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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Jul 21, 2023

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Asked by Anonymous - Jul 20, 2023Hindi
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I am 25, working and my parents want me to get married soon. There are so many expectations from everyone that I am confused. What are some of the things to consider before getting married? Can you please help.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Kindly step in for yourself and decide whether you want to marry or not OR when you want to marry. Expectations from family is something that you cannot avoid as each of them have a little something that they dream through you. Having said that, know that you are the Captain of your ship...so steer it in the direction that you want.
When you are clear about it, you will notice the same family members rallying around you and supporting you...
The things that you can consider before marriage:
1. What do you look for in your life partner?
2. What are some of the things that are an absolute MUST HAVE in your life partner?
3. What are some of the things that are a deal breaker for you?
4. What is really important to you in life and does that match with what your life partner wants?

Whoever you choose, do know that arguments are a part of any relationship or marriage and at that time what can keep you both afloat is the sole reason as to why you chose to be in each others' lives.

All the best!

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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Jun 15, 2024

Asked by Anonymous - Jun 09, 2024Hindi
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Hie I need an advice about marriage, I am 28 years old and wants to marry a guy who is younger than me, however earns good salary. Also we are from different caste. I am afraid of having conversation about this with my parents and also I am confused that how to have this conversation with my parents. He loves me a lot and always support me. Also i got engaged with different person (arranged marriage), however that person broke the engagement and now I wont be able to trust and give chance to a new person to come into my life.
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Why exactly did you get engaged with someone else when you say that you are in love with another person?
I don't get this...Have the conversation with you parents stating clearly what you want. Yes, your parents will and might oppose it for whatever reason, but if you and the boy are serious, then pursue it...
Then where is the question of a new person coming and your trusting etc. From your email/letter, one thing is clear to me is that: you have no idea what you want. You love someone and say that you want to marry him and then you go and get engaged to someone else and now you are wondering if you can trust someone new.
What is going on? What happens to your 'guy'? Are you serious about that relationship at all?
I think you really need to first sit and have a conversation with yourself and then talk to your parents, yeah?

All the best!
Anu Krishna
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