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prabir Question by prabir on Jun 10, 2023Hindi
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When there is no stress , anxiety, physically week, I get bored & it turns me to depression , how can I stop this symptom ?

Ans: Dear Prabir,
I can only take a guess here...
Your body is used to being stimulated through mental strain that keeps your adrenaline (keeps you on your toes).
This is good when it is needed but the body and mind also must rest else you will start to see symptoms po burnout. What you have been avoiding on this 'busy' roller coaster is BOREDOM possibly. What if there are other ways to keep boredom at bay? You could be active, work, have hobbies, rest when needed and socialize as well. It will allow you to live actively yet moderate your need to be occupied all the time as fun through hobbies and socialization might keep you energized without actually doing much.
Also, get active in the gym, trek, hike...this releases the excess energy...
Do identify what is it that you are getting by keeping yourself busy or are you running away from something. And then find other means to address the same...

Moderation in everything that you do...key to a more wholesome life!

All the best!

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