Unable to Find a Life Partner: What to Do as a Good Looking 32-Year-Old?

Ans: Dear Sivakumar,

You can try any dating app to find a life partner. More and more people from metros and smaller cities are using online dating platforms to find the perfect match for marriage. Make sure to mention that you want a serious relationship that will lead to marriage in your bio. This way you will attract people who want the same thing as you and avoid wasting time with people who are in it for casual relationships. Another important tip- please find a suitable dating app that mostly caters to people wanting exclusive relationships.

Best Wishes!

Ans: Hi Sachin,

I understand that dating can sometimes be very frustrating. You have every right to start wondering whether it will work or not. Since you have already tried dating apps and even had a positive experience, I would ask you to recognize that as a win first. Second, let me share some tips with you that might help you find the right kind of matches:

- Write a detailed and attractive Bio. What should it include? 40% about yourself- your education, your quirks and habits, likes and preferences, and everything that makes you you. 10% about what you can offer as a partner. 10% about the type of relationship you want. Do you want to date exclusively, or are you looking for casual? Are you looking to get married or long-term dating? Mention it clearly to attract the right matches. The remaining 40% should be about the kind of person you want to date. Your idea of a perfect partner. It would save you a lot of time and energy on the relationships that start strong but eventually fizzle out.

- The display picture can play an important role. Always pick a recent and clear image to never mislead anyone. Choose an image that shows you in your element, preferably smiling because that makes you seem warm and welcoming. Refrain from over-editing.

- Another important step is the first message. Write a detailed and personalized first message instead of a Hi.

Other than this, I would ask you to have patience. Regardless of the mode of dating, finding the right partner can take time in certain instances. Good things take time.

Best Wishes.

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