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Asked by Anonymous - Oct 05, 2024
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I am 29 years old man we have maid who is elder than me and married. I am getting attracted towards her. I want to get into relationship with her how to proceed

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Just imagine a situation where this maid cries 'foul' after your association and then you have to live within the same apartment/society/surrounding.
Oooops, and she's not attracted towards you, then why are you all over the place on this one? Better to focus on your life and it might help to find another maid to work at your place.

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Asked by Anonymous - Jun 29, 2024Hindi
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I'm around 54 years married to a widow who had two kids around 14 years back. Her behaviour towards me most of the time is very rude. she doesnt keep anhy relation with my family members and always has a grudge on them without any reason, due to which i have no physical relation with her, just Im staying in the house. Now I have met a female who is married with two kids and working as a cleaning staff, her husband is useless and not working for the last four years and she is running her house with her salary. I have been meeting her for the last eight months and would like to continue the relation, even she is very much interested, but due to family constraints she is not able to come out of the married relation she has. I take care of her and her kids day to day needs. So how do I go ahead with is relation ? Im a bit confused
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
You are trying to search for a wife and a family in the other lady and her children; something that you are unable to find in your own home.
How much longer do you want to live two parallel lives? Decide whether you want to continue with your marriage and work at making it work...OR find solace with another lady and her family. 8 years is a long time BUT any relationship that comes out of a need ceases to exist when the need is over or gone. What will happen when this cleaning staff lady stops wanting your money or attention? Will you then jump into another relationship?
How you go ahead in this relationship is something only you will know. Someone is bound to get hurt...Also, you seem to definitely care about family. How will they react to all of this?
Consider a few important things before you jump to any conclusions...

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Asked by Anonymous - Oct 02, 2024Hindi
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Hi Madam. I am married from last one and half years now, there has been numerous fights in between small and big ones both. In between this time I have become a mother, and, my baby is 7 months old now. My husband does nothing, did nothing in past one and half years. He is only occupied with his work all the time, he goes to office everyday mostly. Right now my baby is 7 months old and from last 7 months me and my parents are taking care of the baby. And, he absolutely shows no understanding when it comes to looking after the baby. Am also a working person. Moreover I pay all the bills when it comes to getting household stuff, paying rent, all the expenses related to baby. He is so shameless that he just doesn’t care too, when I pick these topics or raise concerns about handling the baby he gets abusive. I am not sure what to do now! How insensible can a person get if no one sees my husband would never feel that person like him exist in this world. I feel like filing a divorce petition now. He was the one who wanted to have baby so soon. I was never ready. Now when I have the baby I am the only person along with my parents and sister looking after the baby.
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Your husband wants a family without responsibilities and that's why neither is he interested in the baby nor in paying the bills...This is not just insensitivity but lack of emotional immaturity and the unwillingness to take on responsibilities head on...Approach a senior male member within the family who is someone that has been a role model to others in terms executing family responsibilities and is also caring and affectionate. This person can appeal to your husband and talk some sense into him.

If there's no one that fits the bill, the only option is to go to a professional for Couples Therapy. There's a reason why your husband avoids his duties as a husband and father and that needs to be uncovered and sorted out. It will also help the two of bond and connect better. Make this attempt before jumping into divorce; separating is a whole different world that comes with its own set of challenges and with the baby now in the picture, work at the marriage and putting things together.

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Hi, I am interested in retail angel investing for startups. I have heard that there are platforms where retail investors can start investment with as less as 50K or 1 lakh. Is it true? And is it legal? If it is, can you kindly inform me of a few platforms where I can join and invest. Thank you.
Ans: Yes, retail angel investing for the startup is definitely possible; however, it is perfectly legal in India if it happens according to the rules and regulations provided by SEBI- The Securities and Exchange Board of India. One would say that angel investing is all about being a rich person. Well, not anymore. Today, with some of the online portals, you can even invest in starting up with as little as ?50,000 or ?1 lakh. That is a huge plus for retail investors like you who would like to support early-stage ventures but do not have big amounts of capital.

You must be wondering if really small amounts of investment are legal. The good news is that, yes, they are, but they have to happen through regulated channels. SEBI has put forth guidelines under the Alternative Investment Fund (AIF) category so that the process is above board. These platforms connect investors to startups in a structured way and offer transparency with legal safety. Therefore, it is a very risky proposition- the very nature of angel investing means you're essentially betting on new startups. Most of the time, companies either hit huge or hit nothing. Therefore, as mentioned before, legal and accessible always consider the risks and make the right decision.

About the platforms, in India, few are especially for retail investors looking for angel investing. A few of the popular ones are AngelList, LetsVenture, and Tyke. Here you have all these startups at different levels looking to raise funds. It enables you to go through the startups, see what their business models are, and pick the ones you find believable to have some potential. What's so fascinating about these platforms is the way they help to amalgamate smaller investments coming in from many individuals to cater to the needs of the startup. So, even if you are just putting in ?1 lakh, you become a part of a much larger group of investors, making it relatively easy for the startup to raise funds as required.

Now, although your investment sum is smaller, this also has to be approached with caution. You will have to research the backgrounds of these startups, their business plans, and the sectors they focus on. Given that this is a game of high risks, you also want to invest in a few different kinds of startups to differentiate your risk a bit. Furthermore, the other thing that might build up from these platforms would be the provision of access to due diligence reports and investor meetups, which would make you even more confident in making decisions regarding your investments.

In short, Yes, you can begin angel investing with relatively small amounts and some platforms help retail investors like you to get legally involved and safely. Just do your homework right, do some more research, talk to people who have been in the same situation, take some risks, and be patient- it's all part of the exciting journey of startup investing.

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