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Asked by Anonymous - Jun 29, 2024Hindi
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Sir , Honestly I'm aa merit student ...I scored 95.1 percent in boards , 94 percentile in jee main and around 70 marks in jee advanced....Honestly sir career is going good....But sir , Coming to my relationship I've aa girlfriend ....She is also aa merit ....She scored the same percent in studies just like Mee...We've been in relation for 1 and half year from my 11 th class onwards....As 12 th is ending up boards mains and adv exams coming up ....There has been distance ...Like her parents were strict ...So I couldn't get time....I felt like she is ignoring me for her career ...but honestly sir she didn't think abt Mee....She always think abt only her career....So fights and all....But we use to get close again after every fight....But She behaved strange like she was done , when fights were going on....and she left Mee 2 days...just because of problems going on with me in my tough times....She left me like anything....I did love her soo muchh and she betrayed Mee...I'm soo much depressed I just want her to come back for Mee...but she doesn't.....because she never loved not even aa drop of tear...she told me this that she doesn't need to cry because she don't love me anymore....Sir how do they just leave like that....Girls In the society are like this rn....I'm soo muchh stressed and depressed sir....What do u say sir ?

Ans: She has more options that you have. She is getting constantly hit up by other guys. Don't blame the girl. Get better and get more options

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I understand the appeal of trying once again, starting over. The relationship you shared with her was comfortable and familiar. We are all drawn to comfort and familiarity. But, are you sure she is still the person you fell in love with? It's been some time since you two have been together. People grow, and change. If you do want to give it another try, I suggest meeting up in person or spending enough time together to understand if you two are still compatible. Next, she has left you once for her family; while we understand the pressure, the reality is still the reality- she chose her family over you. You should discuss the matter before getting into the relationship once more. Even if you successfully start over, it would be naive to expect things to be just as they were before- some things will be better and some different. Go ahead only after you acknowledge all of these.

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I am 21 year old female, doing my graduation in zoology from a central university. And I am in my 3rd year now. But I am still having doubts on which direction should I go for after graduation. I don't have any interest in higher studies. And I am afraid that if i won't get a government job then i will regret leaving my studies after graduation. I don't have any other skills beside drawing good portraits. I have already tried to sell my portraits but that was also a failure because of bad marketing . I have self esteem issues, bad communication skills. And though i score good marks in exams but these are just bookish knowledge which i just forget after attempting exams. I want to do a job but don't know which direction to go or how to prepare myself. Please give me some advice on how to build my career, develop a better personality.
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