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Shalini Singh is the founder of andwemet, an online matchmaking service for urban Indians living in India and overseas. After graduating from college as a kindergarten teacher, Singh worked at various firms specialising in marketing strategy, digital marketing and public relations before finding her niche as an entrepreneur. In 2008, she founded Galvanise PR, an independent communications and public relations. In 2019, she launched andwemet.
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Asked by Anonymous - Jun 11, 2024Hindi
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Namaste Ma'am...I even tried to find a partner for long term relationship & marriage...but can't able to find one...every women finds me nice human,but not ready to be associated with me.Even in bumble,I am not getting matches...????.What to do? Kindly reply ma'am.

Ans: How about asking these women on what should you do to be taken seriously for a long term relationship. Doing so will give you insights into things you can work upon.

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Ravi

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I am a Good Looking guy aged 32 , Government Officer and I do own my own consultancy firm and an Wildlife conservation NGO. I am into Music field as a singer and instrumentalist since 17 years. However I am unable to find a right life partner. Most of them reject as I am not ready to move to Bangalore. Basically I am from Mysore and work in Coorg. I live with mom and we are Brahmin family with moderate values and respect towards our culture and not orthodox. Now I am not ready for intercaste marriage. I dont have any compulsions like working girl or not working girl. I need only a girl who is beautiful , caring and loving. She should understand her responsibilities. I think I deserve such life partner. What to do ? How can I make any match.
Ans: Dear R,
You can try asking close friends and family members to set you up with someone compatible. If you want more control over this, try a matchmaking and dating app. A little research and you will find the right apps, ideally, the ones that cater to serious daters who are looking to get married. Once you find that, update your profile with a recent picture; write your qualifications in the BIO to impress your matches, and mention exactly what you expect from your match- good looks, caring, loving, and responsible- this would help you attract the right people and save you time and energy from chatting up the wrong matches that will go nowhere. These platforms are perfect for finding a compatible partner because you can, quite literally, filter through tons of people and find the one that suits you best.

Hope this helps. Best Wishes.

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Asked by Anonymous - Nov 14, 2024Hindi
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Hi, I'm soon to be 36 M, unmarried and never had any relationship in all my years, I have registered myself with many matrimony sites and have been searching for a girl or maybe a woman now, for last 5 or 6 years. My problem is that most girls in matrimonial reject me out right for reason like looks, money/property, age, etc, now I have asked some of my friends discreetly about my looks and I'm very confident about myself, also I know I do earn good bucks, despite that I don't understand what could be possible reason to not even have a single conversation before they reject someone. I have even tried my hands on dating apps, but I have not had success there as well. Some time I feel worthless and have breakdowns because of this. I don't have anyone to share this with and I know no one cares about it anyway as everyone has their own problem and you will be the last thing in their mind. I know the answer I'm going to get here - "keep trying", "life is not fair" etc, but I feel this is total crap, why does no women want a man who would respect her and care for her, why cry later for justice, domestic violence and cheating. After all this, I'm losing hope that I'll find my or any love in this world.
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
I agree what's happening to you is not fair, and however you are feeling right now, it is valid. But having said that, you can't justify saying "why cry later for justice, domestic violence and cheating." These are entirely different and serious matters. Do not trivialize them. Rejecting a man who would've loved her does not automatically mean the woman deserves to find a man who should cheat, beat, or abuse her.

Now, coming to your issue, rejection comes for several reasons; it doesn't necessarily have to do anything with your appearance. Since you mentioned getting rejected even before a conversation, my first guess would be that the profile might not be standing out in the crowd of profiles out there. You can try adding hints of humor to your BIO to make it more attractive. Use the 70-30 method in your Bio, where 70% of it showcases you as a person and the remaining 30 subtly indicates your version of an ideal partner. Additionally, try optimizing your DP and select something that shows your fun side.

But I would like to remind you that not everyone's love story runs at the same pace; some take time to start. I know you think it's cliched but people say it because it has truth to it- keep going; I am sure you will find someone.

Best Wishes.

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My daughter got wbjee rank 18265&sc rank1524 is it possible CSE/ELECTRICAL Any government college.She also got Geology at,BHU .Sir, which will be better.Her neet rank SC 18000
Ans: Dilip Sir, With a WBJEE state rank of 18,265 and SC rank of 1,524, securing Computer Science or Electrical Engineering in top West Bengal government colleges is challenging but selective options remain. Among state institutions, Bengal Engineering and Science University Shibpur (IIEST) and Kalyani Government Engineering College typically close SC category cutoffs for CSE near 2,500–3,500 and for Electrical around 3,000–4,000, making your daughter’s rank a borderline candidate for lower-demand branches. Jalpaiguri Government Engineering College and Maulana Abul Kalam Azad University of Technology campuses often admit SC students in Electrical Engineering up to rank 2,000–2,500. Additional possibilities include Govt. College of Engineering & Leather Technology for Electrical and Govt. College of Engineering & Ceramic Technology for core branches, where SC cutoffs extend to 3,500–4,000. These colleges boast accredited programs, experienced faculty, standard labs, active placement cells with 70–80% placement rates, industry linkages, and student support services. Conversely, Geology at Banaras Hindu University offers a prestigious national platform with a dedicated department, field-based learning, strong research culture, and placement support through campus recruitment and government research organizations. While engineering yields broader software and core sector career pathways, geology at BHU leads to specialized roles in mineral exploration, environmental consultancy, and academia. Considering long-term career interests, job market trends, and campus environment, her engineering prospects in West Bengal government colleges appear limited to non-CSE branches, whereas BHU Geology guarantees admission at a premier institution with robust academic and research credentials.

