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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Jun 08, 2022
Dear GP,
A healthy relationship is one where both individuals help each other grow and thrive.
Pointing out the other’s inadequacies can be detrimental to their emotional health.
You keep walking on egg shells around her and have started to keep things away from her for fear of her rebuke and complaints.
How is this healthy when you can’t share your thoughts with your partner? This will become a habit and not a very good one for sure.
Also, age does not define whether one can boss around or not.
She certainly maybe right in most cases, but there is a way to convey the same thing to you.
Love and calmness in communication can actually transform everything and everyone provided the intent is there.
Marriage under these circumstances can be stressful for you.
So I do suggest that the two of you have an honest talk and when she knows how you feel and how keeping things away from her has become your coping mechanism, I do feel she might be able to see the situation in a new light.
Also, things that you might have misinterpreted about her may also surface.
So, please have that necessary talk without wasting anymore time. It will give you good perspectives to work from.
All the best!
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