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Asked by Anonymous - Apr 07, 2025
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My fiance and I used to be so close when we were dating. We used to talk for hours, cuddle, and laugh so much. We recently decided to move in so we could spend more time together. But now, even when we're together, it feels like we're just roommates. I miss that spark. Is this normal? And how do we bring it back without forcing it?

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Familiarity breeds contempt! When you were dating and away from one another, there was a part of each of you that waited for the excitement of seeing one another again, surprising each other, laughing, talking...now, you live under one roof, obviously you did know that a bit of that fun and spark will go missing, didn't you?
Try to recreate the dating scene now...keep some space from each other to keep the mystery alive!

All the best!
Anu Krishna
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We have been married for two years and in loving relationship before that for two years. My problem is that the love has changed. My husband is no longer the same kind of romantic person. He loves me, he says I love you but the romance is missing. We both work and when we reach home all kinds of practical talks only happens. He is thoughtful, shares the housework, looks after all my needs but I really miss the romantic part that was there earlier and sometimes it makes me irritated and rude. I have tried telling him but he says love changes with time, we are married now and responsible for ourselves. My sister thinks I am being silly but I don’t agree. Why should we have to give up romance? Isn’t it an important part of our life?
Ans: Hi. I understand your frustration. It's completely natural to miss the early stage of romantic intensity in a long-term relationship.

And you're right, romance is an important part of a healthy marriage. It's perfectly valid to want to reignite that spark.

Here are some steps you can take to help your husband understand your concerns:

Communicate effectively

Focus on feelings, not accusations: Instead of saying "You're not romantic anymore!", share how his lack of romantic gestures makes you feel -- unloved, unappreciated, disconnected, unhappy, lonely, ...

Use "I" statements: Express your desire for more romance using phrases like "I would really appreciate it if...." or "I miss when we used to...." so that he does not feel he has to defend himself.

Actively listen to his perspective: Try to understand why he sees things differently. Perhaps work stress is affecting him or he does not know how to express his love differently.

Choose the right time and place: Avoid bringing it up when you're both tired or stressed. Pick a calm moment for a sincere conversation.

Brainstorm together

Instead of demanding specific gestures, discuss what "romance" means to both of you and brainstorm different ways he can express his love that resonate with you.

Schedule "romance time"

Block out dedicated time for romantic activities, even if it's just 30 minutes a week. Take turns planning dates, trying new things or revisiting activities you enjoyed earlier.

Acknowledge his efforts

Appreciate his non-romantic actions that show he cares, like sharing housework. Let him know these actions contribute to your overall feeling of love and security.

Consider professional help

If communication becomes difficult or you struggle to find common ground, consider seeking couples therapy. A therapist can provide a safe space for you both to express your needs and work towards solutions.

You’d get professional help when you are unwell or to file your taxes for example. Why not try it here as well if needed?

Remember:

Love evolves: While the initial passion may change, a deep and meaningful love can grow stronger over time. Focus on nurturing that deeper connection alongside rekindling romantic gestures.

It's a two-way street: Be willing to put in effort as well. Show your appreciation for him, plan romantic gestures for him and be open to his ideas for expressing love.

Be patient: Rebuilding romance takes time and consistent effort. Celebrate small victories and focus on the progress you make together.

Your sister might not fully understand your perspective but your feelings are valid. Don't give up on the romance; instead, find new ways to keep it alive in your marriage.

All the best.

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Asked by Anonymous - Aug 15, 2024Hindi
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My husband stopped being intimate with me after the birth of our second son. We have been married for 11 years but all we ever talk about is related to our children, their academics, and future. I have tried to speak to my husband about this but he feels everything is normal. We live in a 2BHK apartment in Pune. My mother-in-law visits us sometimes and she doesn't like me. But I am cordial with her. My husband never discusses his work or personal stuff with me. There is no love or intimacy between us. He takes care of all other needs of the house and my children. Is this normal? Am I worrying too much? Please help
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
You are right when you worry about the way things are between you and your husband. Obviously sexual intimacy is one of the pillars for a strong marriage (and not the only pillar). And you have noticed that this intimacy has stopped after the birth of your second child.
Now, one way of looking at it is that many couples get drained in responsibilities of raising babies and building the family and this means sex can be off the table for a long long time. Is this the same with the two of you as well?
OR
It can also be that many people use sex simply as means to have children (reproduce) and not as an activity to be indulged in other than for bringing children into the world. Is your husband one of those people?
OR
When you say there is no love and intimacy between the two of you, surely this could be another reason as both of you have not bothered to take out time for yourselves where you brought in the element of trust, care, affection, love...this is the basis for other forms of intimacy as well.
Work on this better...try and become each other's friend first...he need not just assume the role of a provider and take it on so seriously that he forgets that there is a wife that needs his care. At the same time, do not insist on sex till you also make an effort to bring him into a space where he sees you as his friend and starts to trust you...

What happens in the bedroom, starts first outside the bedroom with small gestures like laughing, watching movies together, cooking, holding hands...don't jump into sex instantly...wait...be patient...

All the best!
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Asked by Anonymous - Sep 01, 2024
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I am a 27 year old female. I am dating a guy for 10+ years, we have become too casual about each other. Its like our relationship has lost the spark after we left college. We are dragging our relationship just because we both arent ready to put efforts in finding new partners. Whenever we meet, we cuddle and sleep and havent had sex since last 2 years. Emotionally we are too close but physical intimacy is kindof lost. Since its time to get married. I am still unsure whether he as of now is the one for lifetime. Should we venture for new partners respectively or are we the one for each other. Please Suggest.
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
If you have to ask "Are we the one for each other?" something must be going really wrong in the relationship. Moreover, you also mentioned dragging it, so reconsidering the relationship can't hurt. There is another option- you can try couple's therapy and get to the bottom of this detachment. It can be time; it happens to many long-term couples. Nothing comes without effort- you will have to work on it every day and explore new things to bring back the spark. If you don't want to let go of this relationship, try these suggestions. But to continue lugging it because this relationship is all too familiar and comfortable now is not the right decision. If it's okay with both of you, take a break and venture out for new partners. See how things pan out. The choice is yours. The only thing that I can confirm is that at this point, you should not rush into getting married and focus on sorting things out first.

