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Coworker Stealing My Ideas: What Should I Do?

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Asked by Anonymous - Mar 21, 2025Hindi

Career

What should you do if a coworker or manager criticises your ideas and then takes credit for them later in front of the boss?

Ans: Hello
Such things don't have long shelf life. Sooner or later things unfold on their own and people do tend to know the reality.
Hence it should not bother you much instead focus on real values/stuff as being innovative, sincere and a team player and results will speak on their own.
All the Best!!

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Dear Mayank, My boss has a habit of stealing my ideas. The idea is mine, but the boss presents it as hers. I have talked to her about this but she says it is a team effort. Once, she got very angry and said I was self-centred and if I did not like the job I should leave. Jobs are not easy to get plus I like the place. At the same time, I do want credit for my ideas. Can you please help? Thanks

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The best way to handle this is to document your ideas through emails.

Also, a discussion with your manager's manager to share your ideas will give the message that you mean business.

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How to deal with favouritism at work? Isn't it unfair? What should one do?

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I am 25, I work under a manager who constantly criticizes my work, no matter how hard I try. It’s been a year now that it is starting to affect my self-esteem. I’m not sure if it’s their leadership style or if I’m genuinely not good enough. How can I handle such situations without losing my confidence?

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Was this a sudden change or has it been like this since you joined the company?
Do others who report to the same manager feel the same like you do? If not, you may start looking at what gap exists in what you do and perceive and fix that. Also, it would be mature to actually have a one-on-one meeting the manager and take an honest feedback on your work. That will give you an idea on what your performance level has been. Have you been meetings targets, deadlines and living up to the expectations the company has of you when you were hired?
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Asked by Anonymous - Mar 21, 2025Hindi

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How can you handle a coworker who takes ideas from others, dismisses them as silly but later repackages the same idea and presents it before the boss without acknowledging or sharing credit for the inspiration?

Ans: Hi!!

Thankfully this is your co-worker and not your boss. When bosses do this you can do nothing about it....when the co worker does it then you know that you should never share your ideas with them ever again. In the cut throat competitive world why will they share the credits for it with you...!T he way you have asked the question, it shows that you are a good person, good people should not change because of the bad people in the world. So my advice to you is this ...the coworker is selling your ideas.. the boss is liking them, so have faith in yourself and your ideas.
Every bad experience happens so that you become wiser.
Become wise do not share your ideas with people who don't give you credit.

Other option is you talk to him/her assertively, one on one and ask why he/she did this....calling your idea silly and then repackaging it and presenting before the boss. Next time he/she will be careful not to do this to you.

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