuts.

Ask your wife to do a work from home job or take tuitions at home,to supplement the income, if the need be!?
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Understanding Your Financial Situation
Current Income and Assets
Monthly NRI Salary: Rs 5 lakhs
Upcoming Indian Salary: Rs 2.3 lakhs per month
Plot in Bangalore: 30x40
Active Agricultural Land: 5 acres
EPF Balance: Rs 30 lakhs
Bank Balance: Rs 10 lakhs
Sukanya Samriddhi Yojana: Rs 10,000 per month (Rs 4 lakhs in account)
Gold Jewelry: 750 grams (500 gm yours, 250 gm wife’s)
Agricultural Land (Wife’s name): 1.5 acres
Recent Stock Investment: Rs 1 lakh (wife’s name)
Current Family Expenses: Rs 1 lakh per month
Term Insurance: Rs 1 crore
Plan to Construct Home: Rs 1 crore (rent: Rs 40,000 per month)
Plan to Buy Car: Rs 15 lakhs (in less than 2 years)
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Current Car: Old Santro
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Children’s marriage
Retirement corpus
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Evaluating Your Assets
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Agricultural Land and Plot
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