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Mohit Arora is a relationship coach, image consultant, soft skills trainer and the founder of Real Dating School. He has a BTech degree in computer science from the Rayat & Bahra Institute of Engineering and Biotechnology, Mohali, Punjab. He has been conducting customised skilling and communication workshops since 2014.... more
Asked by Anonymous - Jun 29, 2024Hindi
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Sir , Honestly I'm aa merit student ...I scored 95.1 percent in boards , 94 percentile in jee main and around 70 marks in jee advanced....Honestly sir career is going good....But sir , Coming to my relationship I've aa girlfriend ....She is also aa merit ....She scored the same percent in studies just like Mee...We've been in relation for 1 and half year from my 11 th class onwards....As 12 th is ending up boards mains and adv exams coming up ....There has been distance ...Like her parents were strict ...So I couldn't get time....I felt like she is ignoring me for her career ...but honestly sir she didn't think abt Mee....She always think abt only her career....So fights and all....But we use to get close again after every fight....But She behaved strange like she was done , when fights were going on....and she left Mee 2 days...just because of problems going on with me in my tough times....She left me like anything....I did love her soo muchh and she betrayed Mee...I'm soo much depressed I just want her to come back for Mee...but she doesn't.....because she never loved not even aa drop of tear...she told me this that she doesn't need to cry because she don't love me anymore....Sir how do they just leave like that....Girls In the society are like this rn....I'm soo muchh stressed and depressed sir....What do u say sir ?

Ans: She has more options that you have. She is getting constantly hit up by other guys. Don't blame the girl. Get better and get more options

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I understand the appeal of trying once again, starting over. The relationship you shared with her was comfortable and familiar. We are all drawn to comfort and familiarity. But, are you sure she is still the person you fell in love with? It's been some time since you two have been together. People grow, and change. If you do want to give it another try, I suggest meeting up in person or spending enough time together to understand if you two are still compatible. Next, she has left you once for her family; while we understand the pressure, the reality is still the reality- she chose her family over you. You should discuss the matter before getting into the relationship once more. Even if you successfully start over, it would be naive to expect things to be just as they were before- some things will be better and some different. Go ahead only after you acknowledge all of these.

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Dr. Shyam, I had my teeth cleaned 6 months ago and after that was done I saw discoloration on certain teeth that wasn't there before. Years ago I had my teeth cleaned and one particular tooth after the cleaning was sensitive to touch. I had a crown put in from two different dental offices. The first one did the crown right, but was trying to charge me $3,500 more than the agreement they made with Medicare. Medicare corrected that. I other dentist did a crown and it didn't go all the way up to my gums and is sensitive to especially cold things. I'm not having very good experiences with dentist by and large. Can't find an honest one or one that can actually do the job right. I feel being on Medicare your a target to bring in money. Not sure what to do next. Supposed to go back and have them redo the crown that didn't go to my gums, but it also was ttd place to didn't clean my teeth right and discolored some of them. Any suggestions on how to trust there is actually an capable and honest dentist out there who can perform properly?
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1. Ask for referrals: Ask friends, family, or coworkers for recommendations. They can provide valuable insights into a dentist's work quality and bedside manner.

2. Check credentials: Ensure the dentist has the necessary qualifications, certifications, and licenses. You can verify this information with your state's dental board or professional organizations like the American Dental Association (ADA).

3. Check online reviews: Look up the dentist on review platforms. Pay attention to the overall rating and read the comments to understand the strengths and weaknesses. At the same time, do not rely on reviews alone as these can be manipulated, fake reviews can be easily generated.

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8. Trust your instincts: If something feels off or you don't click with the dentist, it's okay to explore other options.

10. Schedule a consultation: Many dentists offer initial consultations or meet-and-greets. Use this opportunity to assess their approach, ask questions, and gauge your comfort level.

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