Best Wishes.

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Asked by Anonymous - Nov 30, 2024Hindi
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I am married from last 5 yrs and have baby of 4 months old. My husband is very nice, takes good care of us, helps me in household chores. But I feel the spark of our relationship missing. I don't feel connection after the birth of baby. This is not from his side..but I don't know what is lacking, why I am feeling this way. I haven't discussed this with him as I feel he will get hurt. We do talk daily about baby and his work, whenever he tried to talk about me, I subconsciously switch topic. I feel frustrated with myself.
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
This isn't new to those couples who have just had a baby. Life changes a LOT once the baby arrives; everything starts to become about the baby. Your life revolves around the child and even routines start to sync with the baby.
The couple's primary role becomes one of mother and father and somewhere the role of wife and husband dulls away and before you know it can vanish causing small and big rifts within the marriage.
The key is to remember your roles as wife and husband and that in itself will keep the spark alive. Just because you have had the baby, does not mean you forget what it is to be with your husband/wife.

Firstly, try and see if you can get some help during the day so that household chores are taken care of and you have some time for yourself. Pamper yourself with whatever you want to; a cup of tea, reading a book, calling your friends over...if any female relative can actually baby-sit over the weekend for a few hours, then you and your husband can plan a small thing together. Now, it maybe difficult to choose the time as the baby is just 4 months old, but make do with whatever time that you have. Slowly, you will learn how to navigate things with the baby...it's a learning ground and nobody has prepared you for it BUT it gets better with time only because you get smarter at understanding how to utilize time better and make the most of it.
And whatever time that you spend, bring back the courtship days, your dating moments back and oh yes, choose your best dress/outfit...it makes a lot of difference to the mind and the way you see yourself. Be patient...it gets better...

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My partner and I have been married for 5 years. Lately, I’ve been feeling lonely in my marriage. My partner and I barely talk, and it feels like we’re just coexisting. How can I bring back the emotional connection and intimacy without making it seem like I’m blaming them for the distance?
Ans: Start by creating opportunities for meaningful interaction. Sometimes the daily routines and responsibilities can create emotional walls, so finding a calm and positive environment for conversation is key. You might begin by sharing your feelings in a way that emphasizes your own experience rather than pointing out what your partner might not be doing. For example, saying something like, "I've been feeling a little disconnected lately, and I miss the closeness we used to share," opens the door for dialogue without sounding accusatory.

Rekindling intimacy often starts with small, intentional efforts to reestablish connection. This might mean setting aside time for each other, even if it’s just a few minutes of uninterrupted conversation at the end of the day. Look for moments to express appreciation for your partner, as this can help rebuild emotional warmth and remind them of the value they bring to your life.

It’s also worth reflecting on whether external stresses might be contributing to the distance. If either of you has been overwhelmed by work, family, or personal challenges, addressing those together can foster a sense of partnership and mutual support. Similarly, revisiting shared memories or engaging in activities you used to enjoy together can help reignite the bond you once had.

Lastly, be patient and consistent. Emotional intimacy doesn’t always come back instantly, but with genuine effort, kindness, and an open heart, you can rebuild the connection over time. Consider it a journey you’re embarking on together, rather than something you need to fix alone. If you feel like external guidance might help, discussing this with a couples therapist could provide both of you with tools to strengthen your relationship in a supportive environment.

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Hi sir, i am employee and age 39. I have 1. Home loan 62 L, tenure 240 months EMIs and 50k emi just stared from May-2025 and 2.home loan 11.8L, tenure 84 months EMIs and 19k emi. My monthly income in hand 1.06k. My PPF having 1L, Sukanya Samurdhi 2.2L, NPS having 21.8 L, SIP started with 10k per month from Aug-24 and equity having 1.5L. Family property received 10 acre dry land and 1 L per annum is coming. And i purchased 3 plots with 33L now worth 75L with earlier savings and PL i.e. all before 2017. Tel me better management of loans and savings. My retirement is April-2046, my son 7th class and daughter 1st class.
Ans: You are managing multiple loans and investments. Now let's work on a complete 360-degree solution for better financial management.

Understanding Your Current Financial Situation
– You are 39 years old with retirement in April 2046.
– You earn Rs 1.06 lakh monthly, which is a decent income.
– Your home loan is Rs 62 lakh with Rs 50,000 EMI for 20 years.
– You also have another home loan of Rs 11.8 lakh with Rs 19,000 EMI for 7 years.
– Your total EMI burden is Rs 69,000 monthly.

– PPF balance is Rs 1 lakh and Sukanya Samriddhi is Rs 2.2 lakh.
– You have Rs 21.8 lakh in NPS.
– Equity investments are around Rs 1.5 lakh.
– A SIP of Rs 10,000 started recently, which is a good step.
– You receive Rs 1 lakh yearly income from dry land.
– You also hold 3 plots now valued at Rs 75 lakh.

Your family consists of your spouse, son in 7th class, and daughter in 1st class.

Assessing Your Current Cash Flow
– Total EMI is Rs 69,000 out of Rs 1.06 lakh income.
– This leaves you with only around Rs 37,000 for all other expenses.

If your monthly expenses are higher, your savings will suffer.
So, your loans are eating a big part of your income now.

Analysing the Home Loans in Detail
Home Loan 1: Rs 62 Lakh, 240 Months
– EMI started in May 2025, EMI is Rs 50,000.
– This is a long-term loan, so interest outgo is large.

Home Loan 2: Rs 11.8 Lakh, 84 Months
– EMI is Rs 19,000, with 7-year tenure.
– This is a smaller and shorter loan.

Which Loan to Prepay First?
– Always prepay the small loan first.
– Prepay the Rs 11.8 lakh loan faster.
– This will free up Rs 19,000 EMI within 3 to 4 years.
– After clearing it, you can focus on the bigger loan.

