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Anchal Question by Anchal on Apr 12, 2023Hindi
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Hi mam My best friend leave me because I didn't listen her what I do

Ans: Dear Anchal,
If your best friend had decided to leave you because you didn't listen to her, was she actually your best friend?

Do not ever feel bad about this as it would have been a but kind on her part to have fully heard you out before taking such a big step. Nevertheless, you should by now know who to befriend and who to keep at a distance. For your peace of mind, wish her well and move on...if in the future, she wants to come back to be friends, kindly sort this issue out before you get all happy and friendly again.

All the best!

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I'm Actually what happened was, I have my friend a week before, we had our great friendship for a couple of days, as cuz she is new in the hostel she don't know anyone so I'm her 1st friend, level of friendship is like she spends almost 16-17 hrs of the day with me like from morning 8 to night 1-2 pm She is sleeping or doing her stuffs all the time and I'm doing my online lectures and studying with her After a couple of days a guy, being jealous of me, tell her bad things about me (badbitching), Then she started GHOSTING me Now neither she came to talk to me nor i go Now I'm in dilemma whether i should go to talk to her or leave her Or should i tell my friend to talk to her Bcuz, i dont want to lose her Kindly help me to get out of the dillemaaaa????
Ans: Dear Anonymous,

I am sorry that you are being ghosted by someone you thought was a friend. You have two options- one, you wait and watch if she comes around. Two, give one shot at having an open dialogue with her. You can directly ask her what has happened and if she mentions the things she heard about you, you can try and clear it up. Now, she might not want to speak to you owing to whatever it is that she heard. I suggest not trying to convince her because it is her choice and you should not be intruding. Moreover, a real friend would have asked you about the things she heard, instead of ghosting you. It is not on you to clear your name, especially when you have not done those things. Aim for better friendships instead of trying to fix the new ones that did not turn out the way you wanted them to.

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