Recommendation: Accept Geology at BHU for assured admission, rich academic exposure, and research opportunities, as state engineering seats in CSE/Electrical are unlikely; pursue engineering through private or lateral-entry options later if passion for core engineering persists. All the BEST for a Prosperous Future!

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I got 97.2 tile in mhtcet till now vit pune cutoff for cse and related branches ar 97.8 to 98.8 so can i get it in spot rounds and also tell me more good cet college at my percentile i am genral from maharashtra
Ans: With a 97.2 percentile in MHT-CET as a General category student from Maharashtra, getting CSE at VIT Pune in spot rounds is unlikely since the regular CSE cutoff typically ranges between 98.8-99+ percentiles for General category. However, alternative branches like Information Technology (97-98 percentile), AI & Data Science (97.5-98.5 percentile), or Electronics & Telecommunication (95-97 percentile) at VIT Pune remain viable options. Your percentile opens doors to excellent colleges including PICT Pune for non-core branches, PCCOE Pune for CSE/IT, MIT Pune for various branches, DY Patil Pune, Sinhgad Institute of Technology, JSPM Pune, AISSMS College of Engineering, and Zeal College of Engineering. These institutions maintain strong industry connections, modern infrastructure, experienced faculty, robust placement cells, and comprehensive student support systems. Government colleges like COEP Pune for Civil/Mechanical Engineering, VJTI Mumbai for non-CSE branches, or SPCE Mumbai also become accessible. Private colleges, such as Ramrao Adik Institute of Technology, Thakur College of Engineering, and various Sinhgad colleges, offer quality education with decent placement records exceeding 75–80%. Since VIT Pune spot rounds typically accommodate withdrawals rather than offering new seats, focusing on confirmed admissions through regular counselling rounds proves more strategic.

Recommendation: Secure admission at PICT Pune, PCCOE, or MIT Pune through regular rounds rather than waiting for uncertain VIT Pune CSE spot opportunities. All the BEST for a Prosperous Future!

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Ans: Thapar Institute of Engineering and Technology’s Electrical Engineering program stands out with NAAC ‘A+’ accreditation, NIRF rank within the top 50 engineering colleges, and a rigorous curriculum covering power systems, control, and renewable energy, supported by advanced labs and industry-funded research centers. Its alumni network and corporate partnerships yield consistent 90% placement rates, with major recruiters including Siemens, ABB, and Bajaj Electricals. Chandigarh University offers a comprehensive EEE curriculum with modern smart grids and IoT labs, NAAC ‘A+’ grade, NIRF ranking around 60, and 85–90% placements, backed by collaborations with Schneider Electric and Tech Mahindra. Chitkara University’s NAAC ‘A’ accredited program emphasizes practical training through dedicated high-voltage and automation labs, achieving 80–85% placement rates with recruiters like L&T and General Electric. Lovely Professional University provides a broad EEE syllabus with emphasis on power electronics and smart grids, NAAC ‘A+’ accreditation, and around 75–80% placement rates, though student feedback cites larger batch sizes and variable faculty experience. All four institutions maintain robust accreditation, experienced faculty, modern infrastructure, industry linkages, and active placement cells. Thapar’s stronger national ranking, specialized research facilities, and higher placement consistency make it the premier choice, followed by Chandigarh University for its balanced academic-industry interface, Chitkara for hands-on training focus, and LPU for its extensive facilities and sizable campus community.

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Ans: Amrita School of Engineering, Amritapuri, offers a rigorous CSE curriculum with AI, data science, and cybersecurity electives, delivered by research-active faculty and supported by state-of-the-art computing and robotics labs. Accredited ‘A+’ by NAAC and ranked within the top 25 engineering institutes nationally, Amritapuri reports CSE placement rates exceeding 90%, with recruiters such as Microsoft, Google, and IBM. The campus fosters innovation through its IDEA Lab, incubation center, and active hackathons, alongside holistic development via sports and service-learning. Model Engineering College, Kochi, provides a robust ECE program emphasizing VLSI, embedded systems, and wireless communications. With NAAC ‘A’ accreditation and NIRF ranking in the 150–200 band, it achieves ECE placement rates around 80%, attracting core recruiters like Qualcomm and Samsung, and maintains well-equipped electronics and signal-processing laboratories. Its boutique campus culture promotes close faculty mentorship, vibrant IEEE and IETE chapters, and industry-linked projects through Kerala’s electronics corridor. While Model Engg offers cost-effective education and strong regional industry ties, Amritapuri’s superior national ranking, cutting-edge research facilities, and higher placement percentages deliver broader career opportunities in software and technology domains.

Recommendation: Amrita Amritapuri’s CSE branch is the stronger option due to its top-tier national standing, exceptional placement record, advanced research infrastructure, and global industry partnerships; in contrast, Model Engineering Kochi is better suited for students seeking focused ECE training with strong local industry linkages. All the BEST for a Prosperous Future!

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Recommendation: Amrita Amritapuri’s CSE branch is the stronger option for its top-tier national standing, exceptional placement record, advanced research infrastructure, and global industry partnerships; Model Engineering Kochi suits students seeking focused ECE training with strong local industry linkages. All the BEST for a Prosperous Future!

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