Managing Investments and Loans Simultaneously
Don’t stop all your investments to pay loans.
But also don’t invest heavily while loans are pending.

Split your surplus cash wisely:

– Use part of your dry land income to prepay the small home loan.
– Use any yearly bonuses and incentives for loan prepayment.
– Don’t use equity or PPF for loan repayment now.

Your SIP of Rs 10,000 should continue.
This builds wealth for long-term goals.

Building Your Emergency Fund First
Before prepaying loans, build an emergency fund.
Keep at least 6 months of household expenses.

Park this in a liquid mutual fund or sweep-in FD.

This gives financial protection during job loss or medical issues.

Reviewing Your Insurance Cover
Check if you have pure term life insurance.
If not, buy it immediately for Rs 75 lakh to Rs 1 crore.

This will protect your family during your loan tenure.

Don’t mix insurance with investments like ULIPs.
Buy health insurance for the full family if not done yet.

Managing Existing Investments Wisely
– PPF and Sukanya are for long-term goals. Continue them yearly.
– NPS will support your retirement. Don't withdraw it early.
– Equity holding is small. Don't sell it now. Let it grow.

Your SIP of Rs 10,000 is a good start.
Keep increasing it by 10% every year.

Don’t stop mutual fund SIPs while paying loans.
You need both loan clearance and wealth creation together.

Avoiding Real Estate as an Investment
Your 3 plots have grown in value from Rs 33 lakh to Rs 75 lakh.
But plots don’t give regular income.

If you plan to use them for selling later, it is fine.
But don’t buy new plots for investment.

Real estate is illiquid and takes time to sell.
Also, managing dry land is not a consistent income source.

Future savings should focus on mutual funds, not plots or land.

Making Use of Dry Land Income
The Rs 1 lakh yearly income from land is helpful.

Use this income as below:

– 50% towards emergency fund and loan prepayment.
– 50% towards child’s future or your SIP top-up.

This way your passive income is also working for your goals.

Children’s Education Planning
Your son is in 7th class. Daughter in 1st class.

Their higher education will cost more in 7 to 10 years.

Start separate SIPs for their college education.
Allocate at least Rs 5,000 to Rs 7,500 for each child’s goal.

Mutual funds help beat inflation over the long term.

Don’t rely on Sukanya Samriddhi alone for your daughter.
It is safe but offers lower growth compared to equity mutual funds.

Retirement Planning Perspective
Your retirement is 21 years away in 2046.

NPS corpus is building well. Continue regular contributions.

Along with NPS, grow your equity mutual fund investments.
They will give higher growth in your working years.

Later, shift to balanced funds closer to retirement.

Cash Flow Management Month by Month
Your cash flow is tight due to high EMIs.

Try this plan:

– Household and lifestyle expenses: Rs 30,000 to Rs 35,000.
– EMIs: Rs 69,000.
– SIPs: Rs 10,000.
– Emergency fund build-up: Rs 2,000 to Rs 5,000.

If expenses exceed this, cut down on lifestyle spends.
Postpone luxury buys and vacations for 3 to 4 years.

Suggested Loan Prepayment Strategy Timeline
Year 1 to 4:

– Build emergency fund first.
– Prepay the small home loan slowly.
– Try to clear the Rs 11.8 lakh loan in 4 years.

Year 5 onwards:

– Focus on the Rs 62 lakh loan.
– Increase prepayment using the freed Rs 19,000 EMI.
– Target to close it in 10 to 12 years instead of 20.

This reduces your debt burden before retirement.

Should You Sell the Plots?
Don’t sell them immediately unless facing a cash crunch.
Plots have appreciated well and may grow further.

But if your cash flow becomes very tight, sell one plot.
Use the sale proceeds to clear the bigger home loan partly.

Selling plots reduces your interest burden faster.

Discuss this step with a Certified Financial Planner before selling.

Future Financial Milestones to Focus On
– Build Rs 5 lakh emergency fund in 3 years.
– Clear the small home loan in 4 years.
– Increase your SIPs gradually to Rs 20,000 monthly.
– Build your children's higher education fund in 10 years.
– Clear the big home loan 5 years before retirement.
– Build a retirement corpus to cover 25 to 30 years post-retirement.

Why You Shouldn’t Pause SIPs for Loans
Some people pause SIPs to repay loans fast.
This is wrong because they lose long-term compounding.

Keep your SIPs running while prepaying loans side by side.
This balance builds both wealth and peace of mind.

Avoid Index Funds and Direct Funds
Don’t choose index funds.

– Index funds blindly follow the market.
– They don’t protect you in market crashes.
– Actively managed funds give better long-term results.

Also, avoid direct mutual funds.

– Direct funds give no expert guidance.
– You will be confused during market falls.

Instead, invest in regular funds through an MFD holding CFP credential.
They provide handholding, monitoring, and rebalancing.

This is very important for a working family man like you.

Keeping a Long-Term View
Don’t get stressed by your present EMI load.
In 3 to 5 years, your cash flow will ease.

Your children’s education, your retirement, and a debt-free life are achievable.
Stay disciplined and avoid distractions like real estate investments.

Finally
Your financial journey has good foundations already.
Two things need improvement now. First, your high loan burden. Second, consistent wealth creation.

Take these steps next:

– Focus first on clearing the small home loan in 4 years.
– Continue SIPs and grow them over time.
– Avoid any more real estate purchases.
– Use dry land income wisely for wealth building and debt clearing.
– Review your plan yearly with a Certified Financial Planner.

In the long term, you will achieve both debt freedom and wealth growth.

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K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,

Chief Financial Planner,

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Asked by Anonymous - Jun 30, 2025Hindi
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Planning to retire now at age of 50. My assets are 65L in PF,60L in PPF. 20L IN SSA, NPS 24L, ICICI PRU pension 13L, lic jeevan shanthi 14L, FD 100L. My monthly expenses 75000 Real estate woth 100L. NO Liabilities.
Ans: Planning retirement at age 50 is a bold move. You have built assets carefully. Now the focus should be on income, sustainability, and safety.

