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Should I Marry Someone Younger? I'm a 40-Year-Old Woman

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Asked by Anonymous - Oct 14, 2024Hindi

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Can I marry someone who is younger to me by 8 years ... I am a 40 year old single woman and just wondering if his family will not agree ?

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
I can't comment on his family's opinion, but there is no harm in marrying someone younger than you as long as the decision is between two consenting adults, with no infidelity involved.

Best Wishes.

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Hi, I am 22 years old having a good job and financially independent also was so good ij studies since childhood. I love a guy who so 32 years old with same caste, good family background and financially settled in his life. Despite of age gap, we are so in love with each other. My parents are not agreeing to this as he is 10 years older than me, they are so much concerned about society. I also do have an elder sister who is not married yet but we are ok to wait for a few years. But they are not accepting him and saying if i go and get married to me they will consider me dead for them. What do i do? I can’t leave my family nor him.

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