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HR Expert - Answered on Apr 05, 2022

Mayank Rautela is the group chief human resources officer at Apollo Hospitals.
A management graduate from the Symbiosis Institute of Management Studies with a master's degree in labour laws from Pune University, Rautela has over 20 years of experience in general management, strategic human resources, global mergers and integrations and change management.... more
Anonymous Question by Anonymous on Apr 05, 2022Hindi
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Dear Mayank,
My boss has a habit of stealing my ideas.
The idea is mine, but the boss presents it as hers.
I have talked to her about this but she says it is a team effort. Once, she got very angry and said I was self-centred and if I did not like the job I should leave.
Jobs are not easy to get plus I like the place.
At the same time, I do want credit for my ideas.
Can you please help?
Thanks

Ans:

Hi.

The best way to handle this is to document your ideas through emails.

Also, a discussion with your manager's manager to share your ideas will give the message that you mean business.

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