Let’s assess your financial position from all angles. I will explain in a simple and step-by-step manner.

Your Retirement Goal and Key Considerations
– You are 50 years old and wish to retire now.
– Monthly expenses are Rs. 75,000. That is Rs. 9 lakhs yearly.
– You may live 35+ years post-retirement.
– Your funds must last till 85–90 years of age.
– Inflation will reduce value of Rs. 75,000 over time.

You need income that grows every year. Fixed income is not enough.

Total Financial Assets at Present
Let us list your liquid and financial assets.

– PF: Rs. 65 lakhs
– PPF: Rs. 60 lakhs
– SSA: Rs. 20 lakhs
– NPS: Rs. 24 lakhs
– ICICI PRU Pension: Rs. 13 lakhs
– LIC Jeevan Shanti: Rs. 14 lakhs
– Fixed Deposits: Rs. 100 lakhs

This totals to Rs. 296 lakhs or Rs. 2.96 crores.

This is a solid foundation. You’ve done well.

Real Estate – Not a Retirement Resource
– You mentioned real estate worth Rs. 100 lakhs.
– But it is not liquid. It cannot give you monthly income.
– It is not counted as part of retirement corpus.
– Only consider it if you plan to sell or rent it.

Avoid counting real estate as your retirement support.

EPF – Solid but Withdrawal Must Be Planned
– Your PF amount is Rs. 65 lakhs.
– It is a great long-term resource.
– It earns interest but reduces after retirement.
– Withdraw slowly. Don’t touch entire amount.
– Use this only for medium-term income needs.

Don’t keep it idle. Also don’t exhaust it fast.

PPF – Safe and Tax-Free, But Not Liquid
– You have Rs. 60 lakhs in PPF.
– It gives safe and tax-free returns.
– But it has withdrawal limits.
– You can use partial withdrawals yearly.

Use this for your tax-free income ladder later.

SSA – For Daughter’s Future, Not Retirement
– You have Rs. 20 lakhs in Sukanya Samriddhi Account.
– This is strictly for daughter’s future.
– It matures when she turns 21.
– Don’t use this for retirement.

This is a separate goal and cannot support monthly income.

NPS – Locked Till 60
– Your NPS corpus is Rs. 24 lakhs.
– You cannot withdraw full amount now.
– Only 20% is allowed before age 60.
– Rest 80% must be converted later.

Don’t plan income from NPS immediately. Consider it post age 60.

ICICI PRU Pension – Low Liquidity, Limited Growth
– You have Rs. 13 lakhs in pension product.
– Liquidity and returns are usually limited.
– Review surrender value and charges.
– You may consider surrender if it’s past lock-in.
– Shift to flexible mutual fund-based retirement solution.

Insurance-pension products underperform compared to mutual funds.

LIC Jeevan Shanti – Income Unclear
– Rs. 14 lakhs is locked in LIC Jeevan Shanti.
– It is an annuity-type product.
– Low flexibility and low income.
– You cannot exit or restructure easily.

Continue taking income from it, but don’t invest further.

Fixed Deposits – Too Much Allocation
– You have Rs. 100 lakhs in fixed deposits.
– This is a very high portion in debt.
– FD interest is taxable.
– FD returns rarely beat inflation.
– Long-term money must grow better.

Reduce FD allocation over time. Shift some to mutual funds for growth.

Monthly Expense of Rs. 75,000 – Will Keep Rising
– Today it is Rs. 75,000 monthly.
– In 10 years, it may become Rs. 1.4 lakhs.
– In 20 years, may cross Rs. 2.5 lakhs monthly.
– Your retirement income must grow to match this.

Don’t build a flat income plan. Build a growing income plan.

Safe Withdrawal Strategy is Key
– Withdraw only what you need each year.
– Don’t break all accounts in one go.
– Create three buckets: short-term, medium, long-term.

Short-term (next 3 years):
– Use FD and small withdrawals from PF/PPF.

Medium-term (4 to 10 years):
– Use balanced and hybrid mutual funds.

Long-term (beyond 10 years):
– Use equity mutual funds for growth.
– These will support you from age 60 onwards.

You Should Build Mutual Fund Corpus Now
– You have not mentioned mutual funds yet.
– That’s a gap in your retirement mix.
– Mutual funds give flexible, inflation-beating growth.
– Use SWP method for monthly income.

Shift some FD into mutual funds. Plan with Certified Financial Planner.

Do Not Consider Index Funds
– Index funds just copy the market.
– They don’t protect during market falls.
– Active funds manage volatility better.
– You need dependable income and not market-linked surprises.

Avoid index funds. Use actively managed mutual funds only.

Direct Mutual Funds – Avoid if Used
– If you invest in direct plans, you get no support.
– Mistakes in fund choice and timing hurt returns.
– Use regular plans with a Certified Financial Planner.
– You get monitoring, advice, and emotional support.

Regular plan with CFP adds long-term value and peace of mind.

Retirement Plan Must Be Reviewed Yearly
– Inflation and market performance keep changing.
– Track your spending and income every year.
– Rebalance your investment mix with expert help.
– Avoid over-withdrawing in early years.

Retirement is not one-time event. It needs yearly tuning.

Emergency Buffer Must Be Separate
– Keep 12 months of expenses in ultra-safe assets.
– Use short-term FD, liquid mutual fund, or sweep account.
– This protects you during any income gap or emergency.

Emergency funds must not be mixed with long-term plans.

Tax Planning Will Impact Real Returns
– FD interest is fully taxable.
– PPF and EPF are tax-free.
– Mutual fund capital gains are taxed:

LTCG above Rs. 1.25 lakh at 12.5%

STCG at 20%
– Plan withdrawal to reduce tax every year.

Tax planning will increase your real income over 35+ years.

Protection Planning Must Be in Place
– Check health insurance cover.
– Should be minimum Rs. 20–25 lakhs.
– Add super top-up if needed.
– Review if you still need life insurance.

Medical cost is one big threat in retirement.

