i am 44 widow, have lost my husband in 2015, but recently have in relation with my colleague but he is married and younger than me
Ans: Dear Sangeeta,
What is your question? I only can assume that you are confused about being in a relationship with your married colleague.
Yes, it can become an ugly mess when his wife finds out...also, when there are so many other eligible men out there, why would you choose a married man and taking in all the complications that will come with it?
And mind you, the moment his wife gives him the ultimatum, he will run away from this before he even has a chance to tell you or explain anything to you.
So, spare yourself of all this unwanted excitement and anguish and invite people who will respect you for who you are and where you are in your life at this moment.
All the best!