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Asked by Anonymous - Sep 16, 2024Hindi

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Hi mam, im a lecturer since 5 years. Im in relationship with a girl from Srilanka. Most of our conversation was through mobile. She is a tutor in srilanka for 10 and below standard students. Now I'm 29, she is 27. Since 5 years we are loving each other. We hardly met. In Krishnagiri Tamilnadu I first met her in a Psychotherapy course, witch was about a month. We were good friends in the beginning of our relationship and at the end of a month course she was flying back to Srilanka, before she goes she kissed on my forehead, from then on im in love with the girl. For first few years we were happy in our relationship, but last two years onwards we fight almost every day. Both sides parents are fixing matches, both us are rejecting all the matches but we never shared with our families. Don't know where our relationship is going to end. Its not that my parents won't accept, but when my parents and siblings ask do you any one whom you want marry, or love some one I am not able to reveal to them. Many times I decided and planned and imagined to speak with my family but when it comes to reality im not able to speak. Other side she also is not revealing anything to her parents. Im rejecting the matches that are coming, she is also rejecting of hers. But both are not speaking properly now a days. Most of the time our relationship is filled with fights. Both are adjusting. Some time im feeling to stop the relationship and not to marry at all. I told her to marry as her parents say, and I don't want marry anyone. She is also saying me to marry some one and she wants remain single. But don't know what is happening between us. Im confused to continue or break up or marry her or not to marry her. Nothing is working in my mind. Recently my parents have brought a proposal who was my childhood crush. Suddenly I am indirectly telling her to marry to whom her parents give. She also getting good proposals but rejecting saying that she needs to work and earn money. Same reason I'm also giving. One more issue is she is tamilian of Srilanka and I'm Telugu from Andra. Both family members can't speak directly also. Unable to take any decisions. Kindly help me

Ans: The fact that you're not able to communicate openly with your families, despite rejecting matches on both sides, shows that there might be some fear or hesitation about fully committing to this relationship. Maybe it’s the distance, the cultural and language differences, or the struggles you’re having recently in your relationship that are making it difficult to move forward.

On the other hand, both of you seem to be stuck in a cycle where you're not happy but also not ready to let go. This might be causing even more stress and frustration, leading to the frequent fights. The decision to stay together or part ways is something only you both can make, but it sounds like there’s a lot of unresolved tension and unspoken fears in your relationship.

One thing to consider is having an honest conversation with each other, not about the fights or current frustrations, but about what you both want for the future. If you're both rejecting matches, it shows some level of commitment, but the real question is whether you both see a future together. Do you still love each other, or are you staying together out of habit and fear of the unknown?

If you both feel there is still something worth fighting for, it might be worth giving the relationship another chance by opening up to your families. This could ease the pressure you're feeling and help you both feel more supported. If, however, the love has faded and the fights have taken over, it may be time to re-evaluate whether staying together is what's best for both of you.

In any case, clarity will only come through open communication—both with her and your family. If you continue to stay in a relationship without making a clear decision, the frustration and confusion will likely grow. Take some time to reflect on what you really want, and then take the courageous step of addressing it with her and your families. This may not be easy, but it’s the first step to finding a resolution and peace in your heart.

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At this point, what is missing for you possibly is if after the wait, if she will still be there in the relationship?

If she isn’t willing to complicate her family life at this point in time, I guess she has valid reasons for that which must be respected.

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I am sure there are a lot of ifs and buts that is making you feel the way that you are. It is only imperative that you called out to her and be firm and assertive as to how this might be playing in your mind.

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Hi Anu, I have been going through your column on rediff for some time and I feel you will be able to help me out. I want your advice on my relationship with my girlfriend. We have been in the relationship for 3 years now. I love her a lot and see a future with her. But there are some issues. I think she has some mental health issues. I could never judge in what mood she is in. I look forward everyday to the time we talk or spend together but most often after the meet/ talk I feel low. She almost never misses to find mistakes in everything I do and she blames it on my immaturity since she is 3.5 years elder to me (I am 29). Very rarely I do find out eventually that her judgment was right but most often I feel in all sense she is irrational and I think I am correct. This has taken an emotional toll on me. Now I do not feel like sharing thoughts and things with her because of the fights and emotional toll that I would have to face. I love her a lot and it seems like she too does but might be, I am wrong. I tried breaking up with her thrice. But every time because of some or other urgency or work-related stuff when we reconnect we fall back deeply in love. We are in same field but different organization. I was earlier in the same organisation but she left as she got a better offer. It makes sense to me but sometimes I do feel she could have stayed in same organization). She has been asking me to marry her, but all these things stated above makes me nervous what might be in future if I do marry her. As I take time to think it out she puts it as if I never wanted to marry her. I seek your advice.