Real Estate – Keep It for Peace of Mind Only
– Don’t count property in your retirement plan.
– It gives no income unless rented.
– Selling it may take time and has tax issues.
– Keep it as fallback or asset transfer to children.

Real estate is not liquid or income-friendly. Keep expectations realistic.

Your Plan is Almost There – Few Gaps Remain
– You have good corpus.
– You have no liabilities.
– You are not investing in mutual funds – that’s a gap.
– FD is over-used. Needs partial shift.
– You are not factoring inflation yet.
– Your insurance-linked plans restrict liquidity.

With some tuning, you can retire securely now.

Finally
– You have saved wisely across multiple assets.
– You have no debt, which is a strength.
– Monthly income of Rs. 75,000 is possible.
– But it must grow every few years.
– Don’t depend only on FDs or pensions.
– Use mutual funds for growth and flexibility.
– Avoid index funds and direct funds.
– Keep PPF, PF, NPS for future income stages.
– Review plan every year with Certified Financial Planner.
– Keep healthcare and emergency fund active.

Retirement at 50 is possible. But requires disciplined management ahead.

Best Regards,
K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,
Chief Financial Planner,
www.holisticinvestment.in
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Mutual Funds, Financial Planning Expert - Answered on Jul 10, 2025

Asked by Anonymous - Jun 30, 2025Hindi
Money
I am a 36 year old, have a dependent wife and recently switched my job with 17000 to 37000. In 37000 I have to pay 10000 food and other expenses,and 10000 rent. My savings is hardly any as all goes in emi and still few I am unable to pay for past 5 months.Recently got married in December and having personal loan of 170000, 40000,40000, 230000 and gold loans of 550000. I lost my savings and got into debt because of losing money in stock trading. I lost around 7 lakhs. 230000 personal loan is for a period of 5 years and already paid 1.5 yrs, rest personal loan are through app and for short period. For the past 5 months I am unable to pay them any installment and asked them for grace period and waiver and also one time settlement with time. I am in great stress and I don't know how to come out of it. I need your suggestion. If you need any more info for better understanding please let me know.
Ans: Understanding Your Current Situation
– You are 36 years old
– Your monthly income is now Rs. 37,000
– Expenses for food and rent come to Rs. 20,000
– That leaves Rs. 17,000 before any loan payments

– You have gold loans worth Rs. 5.5 lakh
– You have multiple personal loans totalling Rs. 4.8 lakh
– So total outstanding loan is nearly Rs. 10.3 lakh

– For past 5 months, you are unable to pay some EMIs
– Your savings have been wiped out due to stock trading losses

– You are newly married and have a dependent spouse
– Emotional stress is very natural in this phase
– But please know, this is a temporary phase

– With structured steps, you can recover

First Steps You Must Take Now
– Do not panic or feel alone
– Financial struggles happen to many, recovery is always possible

– Stop any form of stock market activity
– Do not trade or invest until your debt is cleared

– Make your spouse aware of the situation
– Transparency will reduce pressure on you

– Write down all your loans with amount, lender name, and EMI amount
– Prioritise loans with high interest or legal risk

– App-based loans often charge high interest and penalties
– These can grow fast if not handled on time

– Keep all communication with these app lenders in writing
– Always email them or talk through the official app chat
– Do not speak with recovery agents unofficially or under pressure

Segregate Loans by Nature
Gold Loan
– Amount: Rs. 5.5 lakh
– It is secured loan. Your gold is the collateral
– This should be prioritised after legal loans

– Try not to default for long, or you may lose the pledged gold

– But this can be handled slightly later than app loans

Personal Loans through Banks/NBFC
– Rs. 2.3 lakh loan with 3.5 years left
– Plus other loans of Rs. 1.7 lakh and Rs. 40,000 each

– Bank/NBFC loans are structured and regulated
– Speak with these lenders and request restructuring or settlement

– Show proof of income drop and recent marriage
– Some may allow EMI deferment or lower EMI

– Avoid taking new loans to repay these

App-Based Loans
– These loans usually carry very high rates
– They may harass you with calls and messages

– Email their customer care and request a one-time settlement
– Explain that your income is limited and you are willing to pay in parts

– Take screenshots of your emails or chats for record
– Do not accept verbal promises

– If they threaten or misuse your contact list, you can file a police complaint
– Harassment by digital lenders is now punishable

Restructure or Close Loans One by One
– Focus on settling one loan at a time
– Start with smallest or high-stress app loans
– Even if you save Rs. 3,000/month, you can close small loans in time

– Request one-time settlements for overdue loans
– Start repaying once they agree on reduced amount

– Gold loan should be addressed once unsecured loans are under control
– You can also ask gold loan provider for EMI-based repayment option

– If possible, borrow interest-free from family to close any one loan
– But do not borrow again to pay another loan unless it’s zero-interest

Household Budgeting to Create Monthly Surplus
– Right now, you have Rs. 17,000 left after rent and food
– Create a very strict budget for now
– Avoid online purchases, subscriptions, or eating out

– Set aside Rs. 10,000 monthly only for debt
– The rest can be for phone bill, transport, etc.

– Every single rupee should go into priority-based loan repayment
– In next few months, small wins will reduce your mental burden

Increase Income With Temporary Side Income
– Explore freelance, weekend work, or part-time online jobs
– Focus on skill-based extra income like tuition, typing, or delivery apps

– Even Rs. 5,000 extra monthly can fast-track your repayment

– Avoid thinking too long term for now
– Every short-term gain can ease your pressure

Credit Score and Future Access
– Right now, your credit score may be falling due to missed EMIs
– But once you repay or settle even a few loans, it starts improving

– Ask for “No Due Certificate” after each settlement or closure
– Keep all records for future reference

– Do not apply for new loans until existing ones are cleared

– In future, avoid personal loans for non-emergency needs

– Build credit again slowly with secured cards or small EMIs later

Stop All Risky Investments Now
– Do not put money in stocks, trading, or crypto
– You already faced big loss of Rs. 7 lakh
– That must not be repeated again

