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Relationships Expert - Answered on Dec 30, 2021
Dear LG,
We’ve been seeing each other for a more than a year and are pretty serious.
Physically, there is a lot of heavy petting but he does not want to go to the final level until we are married.
I am more than ready.
How do I convince him?
We should know whether we are physically compatible.
HS
How about that... The problem is usually the other way around!
Not that I’m judging you, my dear, it’s your body and your life to do as you please.
And yes, I can see your point of view.
So why does he want to wait for marriage, particularly? Is he a virgin? It’s a matter of ethics, maybe? Or he just needs a little time to warm up to the idea.
You can tell him that you are only willing to marry him once you’re assured that both of you are physically compatible as well, if that’s how you feel.
One thing I will tell you, though -- do not marry in a hurry for this reason.
Sex is not a reason to marry soon at all. One year of dating, in my opinion, is nowhere enough.
Also, I hope you’ve considered whether you’re be okay to sleep with him even if things break off in the future?
That is something you should be prepared for, if you’re having sex outside of marriage -- that the marriage may not happen at all. If you’re fine with that, then go right ahead.
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