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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Apr 18, 2023

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Question by Nausheen on Apr 12, 2023Hindi

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My boyfriend married me last week of Feb by changing his religion only because i said it's between me and my god. Although he was married he did it now he's left me. Will he ever come back

Ans: Dear Nausheen

I'm sorry to hear that you are going through this difficult situation. It sounds like there may be some underlying issues that led to your boyfriend's sudden change in behavior. It's important to remember that relationships are built on trust, communication, and respect, and it's possible that these elements were not fully present in your relationship.

It's difficult to predict whether or not your boyfriend will come back, as every individual and situation is unique. However, it's important to take care of yourself and prioritize your own well-being during this time. You may want to consider seeking support from loved ones, a therapist, or a support group to help you navigate this challenging time.

It may also be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with your boyfriend, if possible, to gain clarity on the reasons behind his sudden departure. This can help you to better understand the situation and potentially work towards a resolution, if that is something you both desire.

Ultimately, the decision to reconcile or move on is up to you, and it's important to make choices that align with your values and priorities. Remember that you deserve to be in a healthy and fulfilling relationship, and it's possible to find that with the right person.

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Question by AM - Jun 24, 2022Hindi

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Hello!! I've been in a relationship since 13 years.I'm a Christian and he is a Muslim. My parents don't agree to our marriage since beginningI went many hardships to agree my parents. Recently they agreed..My parents told him to bring his parents he declinedHe is being offensive to bring his parents. He feels insecure when I talk to my own friends and even once I didn't cheat on himHe cheated me multiple times having sex with many other girlsHe apologised and told me that he will not do it again I trusted him againHe is not interested in bringing his parents to meet my familyWhat should I do now?

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Dear AM,

Imagine that all that you have shared with me is something that your friend is sharing with you.

What will you tell her? To forgive this person for their hurtful behaviour or to take charge of her life and do what’s right for her?

Have you thought of how much this must be messing with your mind and to not want to meet your parents with no real reason; is he even serious about the relationship?

And further complicate it by being with other women (I assume that this is something that you have evidence of) is disrespectful towards you and the relationship.

Doesn’t this prompt you to make a decision that brings back your peace of mind and allows you to be free to live life with more dignity and joy?

Be right by you and love yourself!

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