– Learn from it, but do not feel ashamed
– Take this phase as a valuable financial lesson

– Once stable, build long-term wealth only through proper mutual fund SIPs

– Use regular mutual funds with guidance from Certified Financial Planner

Should You Use Direct Mutual Funds Later?
– Direct funds look cheaper, but they have no personalised help
– No one will guide you during market fall or life changes

– You may stop SIP in panic or invest in wrong category

– Regular mutual funds through a trusted Certified Financial Planner offer help
– They offer timely review, rebalancing, and goal tracking

– That makes the cost worth it and returns more steady

– So when you are ready, choose regular plan over direct

Mental Health and Family Support
– Financial stress also affects health and relationship
– Don’t hide the burden from your spouse or close family

– Explain your step-by-step plan to them
– Their emotional support can strengthen you

– Avoid social media distractions or online offers promising fast loans or trading profits

– Stay grounded, follow the basics, and focus only on clearing one loan at a time

Talk to a Certified Financial Planner
– Once your loan burden is lighter, consult a Certified Financial Planner
– They can create a full plan for your long-term goals
– They also help track expenses, risk, and savings in a realistic way

– This builds discipline and gives clear goals to work toward

– Don’t wait to become rich to seek expert help
– Expert advice early helps recover faster and smarter

Finally
Your situation may feel tough today. But it is not permanent. With patience and right steps, you can come out stronger.

Start with a clear list of loans. Focus on one closure at a time. Do not take new loans. Avoid risk investments. Control expenses. And most importantly, keep mental calm.

Remember, building wealth comes after clearing debt. And financial freedom comes only with peace of mind.

You are already on the right track by asking for help. Keep moving forward.

Best Regards,
K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,
Chief Financial Planner,
www.holisticinvestment.in
https://www.youtube.com/@HolisticInvestment

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Mutual Funds, Financial Planning Expert - Answered on Jul 10, 2025

Asked by Anonymous - Jul 10, 2025Hindi
Money
I am 54 years old and earn 300000 lakhs per month, can any nationalised bank will lend home loan to me? I haven't had any homeloan in past but now I want to purchase some small flat.
Ans: Age and Home Loan Eligibility
– You are 54 years old with Rs. 3L monthly income.
– You do not have any past home loan.
– You now want to purchase a small flat.
– Yes, nationalised banks can offer home loans to you.
– But banks will consider your current age and retirement age.
– Most banks prefer loan tenure to end by 60 or 65.
– That means you will get maximum tenure of 6 to 11 years.

Income Stability and Loan Approval
– Your salary of Rs. 3L per month is very strong.
– Banks will check if income is stable and from a salaried source.
– If you are working in a reputed firm, it helps further.
– A consistent income stream improves approval chances.

– You must provide 3 to 6 months salary slips.
– Also submit Form 16 or ITR for last 2 years.
– Banks prefer salaried profiles at your age with PF deduction.
– Pension plan or retirement corpus will not matter much in loan approval.

Loan Tenure Restrictions Due to Age
– Since you are 54, tenure will be capped.
– Most banks won’t give loans beyond age 65.
– So you will get loan tenure of 6 to 10 years only.
– Shorter tenure means higher EMI burden.

– For example, a Rs. 40L loan for 10 years may give EMI of Rs. 50K+
– You must check your monthly cash flow for this EMI comfort.

Co-Applicant Can Improve Loan Terms
– You can take the loan with your spouse or child as co-applicant.
– If your child is salaried and young, tenure can be stretched to 20 years.
– This will reduce monthly EMI pressure.
– Loan eligibility may also increase due to combined income.

– Banks allow co-owners to be co-applicants.
– But if the flat is only in your name, co-applicant must be your blood relation.

Loan Amount Banks May Offer
– Banks usually fund 75% to 80% of property value.
– Remaining 20% must be paid by you as down payment.

– If your salary is Rs. 3L monthly, eligibility may go up to Rs. 60–70L.
– But final amount depends on your age and tenure.

– EMI should not exceed 50–60% of your monthly income.
– So EMI comfort zone for you is around Rs. 1.2L to Rs. 1.5L.

Key Documents Needed
– Salary slips of past 6 months
– Bank statements of past 6 months
– Form 16 for last 2 years
– Aadhaar card and PAN card
– Property documents
– Allotment letter or agreement to sale
– Proof of own contribution (down payment amount)

– You may also be asked for PF statement or employment ID proof.
– Loan processing fee will be 0.25% to 0.5% of loan amount.

Home Loan Options for Senior Working Individuals
– Most nationalised banks allow home loans till 65 years.
– Some banks may allow till 70 years with strong co-applicant.
– If you are working in government or PSU job, approval becomes easier.
– Bank may ask for retirement letter and pension eligibility details.

– For private sector, proof of continuity of income is required.
– Your credit score should be above 750 for better interest rate.

– Banks will check if any past loan or credit card default exists.
– No existing loan makes your profile very clean.

EMI Consideration Based on Short Tenure
– At your age, EMI will be slightly higher due to short tenure.
– Avoid burdening yourself with high EMI post-retirement.
– Match EMI to your future pension or passive income.

– Do not use more than 50% of monthly income on EMI.
– Keep 20% of income for monthly investments.
– Keep another 20% for emergency savings.

– Don’t try to exhaust all savings for the down payment.
– Keep at least Rs. 5–10L aside for emergency.

Alternative to Bank Loan: Sell Idle Assets
– If you have idle assets like old land or gold, sell part of it.
– Use it for down payment or to reduce loan size.

– This helps reduce EMI burden post-retirement.
– Also avoids extra interest outgo over time.

– But avoid touching your retirement corpus or PF for this.
– That fund should be strictly for post-retirement income.

Loan Against SGB or FD Is Not Suitable
– You may feel like taking loan against FD or SGB.
– But this is not advisable for home buying.
– These loans are short-term and interest rates are high.
– Banks may not accept SGB as collateral for long-term housing loan.