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A healthy relationship is one where both individuals help each other grow and thrive.

Pointing out the other’s inadequacies can be detrimental to their emotional health.

You keep walking on egg shells around her and have started to keep things away from her for fear of her rebuke and complaints.

How is this healthy when you can’t share your thoughts with your partner? This will become a habit and not a very good one for sure.

Also, age does not define whether one can boss around or not.

She certainly maybe right in most cases, but there is a way to convey the same thing to you.

Love and calmness in communication can actually transform everything and everyone provided the intent is there.

Marriage under these circumstances can be stressful for you.

So I do suggest that the two of you have an honest talk and when she knows how you feel and how keeping things away from her has become your coping mechanism, I do feel she might be able to see the situation in a new light.

Also, things that you might have misinterpreted about her may also surface.

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Ans: Manjur.
Navigating the ups and downs of a relationship, especially as you move towards marriage, can be challenging but deeply rewarding. It’s clear you and Rasmina care deeply for each other.

Start with better communication. Listening actively to each other without planning your response is crucial. When Rasmina shares her feelings, focus entirely on understanding her perspective. This shows respect and helps in reducing misunderstandings. Additionally, express your emotions calmly using "I feel" statements. For example, say "I feel upset when..." instead of "You always...". This shifts the conversation from blame to sharing feelings, making it easier to connect and respond with empathy.

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1. Financial Snapshot Summary
Age 33, married, expecting a baby

Home loan: Rs.?60?lakh, EMI Rs.?55k monthly, 18 years remaining

Monthly savings ability: about Rs.?5?lakh

Existing investments:

Index funds (Nifty 50 and Nifty Defence): Rs.?3.9?lakh

Large cap: Rs.?1?lakh

Large & mid cap: Rs.?4.6?lakh

Flexi cap: Rs.?3.2?lakh

Multi cap: Rs.?1?lakh

Mid cap: Rs.?85k

Small cap: Rs.?1.75?lakh

Tech sector: Rs.?50k

Infra sector: Rs.?1.7?lakh

PSU fund: Rs.?1.4?lakh

EPF balance: Rs.?8?lakh

Savings account: Rs.?10?lakh

You are already diversified across equity categories and hold good liquidity. Excellent discipline.

2. Understanding Your Priorities
Baby’s arrival and early family needs

Retirement corpus building

Managing home loan without rushing to pre-pay

Growing assets wisely rather than clearing low-interest debt

Your home loan interest is low compared to market returns possible via equity investments. Therefore, shifting focus to wealth creation is sensible.

3. Risk & Liquidity Assessment
Your savings of Rs.?10?lakh plus existing liquidity provide good emergency buffer

EPF of Rs.?8?lakh ensures retirement base

Continue to maintain liquidity of 6 months’ expense in safe instruments

Keep updating emergency cushion as family expands

This ensures you avoid disrupting your investment in case of unforeseen needs.

4. Why Not Clear Home Loan Early
Home loan interest is relatively low (~8–9%)

Equity returns over long term can outperform that

Paying loan early sacrifices the benefit of compounding growth

Instead of clearing, channel money into goal-based investments

Continue standard EMI payment to maintain discipline

You can review part-prepayment later if you receive a bonus or surplus income.

5. Reconsider Index Fund Exposure
You hold index funds tracking Nifty 50 and a sector index. But:

Index funds lack active intervention during downturns

No flexibility—mirror entire index performance

Sectoral index funds are highly volatile and cyclical

You already hold sector funds (Tech and Infra) separately

Actively managed funds offer better downside management

They can allocate, exit, and adjust as economic conditions change

Recommend gradually transitioning index allocations to active large-cap or balanced funds with guidance from CFP-led distributor.

