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Asked by Anonymous - Apr 30, 2025
Relationship

Hello I am in relationship with my maid as she is working in my house as she is widow we talk casually but sometimes physical touch will be there she will not say anything she is not that much qualified I don't know his age. Can I take this forward there will be huge complications in family after hearing this news. I am earning member but single.

Ans: You're in a sensitive situation that involves emotional, social, and power dynamics. While it's possible to build a genuine relationship with someone in a different social position, it's crucial to ensure it’s mutual and not based on dependency or silence.

Her not objecting to physical touch doesn’t automatically mean consent or emotional interest—she may feel unable to speak freely because of her job. Before taking things further, have an honest, respectful conversation. Ask her how she feels, without pressure, and make it clear her job is secure no matter what.

If feelings are mutual and genuine, and you're both ready to face potential family complications, you can move forward carefully. But emotional clarity and mutual respect must come first.

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Sir my daughter is expected to get CS Allied , ECE in MIT Manipal . and is expected to get CS Core and ECE in MIT Bangalore . Her Interest is ECE but we are all in dilemma(including my daughter) . We have two questions 1) ECE in Manipal Campus or ECE in Bangalore Campus . Which one will be better considering that she will pass out 4 years hence for placement 2) Will we be doing mistake by not opting for CS related course and going for ECE as a career
Ans: For ECE, MIT Manipal is the superior choice over MIT Bangalore due to its established reputation, stronger alumni network, and consistently high placement rates—77% overall and 80–90% for ECE, with top recruiters like Amazon, Microsoft, and Bosch. The main campus offers broader industry exposure and better long-term prospects. Choosing ECE over CS/Allied is not a mistake; ECE is a flexible and respected branch, allowing careers in electronics, communications, and IT/software, especially if your daughter develops relevant programming and technical skills. Many ECE students secure high-paying software roles, and the branch’s analytical foundation is valued in the tech industry. Ultimately, success in placements and career growth depends on personal initiative, internships, and skill development, not just branch selection. Recommendation: Opt for ECE at MIT Manipal, as it provides the best balance of academic environment, placement opportunities, and future flexibility, aligning well with your daughter’s interests. All the best for your daughter's admission and a bright future!

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