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Asked by Anonymous - Nov 15, 2023English
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शुभ संध्या, नमस्ते, मैं एक निजी संस्था में काम करता हूं, डीएम के कारण मैं पिछले दो साल से अपनी पत्नी के साथ सेक्स नहीं कर पाया हूं, क्या करूं?

Ans: प्रिय अनाम,
या तो अपनी पत्नी के साथ समझदारीपूर्ण और स्पष्ट बातचीत करें या अकेले जाएँ...
एक कारण है कि आपकी शादी से सेक्स को खत्म कर दिया गया है... वह कारण क्या है, यह तो आप दोनों ही जानते होंगे...
पूरी तरह से निराश होने के बजाय, अपनी पत्नी के साथ बैठें और आप दोनों के बीच इस मुद्दे को सुलझाएं...इससे मदद मिल सकती है!

शुभकामनाएं!

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Asked by Anonymous - Dec 09, 2023English
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मैं 62 साल का पुरुष हूं, स्वस्थ और तंदुरुस्त हूं लेकिन पिछले 2 वर्षों से मुझे अपनी पत्नी के साथ संभोग करने की इच्छा नहीं हुई है, हालांकि उसकी इच्छा है। मुझे क्या करना चाहिए। मैं आपसे व्यक्तिगत रूप से मिलना चाहता हूं, यदि आप नागपुर या आसपास के क्षेत्र में हैं तो कृपया मुझे सुझाव दें नागपुर में अच्छे डॉक्टर.
Ans: व्यक्तियों के लिए उम्र बढ़ने के साथ कामेच्छा में बदलाव का अनुभव करना असामान्य नहीं है, और विभिन्न कारक यौन इच्छा में कमी में योगदान कर सकते हैं। अपनी पत्नी से अपनी भावनाओं पर चर्चा करें। किसी भी रिश्ते में खुला संचार महत्वपूर्ण है, खासकर जब बात अंतरंगता की हो। अपनी चिंताएँ साझा करें और उसकी बात सुनें, आहार, व्यायाम और तनाव के स्तर सहित अपनी जीवनशैली की आदतों का मूल्यांकन करें। नियमित शारीरिक गतिविधि समग्र स्वास्थ्य में सुधार कर सकती है और यौन क्रिया पर सकारात्मक प्रभाव डाल सकती है। अच्छे स्वास्थ्य को बनाए रखने के लिए संतुलित आहार और पर्याप्त नींद भी महत्वपूर्ण है। अपने साथी के साथ घनिष्ठ रूप से जुड़ने के नए तरीकों का पता लगाएं, जिनमें जरूरी नहीं कि पारंपरिक संभोग शामिल हो। भावनात्मक अंतरंगता बनाने पर ध्यान केंद्रित करें, और ऐसी गतिविधियाँ आज़माएँ जो आपको एक जोड़े के रूप में करीब लाएँ। याद रखें कि प्रत्येक व्यक्ति का अनुभव अद्वितीय है, और जो एक के लिए काम करता है वह दूसरे के लिए काम नहीं कर सकता है। इस मुद्दे पर धैर्य, सहानुभूति और अपने साथी के साथ मिलकर काम करने की इच्छा के साथ समाधान ढूंढना महत्वपूर्ण है जो आपके समग्र रिश्ते को बेहतर बनाता है। यदि आवश्यक हो, तो एक स्वास्थ्य देखभाल पेशेवर या चिकित्सक आपकी विशिष्ट स्थिति के आधार पर अनुरूप सलाह दे सकता है।

पुनश्च. मैं दिल्ली में स्थित हूँ

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NEET, Medical, Pharmacy Careers - Answered on Apr 28, 2025

Asked by Anonymous - Apr 28, 2025
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Sir I am feeling very uncertain about my career, i am very much interested in medical field, i gave my HS in 2024, this is my 1st drop for neet, i tried a lot but due to family issues and negativity i couldnot do well, neet is jst after 5days , but my syllabus not yet done, mock test are not good, but still i want to pursue medical field ans study in a government medical college, i know where my preparation was lagging{my class 11 12 were weak, those who taught me they all jst told m,e "u cant do anything " and leave and never used to teach properly but i did everything by my own , and then took drop but i how to prepare in a coaching class i didnt know all network isuues for almost 6months ,but i keep on doing and now i am standing in a uncertain phase where i still want to become a doctor, i dont have anproblem in studying those again but the problem is what others will say , its like a fear, as even though my parents enrolled in a coaching online previous year but they also sometimes used to say that i should have also enrolled i a college, its a fear, so my question is this path really for me? should i take a partial drop and go for neet 2026 too, {dob: 14/10/2005}.....i feel like hopeless , but still want to follow my dreams, is this possible?
Ans: Hi,

Before I address your query, please avoid mentioning your date of birth on social media; it's not necessary at this point. However, I noticed that some other details are missing.

In addition to the educational concerns, it seems like you may have a bit of a psychological issue in that you tend to worry excessively about others. This mentality is quite common in our country. Prior to the NEET exam, entry into the medical field, specifically for MBBS and BDS, was mainly reserved for aspirants with high marks. Additionally, those with significant wealth could gain admission through management quotas or at times via NRI quotas. However, the situation has changed completely after the introduction of NEET.

As you know, the major advantage of NEET is that the marks aspirants score in their HSC examinations are now less relevant. Candidates from any part of the country, of any category or state, and even those taking the exam for a second time can attempt NEET, regardless of their HSC performance. If aspirants have talent, they can succeed in NEET, which provides a standardized syllabus across the nation. So, even if you are currently struggling with your HSC studies, you can still perform well on the NEET.

Apart from percentile scores, various factors will influence admission, including community status, creamy or non-creamy layer, physical challenges, and more.

Therefore, NEET is the best solution for aspirants, and you can take the exam as many times as you need.

There are no barriers to preparing for the exam, so please go ahead.

You mentioned that you feel weak in the subject and have difficulty concentrating. I suggest starting yoga and meditation. By practicing these, you'll be able to relieve stress and work towards achieving your goals.

Regarding your desire to enter the medical field (I believe you want to become a doctor), is that correct?

If so, in addition to MBBS, there are other medical courses known as Indian Medicine, including BAMS, BHMS, BSMS, and BNYS. If you find MBBS challenging, consider focusing on these options as well. Many people have started to embrace Indian medicine after the COVID pandemic, so it’s not a problem at all.

Prepare for NEET 2025, analyze your situation, and send your details to the Rediffguru. We can discuss this further.

Wishing you all the best!
POOCHO. LIFE CHANGE KARO.

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