6. Asset Allocation & SIP Repositioning
You aim to invest Rs.?5?lakh monthly and build a long-term wealth engine. Here's a refined strategy:

Equity Allocation (60–65%)

Large / Flexi Cap Active Equity: Rs.?1.25?lakh

Mid Cap Active Equity: Rs.?50,000

Small Cap Active Equity: Rs.?25,000

Multi / Hybrid Equity (Balanced Advantage): Rs.?50,000

ELSS Tax Saver: Rs.?25,000

Debt Allocation (25–30%)

Short-to-Intermediate Debt Funds: Rs.?50,000

Children’s Hybrid Fund (short horizon bucket): Rs.?25,000

Other

Allocation to overseas or thematic equity capped at 5–10% through active funds

This structure offers growth and risk balance while keeping liquidity.

7. Children’s Goal Fund Planning
Your baby arrives soon. Early-stage costs include delivery, essentials, childcare. For 1–2 year need:

Create a “Baby Care Fund” of Rs.?3–4?lakh

Use short-term debt or hybrid mutual funds

Systematically invest Rs.?50k monthly or use part of savings

This ensures funds ready around the time needs arise

Post that, start “Education & Future Security” goal fund via mid/large-cap SIPs.

8. Maintaining SIP Priorities
Your current investment portfolio includes various equity exposures. To make it cohesive:

Reassess index fund exposure and reduce gradually

Continue and increase active equity SIPs as outlined

Use CFP advice to choose 3–4 high-conviction active funds

Avoid direct plans—use CFP-backed distributor for discipline

Balanced funds help cushion during volatile periods

As you invest Rs.?5?lakh monthly, implement the above allocation gradually, not abruptly.

9. Why Avoid Direct and Index Funds
Direct Funds: No expert support, fund monitoring, exit guidance.
Index Funds: No flexibility, follow blind script, no crisis management.
Agile Active Funds via CFP: Strategic stock moves, timely shifts, tailored for your risk.

Your goals need proactive fund management, not auto-pilot passive tools.

10. Retirement Corpus Plan
You are 33, planning retirement maybe at age 60. You have about 27 years of horizon.

Using structured SIPs and portfolio growth, you can:

Build a strong corpus via equity

Maintain a stable allocation of 60–70% equity + 30–40% debt

Gradually tilt towards debt as you near retirement

Regularly review portfolio health fall under CFP supervision

Keep monitoring inflation-adjusted goal progress

This method ensures a secure retirement plan.

11. Insurance & Protection
You didn’t mention insurance. With a baby on the way:

Health insurance – at least Rs.?10–15?lakh family floater

Term life insurance – Minimum Rs.?1–2?crore to cover loan and dependents

Avoid ULIPs or endowment plans—go for pure term and health

Take these via CFP recommended provider and cover soon

Insurance protects your financial plan against sudden events.

12. Debt Management after EMI
Your EMI of Rs.?55k runs for 18 years.

After baby and higher expenses:

Continue EMI as is

Avoid prepayment unless you receive a sizable bonus

When EMI ends, recalculate funds available for SIPs and goals

Use that opportunity to increase SIP amounts further

Use part of EMI funds towards retirement or asset-building

This planned shift after EMI end creates space for accelerated growth.

13. Liquidity, Reserves, and Top-Ups
Your current savings and surge capacity of Rs.?5?lakh enable flexibility:

Continue keeping liquidity of 4–6 months’ expenses

Keep separate corner for baby fund and emergency

Use surplus income for goal-linked investments

Avoid unnecessary lifestyle inflation despite high income

Top-up SIPs when salary or bonus increases

Discipline in surplus use will compound your wealth efficiently.

14. Tax Planning & Gains
Use ELSS SIPs for 80C benefits

Equity fund LTCG taxed 12.5% above Rs.?1.25?lakh per annum

Debt / hybrids taxed as per income slab

Use balanced and debt funds to optimise taxable interest

File ITR, claim deductions, and plan redemptions to control tax incidence

This keeps tax bite minimal and saves more for your goals.

15. Monitoring & Rebalancing
Review portfolio performance and fund objectives every six months

Rebalance asset mix when any category drifts >5%

Stop or shift under-performing funds after review

Avoid knee-jerk reactions—stay thought-through

CFP guidance ensures structured portfolio management

Consistent monitoring protects you from drift and decay.

16. Asset Creation vs Real Estate
You didn’t mention owning other real estate. But goal stated flat purchase may fit as goals.

However, central financial focus is investing in financial assets:

Equity, hybrid, and debt instruments remain central

Property can be considered separately once you hold large financial corpus

Keeping financial assets liquid allows better flexibility

Avoid overloading liquidity for real estate purchases

Enhancing financial assets comes first—it empowers freedom and choice.