Insurance Cover for Loan Protection
– Buy a term insurance that covers full home loan amount.
– It protects your family if anything happens to you.
– You can also take loan protection insurance with bank.
– Premium is higher, but it covers full loan in one go.

– Don’t combine home loan with endowment or ULIP policies.
– These give low returns and poor coverage.
– If you already have such policies, surrender and redirect into mutual funds.

You Must Avoid
– Don’t extend your loan tenure by adding risky co-borrowers.
– Don’t take top-up loan unless for planned usage.
– Don’t take personal loan to make home down payment.
– Don’t skip EMI or delay repayment at this age.
– Don’t use direct funds for investments if you are not monitoring.
– Regular funds through MFD with CFP support give better risk handling.

Better Strategy if You Plan to Retire Soon
– Calculate EMI you can manage even after retirement.
– Take loan only for that amount.
– Use rest from own savings or asset sale.
– Try to repay loan fully by age 60.

– After retirement, loan burden may impact your cash flow.
– If you don’t get pension, EMI will eat into investments.

– Plan EMI with retirement cash flow in mind.
– Keep investment SIPs and PF intact for retirement years.

Final Insights
– Yes, nationalised banks can offer home loan to you at 54.
– But loan tenure will be short due to age limit.
– EMI will be high if tenure is short.
– Prefer EMI that can continue after retirement.

– Use co-applicant if needed to get longer tenure.
– Avoid disturbing retirement corpus for down payment.
– Try to repay full loan by 60 years of age.
– Review property plan and loan strategy with a Certified Financial Planner.

Best Regards,
K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,
Chief Financial Planner,
www.holisticinvestment.in
https://www.youtube.com/@HolisticInvestment

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Career Counsellor - Answered on Jul 10, 2025

Asked by Anonymous - Jul 10, 2025Hindi
Career
Dear sir, help me choose between BITS Hyd Chemical, IIIT Vadodara IT, VIT Vellore CSE and also BITS Pilani Dubai Campus CS. Currently I have option to join any one of these. How good is BITS Pilani Dubai Campus CS for both higher studies and for job after Btech. As it is outside India I do not have any idea about it. Does it have same reputation as in India.
Ans: All four institutions excel in academics, infrastructure, research, industry engagement, and placements, offering strong employment prospects and higher?study pathways. BITS Hyderabad Chemical Engineering features rigorous process engineering labs, faculty with international publications and an 91% average placement rate (2022–24). IIIT Vadodara Information Technology delivers a cutting?edge IT curriculum, collaborations with global tech firms and 55–97% placement rates over the past three years, with a 2025 average package of INR 12 LPA. VIT Vellore CSE integrates AI/ML minors, smart classrooms, active L&T tie-ups and consistent 80–90% placements (2022–24), underpinned by NAAC A++ accreditation and a robust campus ecosystem.

BITS Pilani Dubai Campus Computer Science mirrors the Pilani curriculum in Dubai International Academic City, boasting a 90% placement rate, 7.5-month Practice School internships with 380+ industry partners and a graduate cohort with 58% international students, enriching global perspectives. KHDA-QS 5-star ratings, Forbes Middle East awards and expanding alumni in top global tech firms enable seamless master’s admissions worldwide. Its strategic Middle East location ensures diverse recruiter access and multinational networking within and beyond the UAE.

Recommendation: BITS Pilani Dubai CS for unmatched international exposure and global recruitments, VIT Vellore CSE for AI/ML integration within India’s robust placement network, BITS Hyderabad Chem Eng for specialized process engineering excellence, IIIT Vadodara IT for focused IT pedigree and competitive packages. Can prioritize BITS Dubai CS leverages its global curriculum, stellar Practice School program and international employability credentials. VIT Vellore CSE offers cutting-edge AI/ML labs, strong industry ties and consistent 85–90% placements. BITS Hyderabad Chem Eng provides world-class faculty, advanced research labs and 91% placement stability. IIIT Vadodara IT ensures specialized computing expertise, global company partnerships, and a track record of 80%+ placement rates, solidifying its status as a vibrant up-and-coming IT hub. Based on the inputs provided above & your interests, you can choose the most suitable one for you. All the BEST for Admission & a Prosperous Future!

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Mutual Funds, Financial Planning Expert - Answered on Jul 10, 2025

Asked by Anonymous - Jun 30, 2025Hindi
Money
I am 34 and my husband is 36. We have a girl child of 7 years old. We work in corporate and together we make approximately 2.75L per month. Below are our assets: 1. Flat worth 20L to 30L 2. Plot worth 40L 3. Plot worth 90L ( currently in loan of 75L) 4. Gold of 400gms 5. SGB of 2.5L in 2020 6. MF in SIP of approx 55k/month since last two years 7. Few stocks of 5L 8. Emergency fund of 20L Here's my question, My EmI goes around 131000 ( 7 years loan of 75L). We are saving on MF. Rest goes on expenses and little left out every month. We have a plan of constructing home+rental in the plot which is on loan now. This may approximately cost us 1.5crore I assume in 2.5 years. Can you please guide us the best way to achieve this with minimal loan while construction. Because I thought of changing loan emi to 30 years and save extra money for construction. however my husband prefers 7 years emi and top up while construction. Need a guidance on this. Thank you.
Ans: Family’s Financial Background
– You both are salaried and earn Rs. 2.75L monthly.
– You have a daughter aged 7.
– You hold multiple assets across real estate, gold, mutual funds, and equity.
– Current EMI is Rs. 1.31L monthly on a Rs. 75L loan.
– Your EMI takes almost 48% of income.
– Your SIPs are Rs. 55K/month, which is well-disciplined.
– Emergency fund of Rs. 20L adds strength.

Your financial habits are very solid.
The mix of real assets, liquid funds, and regular savings is well-planned.
Your challenge now is:

how to build a Rs. 1.5 crore house with less loan

how to balance your current cash flow

Let’s work through this with clear planning.

Real Estate Assets Evaluation
– You own a flat worth Rs. 20–30L.
– You own a plot worth Rs. 40L (no loan).
– Another plot worth Rs. 90L has Rs. 75L loan outstanding.

