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41 and Single, Feeling Drawn to My Widow Maid: What Should I Do?

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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Apr 16, 2025

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Asked by Anonymous - Apr 15, 2025Hindi
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Hi I am 41 year old single in my house my maid is working she is widow everytime I am thinking about him and had feeling. Please let me know how to tackle the situation.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Please find a replacement for the maid!

All the best!
Anu Krishna
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