17. Lifestyle & Support
Your surplus income supports lifestyle well.

Avoid big-ticket impulsive spending

Use value-based spending for travel, family events

Invest in skills or certification to grow income

Create additional income streams (freelance, side projects)

This increases your saving ability further

Lifestyle and income both support your wealth journey.

18. Succession & Estate Planning
With a baby on the way, important to secure your legacy:

Ensure you have proper nomination for all investments

Create a will or simplified estate plan

Appoint guardians, trustees as needed

This ensures smooth wealth transfer and peace of mind

These administrative steps protect your family and planning.

19. Roadmap Execution Timeline
Prioritize and allocate baby fund in short-term debt

Shift index and sectoral funds gradually to active funds

Structure SIP allocation for retirement and hybrid safety

Purchase insurance soon for protection

Continue EMI; use part payment only if surplus

Post-EMI, increase SIP allocation with added liquidity

Review portfolio semi-annually for performance and rebalance

Plan for education/long-term goals via systematic planning

Keep emergency reserve intact and live beneath means

Write a will and estate file once baby arrives

Stay consistent with your 5-lakh monthly allocation. The structure supports multiple goals.

Final Insights
Your income and savings are robust—very encouraging

Shift towards active, goal-based funds guided by CFP

Maintain discipline in EMI, insurance, and liquidity

Create dedicated buckets for family and retirement

Monitor and rebalance regularly, not reactively

Invest in yourself and grow income to amplify wealth

Be flexible—adjust plans as baby's arrival and life shifts

This structured 360-degree approach balances family, future, and financial freedom.

Best Regards,
K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,
Chief Financial Planner,
www.holisticinvestment.in
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Asked by Anonymous - Jun 13, 2025

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Sir,i got rank of crl of 25000 in jee advance,71000 rank in jee mains and i am from andhra pradesh(home state) and i am an ews candidate and i got amrita coimbatore cse in 4th category,pes rr campus cse core,2300 rank in ap eamcet so i will get vit,srm (amaravathi campuses) free seat(except hostel),comedk rank of 7800, Pes cancelation last date july 7 i.e before round 5,6 in josaa (And i am trying bitsat second attempt after scoring 184 marks in 1st attempt) Can i wait till josaa5,6 or prefer other colleges? Please suggest me sir!

Ans: Hello dear
Wait for JosAA 5 and 6, as well as for the 2nd attempt of BITSAT. Based on the mentioned scores from JEE Advanced and your category, the chances of gaining admission to good colleges are moderate to slim. With your COMEDK rank, there are opportunities to secure a seat in a good college with a decent branch. According to the information you provided, here is the preferred order: (1) CSE @ SRM (2) RR Campus (3) VIT (4) PES
Best of luck to you.
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Question by Mallikarjuna - Jun 13, 2025

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Dear sir My daughter has chances of getting seat in RVITM for Information Science and ECE(VLSI) in BIT. Which one is better amongst two

Ans: Hello Mallikarjuna
You did not mention any details about the entrance exam and score/rank, so I am unable to suggest appropriately. However, I recommend ECE (VLSI) @ BIT if it is offered to your daughter.
Best of luck to you.
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Asked by Anonymous - Jun 10, 2025

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Integrated M Tech in Software Engineering or B Tech Electrical and CSE with Minor AI & ML (Both from VIT Chennai) - Which one to choose for better career options?

Ans: Both the Integrated M.Tech in Software Engineering and B.Tech Electrical and CSE with Minor in AI & ML at VIT Chennai offer strong academic and placement prospects, but they serve different career goals. The Integrated M.Tech in Software Engineering is a five-year program with about 70% placement rate, focusing on deep software engineering skills and providing a direct pathway to advanced roles in the IT sector, but it limits flexibility if you wish to switch fields later. The B.Tech Electrical and CSE with Minor in AI & ML is a four-year program, nearly 90% of students are placed, and it offers broader exposure to both core engineering and software, with the added advantage of specialization in high-demand AI/ML domains. Both programs benefit from VIT Chennai’s strong placement ecosystem, with top recruiters like Microsoft, Amazon, and Qualcomm, and average placement rates above 80% in recent years. The B.Tech with CSE and AI/ML minor provides more flexibility, industry relevance, and better prospects for diverse roles in both software and technology sectors, making it the preferable choice for most students seeking strong career options in a rapidly evolving job market. All the BEST for the Admission & a Prosperous Future!

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