– If the flat is not self-occupied or generating rent, it’s just an idle asset.
– Consider renting it out if not already done.
– That rent can offset a small part of future home construction EMI.

– The plot with Rs. 75L loan is where you plan to build the house.
– Total cost of construction is expected to be Rs. 1.5 crore in 2.5 years.

Now your goal is to avoid large top-up or second loan.
So let’s create surplus for that.

EMIs vs. Loan Tenure Strategy
– Current EMI is Rs. 1.31L for 7-year tenure.
– This is putting strain on your monthly budget.
– Your plan is to either:

Convert EMI to 30 years and save cash

Or continue 7 years and do top-up later

Let’s evaluate both routes:

Route A – Extend tenure to 30 years
– EMI will reduce drastically to around Rs. 45–50K.
– You will free up around Rs. 80K monthly.
– Over 30 months, that can create Rs. 24L savings.
– This money can be part-used for construction.
– But total interest paid over 30 years becomes very high.
– You can always prepay later and reduce tenure.

Route B – Stick to 7-year EMI and top-up later
– EMI remains Rs. 1.31L.
– Surplus will remain tight, hard to save for construction.
– Top-up later adds more interest burden on future.
– This option delays construction start.
– Will increase dependency on external loan at higher rate.

Better choice is to combine both approaches smartly.
Do tenure restructuring now.
Then save aggressively for construction over 2.5 years.
Later, use minimal top-up only if needed.

Monthly Cash Flow After EMI Restructuring
– Assume EMI revised to Rs. 50K.
– You now save Rs. 80K from EMI.
– Continue Rs. 55K SIP.
– This leaves you approx Rs. 25K extra monthly.

– Park this Rs. 25K in short-duration debt funds or RDs.
– Over 2.5 years, you can accumulate Rs. 7–8L.

– Also consider reducing SIP slightly for 30 months.
– Bring SIP down from Rs. 55K to Rs. 40K temporarily.
– That frees another Rs. 15K per month.
– Total monthly savings now = Rs. 25K + Rs. 15K = Rs. 40K.
– Over 2.5 years, you can save Rs. 12L+ for construction.

– Combine this with Rs. 20L emergency corpus if needed.
– But keep at least Rs. 10L untouched as pure emergency.

Construction Budget of Rs. 1.5 Crore – Planning Sources
– Total requirement in 2.5 years = Rs. 1.5 crore.
– Assume 3 stages of payout:

Foundation: Rs. 50L

Structure and finishing: Rs. 50L

Final fitting, interiors and overheads: Rs. 50L

Probable source mix you can aim:
– Rs. 12–15L from savings (as explained above)
– Rs. 5–10L from stocks + partial SGB maturity (if held till 2028)
– Rs. 10–15L from gold, if ready to part with some
– Balance Rs. 1–1.1 crore via fresh construction loan or top-up

– Try to build in phases and link payouts to stages.
– Use contractor agreements with stage-wise delivery and payment.

Evaluate Property Usage: Flat and Plot
– Flat value is Rs. 20–30L.
– If not emotionally attached, consider selling.
– Use proceeds to fund home construction.
– You reduce fresh loan burden by 20–30L.

– Or, if flat is rented, keep it as passive income source.
– Check if flat sale attracts LTCG tax.
– If gains are used to buy/construct house, tax is exempt.

– Avoid using plot worth Rs. 40L for loan pledge.
– Keep it clean as future safety net.

Your Mutual Fund SIPs Are Well-Structured
– SIP of Rs. 55K monthly since 2 years is excellent.
– You are creating future corpus for child and retirement.

– But during construction phase, reduce SIPs moderately.
– Ensure you resume original SIPs once construction is done.
– Do not stop completely.
– Equity SIPs help beat inflation in long-term.

– Review SIPs once a year.
– Focus on active funds only.
– Index funds do not offer strategy or protection during market fall.
– Regular funds with help from Certified Financial Planner are better.

– Avoid direct funds unless you can monitor and rebalance regularly.
– Regular funds through MFD gives support and discipline.

Protecting Future Goals – Child and Retirement
– You have a 7-year-old daughter.
– Education expenses will begin in 10 years.
– Create separate SIP folio for her education goal.
– Start small but increase SIP yearly.

– Use mix of large-cap and flexi-cap equity funds.
– Avoid aggressive small-cap for this goal.
– Sukanya Samriddhi Scheme can be a good safe option.

– For retirement, aim to restart VPF or NPS contributions later.
– Let SIP build retirement corpus in equity over 20 years.
– After 50 years of age, slowly move to hybrid funds.

Insurance Protection Check
– Ensure term insurance for both of you.
– Coverage should be minimum 15–20 times annual income.
– Health insurance should be Rs. 15–20L per person.
– Don't rely on employer cover only.
– Review existing insurance, if any.
– Avoid endowment or ULIP policies.
– If you have them, surrender and redirect to SIPs.

Tax Planning Consideration
– Home loan interest and principal gives tax benefit under sections 80C and 24.
– Construction loan also eligible once certificate obtained.
– SGB interest is taxable annually.
– Capital gains from gold, property and mutual funds attract different tax rules.

– Equity mutual fund LTCG above Rs. 1.25L taxed at 12.5%.
– STCG taxed at 20%.
– Debt mutual fund gains are taxed as per income slab.
– Plan redemptions keeping tax thresholds in mind.

Final Insights
– Keep EMI affordable by extending tenure.
– This frees cash for future construction.
– Reduce SIP for 2–3 years to boost construction fund.
– Sell or lease idle flat if it helps reduce loan burden.
– Keep Rs. 10L emergency fund untouched.
– Don’t touch education corpus for construction.
– Split construction cost into phases to reduce pressure.
– Resume normal SIPs after construction is over.
– Avoid overexposure to loans to protect future stability.
– Review goals and investments every year with help from a Certified Financial Planner.

Best Regards,
K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,
Chief Financial Planner,
www.holisticinvestment.in
https://www.youtube.com/@HolisticInvestment

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