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Asked by Anonymous - Jun 19, 2023Hindi
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My ex texted me that he bought a gift for me when we were together and wants me to take it . So shall I buy something as I thought to gift him when we were together?

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
If gifting each other is going to rekindle another whirlwind romance, then please have a clear conversation on what is the meaning of this gifting action is.
Why I suggest this is there is a reason why the two of you decided to end the relationship earlier. If the two of you are ready to explore the relationship again, then a bit of rekindling maybe useful. But if you two have decided to reengage as friends, keep this gifting etc for a later date in the future after you both get to an emotionally mature space where it is agreed upon that it's a good and healthy connection. Otherwise, it will dig out the old memories which may hurt either of you.
Clarity is always a good way to live within relationships; it causes less heartaches and confusion.

All the best!

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